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Live2Write
I know. I hear you. What you're asking is: Can a leopard change his spots? Well..... I knew a lady once of whom befriended a murderer in jail. She was a reporter and interviewed him. Over time she fell in love with him. After he was released from prison, they began a love affair. She went missing for over 48 hours. They found her car by the side of the road. He lead investigators to her body. So, I dunno. What I'm saying here is this.... once someone has experienced something, it's imprinted on their brain, it's there for life. There's no escapting it. He pushed the boundaries, felt the adrenaline rush......... Trust is a heavy burden to learn.
posted by
FoliageGold
on May 10, 2007 at 5:51 PM
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Re: Live2Write
The question I always struggle with is... Is this a permanent situation or can there be anything that turns it around and brings him back some day? Is love really an eternal feeling? Or can it really fade away forever? I am romantic, naive... I would love to find out that fairy tales can be created in real life if we try, want and fight for what we love!
posted by
live2write
on May 9, 2007 at 7:22 AM
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Re: You read your husband email and found him cheating on you
Send me a few lines from your charming ways, they will sure come handy!
posted by
live2write
on May 9, 2007 at 7:17 AM
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You read your husband email and found him cheating on you
Well dear...there is only one thing to do..Answer her email in your most charming way..I can lend you a few lines from my charming ways if you like...Seriously I would answered her email and let him sweat!! Course after all that I still would have had the last laugh..You probably already did, but at the time of discovery....there is nothing that can temper your anger like a good email...Look forward to hearing what you did!
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Offy
on May 8, 2007 at 2:23 PM
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Live2Write
My two cents for what it's worth. Emotionally, when spouses behave in this way, they've left their mates. Looking forward to reading you. Welcome to Blogit. --Mary
posted by
FoliageGold
on May 8, 2007 at 2:14 PM
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Re: If you can leave him, do it right away, it may seems hard, but if you don't
I replied, since I do not want to change the rythm I am giving to my blog, and it has not gotten here yet. But so you know, I have been separated from him for more than a year now. That night/morning I confronted him and next day I packed all his belongings and sat them at the door so he would pick them up before the girls returned from school... Keep reading my blog to find out the details...
Regards,
L2W
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live2write
on May 8, 2007 at 5:24 AM
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If you can leave him, do it right away, it may seems hard, but if you don't
SUFFER THE WHOLE LIFE, YOU ARE IN CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE..........
posted by
star4sky5
on May 7, 2007 at 8:29 PM
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Interesting , I shall wait to read .Good post.
posted by
afzal50
on May 7, 2007 at 5:37 PM
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