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Re: The truth can hurt too. Truth or lie, if "she" leaves you, you're hurt for
You're right about truth hurting and there's no help for that. I will forgive a mistake but if treachery is thought of, planned and then carried out, that is unforgivable. The one that does this to me is certainly my enemy. I'm a good friend but I'm a
VERY good enemy! Guy
posted by
northsage_45
on April 25, 2007 at 7:02 AM
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Re: I have an old saying,
Thanks, Strat. I'm bloodied but unbowed, scarred and sad, but much wiser. Everyone is motivated at least
partly by self-interest and experience makes us question that which wouldn't have occured to our trusting, younger selves. Guy
posted by
northsage_45
on April 25, 2007 at 6:54 AM
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The truth can hurt too. Truth or lie, if "she" leaves you, you're hurt for
a long time, usually. Like say, 20 years...
posted by
scriber
on April 25, 2007 at 6:25 AM
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I have an old saying,
I'll BS you all day long but I'll never, ever lie to you.
Tall tales and shaggy dog stories are one thing, hurtful, insidious deception quite another.
Hang in there!
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strat
on April 25, 2007 at 6:05 AM
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Re: No lies, ever
If you knew what trusting a liar did to me, you would understand how motivated I became to NEVER, NEVER make it possible for ANYone else to feel as devastated I did because of a lie
I told. There are people who deserve an empty life and
slow painfull death. It will probably
happen to them because of
themselves, but
not because of me! If not, others will have to decide to make it happen. I can't explain it any better than that. It actually
did change my life because I didn't earn it and didn't deserve it. Usually the hard way is the
only way to learn. I LEARNED! If there actually
is an afterlife I'll despise her for a million years after the last star burns out, but nothing will change my decision to not
ever lie again. Guy
posted by
northsage_45
on April 24, 2007 at 6:00 PM
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not one lie? not even one?
posted by
Blue_feathers
on April 24, 2007 at 5:25 PM
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