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Chilitree ,

Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on January 10, 2007 at 10:18 AM | link to this | reply

Sunny,

Thanks for your sweet words of sympathy .I know you will always know me better and do always respect my feelings .

posted by afzal50 on January 10, 2007 at 10:18 AM | link to this | reply

ati2nd,

Thanks for stopping by with such a supportive comment .

posted by afzal50 on January 10, 2007 at 10:16 AM | link to this | reply

It depends entirely on where your heart is at. Thank you for sharing.

posted by Chilitree on January 10, 2007 at 9:55 AM | link to this | reply

Afzal

I'm sorry sweetie. I know this is really hard for you. I wish I had some easy answer. I wish there was a way to make them love you as they should.

It is unfortunate for someone to hurt another in this way without just cause. It is also unfortunate because this kind of thing happens a lot here. The custodial parents, don't allow the other to see the children, or they speak ill about them. They teach them nothing but hate.
It's always in my hopes that these children will grow to learn and see the truth.
Unfortunately, in your situation, this didn't happen.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on January 10, 2007 at 9:43 AM | link to this | reply

If it were at all possible, I'd say A and E.

But it sounds easy on paper.

posted by Julia. on January 10, 2007 at 9:32 AM | link to this | reply

With sincere respect and sadness for your situation ...

We all are met with this kind of situation ... one that pulls us in two separate directions.

It is always difficult to swallow our pride, and nearly impossible to choke back the hurt and anger ... but sometimes that is exactly what we have to do to move to the next step. It is I think, a process of healing when we regardless of the million things holding us back ... we still manage to find the courage, to do the thing that is best for US.

That is my suggestion and my hope for you ... to recognize what is best for you and to follow through without worry or regret. Try to ignore all of the she might, they will (whatever, etc.) because (1) They are not thinking in terms of what is best for you, so you must. (2) It is usually not nearly as bad, as we have imagined.

Strength, courage, forgiveness, and purpose ... may you be blessed with all of these so you can live with peace in your heart ... always.

posted by ati2d on January 10, 2007 at 9:32 AM | link to this | reply

Sunny,

I just looked at them from a distance and felt a serious pain in my heart bearing to be a witness to this and my helplessness . Sunny you know me better than anyone in this world . I am grateful to God that I have found you as a wonderful friend and fiance.Thanks for sympathising with me for you know me better than anyone in this world .

posted by afzal50 on January 10, 2007 at 9:28 AM | link to this | reply

Troosha,

I wish I could do that . Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on January 10, 2007 at 9:24 AM | link to this | reply

Afzal

Honey, I am so sorry. I know your situation, and I honestly don't know what to tell you. I would want that you could see him, but I wouldn't want that you are in some kind of confrontation with this vile woman.

It really upsets me that your kids are not more considerate, considering all you have done for them.