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food4thought,
Thanks for stopping by !
posted by
afzal50
on February 7, 2007 at 10:10 PM
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Afzal...
I haven't been posting as much, we worked 59 hours last week and it is gloomy winter here. I feel more like sleeping than anything.
posted by
food4thought
on February 7, 2007 at 10:09 PM
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Sunny,
Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on February 7, 2007 at 4:55 PM
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Justi,
Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on February 7, 2007 at 4:54 PM
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Afzal
I'm allergic to people.
I would almost never go out to socialize with someone that I'm not absolutely comfortable with. And that would be next to no one...so I don't find myself in those circumstances.
However...if I'm not sleeping or doing something constructive, I often feel like I'm wasting my time so much.
After I stopped working...I had felt guilty being home...for a LONG time. I feel like I'm not doing enough, not trying enough, not making enough. I would be completely stressed out all the time.
Many people consider sitting at home with two kids to be a joy and a privilege. Those people have never sat around feeling helpless, feeling like they have to handle everything on their own, without even being compensated. Having no money of their own. Feeling guilty even to have to buy socks and underwear for themselves with some of the child support money, because people will tell them it's supposed to be for the "child". They don't consider that you're a 24/7 free child care provider for the "absent" parent. Ok...I'm rambling, so I'm going to stop here.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on February 7, 2007 at 2:54 PM
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Afzal
An interesting post. Yes it is difficult to be without a computer.
posted by
Justi
on February 7, 2007 at 2:17 PM
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