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Re: Afzal
Sunny,

Thanks!

posted by afzal50 on August 13, 2007 at 8:23 PM | link to this | reply

Afzal
Sometimes life can be cruel, baby. (Hugs & so much love)

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on August 13, 2007 at 8:19 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Sometimes I fear backlash, but
Frankenkitty,

Thanks!

posted by afzal50 on August 13, 2007 at 5:26 PM | link to this | reply

Sometimes I fear backlash, but
sometimes I feel it is not my place to get involved.  I also worry about karma, that if I'm wrong in my judgement it will come back to me ten fold.  This may be an irrational thought, but it's how I feel sometimes.  Take care Afzal50

posted by Flumpystalls3000 on August 13, 2007 at 5:25 PM | link to this | reply

Re: most people fear it
libbyt,

Thanks !

posted by afzal50 on August 13, 2007 at 5:07 PM | link to this | reply

Re: I dont know why but youre right
angel of the night ,

Thanks!

posted by afzal50 on August 13, 2007 at 5:07 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Thought provoking post, Afzal
RaeS,

Thanks!

posted by afzal50 on August 13, 2007 at 5:06 PM | link to this | reply

Re: afzal
johnmacnab,

Thanks!

posted by afzal50 on August 13, 2007 at 5:06 PM | link to this | reply

most people fear it

but the 10% of people who dont get criticised fro being different

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posted by libbyt on August 13, 2007 at 4:02 PM | link to this | reply

I dont know why but youre right

posted by dark_mistress_again on August 13, 2007 at 4:00 PM | link to this | reply

Thought provoking post, Afzal

posted by Katray2 on August 13, 2007 at 3:20 PM | link to this | reply

afzal
Most people are afraid of some kind of backlash, afzal.

posted by johnmacnab on August 13, 2007 at 1:55 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Afzal
Troosha ,

Thanks for the encouraging words . God bless you !

posted by afzal50 on August 13, 2007 at 11:09 AM | link to this | reply

Afzal
I think we all possess the inner stength to push through adversity and to be held accountable for our actions.  Some days we're more vulnerable than others but we just have to shake if off and move forward. 

posted by Troosha on August 13, 2007 at 11:03 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Yes, the answer is in weakness
Whysper,

You are always so inspiring my friend . Thanks !

posted by afzal50 on August 13, 2007 at 10:59 AM | link to this | reply

Yes, the answer is in weakness
You have to stand up to inevitability and face the reaction to your actions. Avoidance only prolongs agony, and increases the inevitable pain. Choose to be strong, and you will be. Strength of character is a choice.

posted by Whysper on August 13, 2007 at 10:56 AM | link to this | reply

Re: another of your posts that makes me think
callista ,

You have expanded the idea of my post so well . YOu have given a new dimension worthy of serious attention . Thanks!

posted by afzal50 on August 13, 2007 at 10:41 AM | link to this | reply

Re: afzal - I think sometimes it is out of sheer ignorance.
FoliageGold ,

You have a point . Thanks!

posted by afzal50 on August 13, 2007 at 10:40 AM | link to this | reply

another of your posts that makes me think

who is strong and who is weak?  i have done many things that appear weak, but then people didnt realize how much strength it took for me to do what i did.

then on the other hand, people have told me "you are always so strong," without knowing how many times i wish i could just be weak. 

sometimes i dont know the reasons i do things, or dont do them, so i am neither weak nor strong.

posted by jeansaw on August 13, 2007 at 10:15 AM | link to this | reply

afzal - I think sometimes it is out of sheer ignorance.

posted by FoliageGold on August 13, 2007 at 10:06 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Human nature is often weak...
Chilitree,

Thanks !

posted by afzal50 on August 13, 2007 at 9:50 AM | link to this | reply

Human nature is often weak...

posted by Chilitree on August 13, 2007 at 9:34 AM | link to this | reply