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Sunny,
Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on January 29, 2007 at 6:24 AM
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Afzal
I wish I had a clear answer for you on this, unfortunately I don't.
I have told you recently that love, at least the kind that I have for you, is not a choice. Whether to have coffee or tea is a choice. Loving you is NEVER a choice, it just happens to be, and couldn't be any other way. 
This was very lovely sweetheart. 
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on January 29, 2007 at 6:22 AM
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Decshak,
Thanks for stopping by !
posted by
afzal50
on January 29, 2007 at 6:20 AM
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It comes naturally but depends on all the circumstances of your life, too,
including the chances that you will meet somebody totally compatible with you or who strikes your fancy in that way, for some reason....
posted by
WindTapper
on January 29, 2007 at 6:19 AM
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shadow-pen,
I agree with you. Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on January 29, 2007 at 6:00 AM
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Afzal - Isn't it strange that when that true love comes along..
the impossible becomes possible, the intolerable becomes tolerable and impatience becomes patience. Evolution starts again........
posted by
shadow-pen
on January 29, 2007 at 5:50 AM
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TC,
I am unable to disagree with you on the point because if some one is selected by you I don't think the person will be ever make a mistake so you need not worry.
posted by
afzal50
on January 29, 2007 at 2:44 AM
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Afzal...
I think we choose to love. To love is to accept someone unconditionally - not meaning we are blind to his or her faults - but that we are aware and love them anyhow. This can only come through careful and concentrated thought. I have met many men for whom I felt an intense attraction.... but had to decide if this was a person I could love unconditionally. Obviously - my answer has always been "no"... I feel that when the right man for me comes along... his faults will only endear him to me -not drive me from him.
posted by
Transcendental_Child
on January 29, 2007 at 2:25 AM
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mobedder,
Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on January 29, 2007 at 2:13 AM
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Excellent question.
Maybe we choose. Maybe it is destiny, when you gaze into eyes you just saw for the first time and end up swimming into someone's depth. Not ever forced though. Love's too lovely and precious to be forced so don't believe it could be.
This was very nice Afzal.
posted by
mobedder
on January 29, 2007 at 2:11 AM
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OFFBEATS,
Yes, I agree with you . Love should never be forced it should come naturally .By the way I am happy you are here . I did miss your posts and comments . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on January 29, 2007 at 1:48 AM
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Chilitree,
Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on January 29, 2007 at 1:47 AM
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afzal
Good morning....Love should never be forced otherwise it really isn't love is it?
posted by
Offy
on January 29, 2007 at 1:45 AM
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Afzal ... I dont know .... but wonderful it is!
posted by
Chilitree
on January 29, 2007 at 1:45 AM
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