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without knowing details of any conflabs around here
i really enjoyed reading the part of Afzal's blog that seemed like a strategy for reconciliation. I write on my own blog an interpretation of what I think he means. Only Afzar can tell me if I interpreted his remarks properly.

go here to read my take http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/JaahdaJinnah/

Jaahda - back now to doing a few more of those mini-reads :-)



posted by Jaahda on February 18, 2007 at 10:43 PM | link to this | reply

taking sides
leave them alone........though i mustadmit i do not have a friend as yet and would love to have someone who genuinely cares.

posted by tenny_A on February 18, 2007 at 10:16 PM | link to this | reply

Yes, Sally , Let's meet together in my courtyard and solve the issues over
a tea party.

posted by afzal50 on February 18, 2007 at 8:27 PM | link to this | reply

afzal, thanks for trying...I'll be back tomorrow. Hopefully by then, all
will be at peace once again.  I pray for it. G'nite.

posted by Ariala on February 18, 2007 at 8:25 PM | link to this | reply

Did somebody say Party?

posted by Offy on February 18, 2007 at 8:24 PM | link to this | reply

I am arranging for a tea part y .

posted by afzal50 on February 18, 2007 at 8:23 PM | link to this | reply

jaahda ,
I think our mind works on the same level .Thanks for stopping by !

posted by afzal50 on February 18, 2007 at 8:18 PM | link to this | reply

For the good of Blogit, I seriously hope we can leave all this behind and
start fresh. 

posted by Ariala on February 18, 2007 at 8:16 PM | link to this | reply

interesting afzal
kinda relates to my peace on earth blog. thanks for your comments. i can see you write on much i want to comment and blog about. i was also enjoying your chat about old people too. am i allowed to 'cite' other people's blogs within one of my own ?

posted by Jaahda on February 18, 2007 at 8:14 PM | link to this | reply

Passion, we were friends, once. What happened?

posted by shelly_b on February 18, 2007 at 8:14 PM | link to this | reply

Yeah we sure didn't!!!

posted by Offy on February 18, 2007 at 8:12 PM | link to this | reply

come on Passion... are you ready to kiss and make up yet?
Seriously, let us be your friends.   We never wanted it to be like this. 

posted by -blackcat on February 18, 2007 at 8:12 PM | link to this | reply

I have noticed
That it's very hard when a person blocks you just because you don't agree with them on everything. It's like if you don't see it my way well the heck with you I will block ya..Makes no sense..How can you get thru anything if you can't talk?



posted by Offy on February 18, 2007 at 8:12 PM | link to this | reply

Ariala... that's so incestous... kissing me, I mean yourself like that..LOL

posted by -blackcat on February 18, 2007 at 8:09 PM | link to this | reply

blackcat
 

posted by Ariala on February 18, 2007 at 8:08 PM | link to this | reply

Ariala... you're my vanilla ice. Ice ice baby.... LOL

posted by -blackcat on February 18, 2007 at 8:07 PM | link to this | reply

Passionflower, I apologize for offending you or whatever it is I did that
made you block me.  I still read you and enjoy your blogs...I really just want to get along.  Can we do that? 

posted by Ariala on February 18, 2007 at 8:06 PM | link to this | reply

I'd like to ask how we can say something to someone's face when
we're blocked from defending ourselves?

posted by -blackcat on February 18, 2007 at 8:01 PM | link to this | reply

Uh,,,Passion? HOW are we suppose to talk to you if we are all blocked???
Hmmmm...?  Btw...I invited you to talk in my blog.

posted by shelly_b on February 18, 2007 at 8:01 PM | link to this | reply

I just want to point out to Masky and others that I have been lied about

Gossiped about, made fun of behind my back, rediculed and black balled among other things. What gives you, Masky, and your friends the right to talk about me this way behind my back?

Did you think I wasn't going to get wind of it? Did you think I wasn't going to respond?

The only difference is that I have the BALLS to face my attackers head on instead of running my mouth behind their back. I don't whisper and gossip like you girls do. I say what I want to say to your faces.

Maybe some of you could learn a lesson or two from me. Most of you don't have the guts to say your BS to anyone's face though.

posted by Passionflower on February 18, 2007 at 7:58 PM | link to this | reply

Sister, I appreciate your suggestion . A very wise way to solve problems.

posted by afzal50 on February 18, 2007 at 7:36 PM | link to this | reply

IF YOUR CLOSEST ONE INVOLVED , TALK IN PRIVATE AND LET THEM KNOW WHERE
THEY ARE RIGHT OR WRONG.......

posted by star4sky5 on February 18, 2007 at 7:35 PM | link to this | reply

I got the Yesterday's one very late . I think there is some satellite
problem that is delaying the transmission . I love you.I have sent the link for you.

posted by afzal50 on February 18, 2007 at 7:27 PM | link to this | reply

Really? I sent it a few hours ago. Did you ever get the one I told you I
sent yesterday?

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on February 18, 2007 at 7:24 PM | link to this | reply

I have not recieved as yet .

posted by afzal50 on February 18, 2007 at 7:22 PM | link to this | reply

Afzal

Yes love. Did you get my sms?

 

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on February 18, 2007 at 7:15 PM | link to this | reply

Good evening Sunny,
I am glad you are here . Can I send the link after fifteen minutes . Will you be here for a while . I've missed you. Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on February 18, 2007 at 7:14 PM | link to this | reply

Afzal
I don't get involved in anything that doesn't directly affect me.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on February 18, 2007 at 7:13 PM | link to this | reply

CSLEAF,
Thanks for stopping by with you neutral view ,.

posted by afzal50 on February 18, 2007 at 7:12 PM | link to this | reply

A LIT CIGARETTE
A HAVE ALWAYS FOUND A LIT CIGARETTE HANDY, IF FLICKED AT THE ATTACHERS FACE THEY ALWAYS DUCK FOR COVER THIS GOES WITH ANY THROWN OBJECT, IT'S INSTINCT TO REACT AND DUCK GIVING A FEW SECOND ADVANTAGE.  BUT STAY NEUTRAL IS MY POLICY BUT FAIR FIGHTS ARE NO LONGER... SO USE WHAT YOU MUST IF YOU MUST.
-CSL

posted by CSLEAF on February 18, 2007 at 7:09 PM | link to this | reply

Masky,

posted by afzal50 on February 18, 2007 at 6:38 PM | link to this | reply

Very wise comment .

posted by afzal50 on February 18, 2007 at 6:38 PM | link to this | reply

Affy...
I usually spit first ask questions later if I'm being attacked.  Hasn't happened yet, but I've got lots of saliva on hand in case it does.  I usually spit first ask questions later if my friends names are being used without their permission particularly when those friends are fobrid from commenting.  It's so funny when that type of behavior is not viewed as venomous and caustic.  It is unless you're wearing beer goggles or blinders!  When it's all said and done I take a look around and see things have gotten way out of control then try to make light of the situation.  It's not about sides, Affy, there's 3 sides to every story...your's, mine, and the truth that gets stuck somewhere in the middle.

posted by ---Masky--- on February 18, 2007 at 6:15 PM | link to this | reply

kingmi,
That is what you do like a good school master . Thanks

posted by afzal50 on February 18, 2007 at 6:09 PM | link to this | reply

Lust,
Keep cool and take care .Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on February 18, 2007 at 6:08 PM | link to this | reply

afzal50, Pass. Just kidding. What I do is wade into the middle of the
fraccas and try to sew harmony.  I know, I'm an idiot.  I do that at school a lot.

posted by kingmi on February 18, 2007 at 6:07 PM | link to this | reply

RaeS,
I agree with you . Thanks .

posted by afzal50 on February 18, 2007 at 6:07 PM | link to this | reply

afzal
well this is a hard one for me since I usually dont know what is going on unless of course I have been drug into it

posted by Lanetay on February 18, 2007 at 6:06 PM | link to this | reply

Difficult when you genuinely like all parties involved..
A and E...(Arts and Entertainment Not!)

posted by Katray2 on February 18, 2007 at 6:05 PM | link to this | reply

Frankenkitty,
Thanks for stopping by !

posted by afzal50 on February 18, 2007 at 6:04 PM | link to this | reply

I leave them alone.
Arguments are how people set boundaries between eachother. Best not to get involved.  Take care Afzal

posted by Flumpystalls3000 on February 18, 2007 at 6:01 PM | link to this | reply