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honesty, forgivness or asking for forgivness... Whatever it takes to repair the problem with both parties maintaining their dignity is the best way, but often difficult.
posted by
Justi
on April 10, 2007 at 7:19 PM
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kat02,
Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on April 10, 2007 at 5:44 PM
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Afzal
I believe It would depend on what I have done , But me being me ,I would explain why I did what I did , Then never vow to do it again
posted by
Kat02
on April 10, 2007 at 5:39 PM
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sunny,
I like you for your analytical mind . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on April 10, 2007 at 5:34 PM
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OTA,
Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on April 10, 2007 at 5:32 PM
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SUNNY,
I have sent the link just now . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on April 10, 2007 at 5:32 PM
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Ariala,
Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on April 10, 2007 at 5:31 PM
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Ariala,
Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on April 10, 2007 at 5:31 PM
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Afzal
Be forewarned...my connection isn't great tonight.

So if I should not make it to chat after you ring....that will be the reason, but if it happens, I will keep trying.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on April 10, 2007 at 5:29 PM
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Afzal
I guess it would depend on what the misunderstanding was, and how deeply it has affected the person.
I guess A. definitely...other than that, it depends.
If I had deeply hurt someone, I would explain my reasoning, or my failure to understand.
If E. is valid and an option, maybe that too.
I guess whatever the situation, I would do whatever it takes to heal any feelings that may have been hurt.
Like I said, it depends on the situation....sometimes just saying sorry is enough. Other times, it may take some real time spent with the person, just loving them and paying special attention to them for a while, to ensure they know they are loved and nothing is hurting the relationship.

posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on April 10, 2007 at 5:26 PM
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all of the above..
posted by
Blue_feathers
on April 10, 2007 at 5:23 PM
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I think I would do all of the above :-)
posted by
Ariala
on April 10, 2007 at 4:39 PM
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