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presley
thanks.. I often smile when I think back to those days. 

posted by mneme on January 17, 2007 at 4:40 AM | link to this | reply

mneme
I liked your reference to the Bart Simpson hair-do.  It's lovely to watch our children grow into their own! 

posted by Presley on January 17, 2007 at 4:24 AM | link to this | reply

star4you
thank you - will stop by yours in a moment.

posted by mneme on January 17, 2007 at 2:16 AM | link to this | reply

joe love
ironically, she claims her own room is just as messy. I have noticed a small but growing collection of her things appearing around his room as sometimes she has to change here to go off to work. They are very cute, and last night he was "introduced to the family" over dinner.  

posted by mneme on January 17, 2007 at 1:48 AM | link to this | reply

that's awesome

posted by star4sky5 on January 15, 2007 at 9:51 AM | link to this | reply

If he's cleaning up his room and getting up early. . ,
I'd like the new girl too!! Heck yeah!!

posted by Joe_Love on January 14, 2007 at 9:51 AM | link to this | reply

johnmacnab
hmmm - a sort of hitchhikers guide to the galaxy junk transporter..? I think we have the makings of a fine article here, between us, do you think?

posted by mneme on January 13, 2007 at 11:32 PM | link to this | reply

mneme
...and that would result in what exactly, mneme?   Perhaps a large toolshed type dustbin?  Yes, you are revealing your origins ever so slightly, by jove.

posted by johnmacnab on January 13, 2007 at 6:44 PM | link to this | reply

avant-garde
it certainly is.. what I like is that it's brought out his protective side. I have experienced that myself a few times, and she is a lucky girl. They're so cute...

posted by mneme on January 13, 2007 at 4:07 AM | link to this | reply

mneme
Amazing what a cute little girl can accomplish, huh?

posted by avant-garde on January 13, 2007 at 3:46 AM | link to this | reply

symphony
how true that is...

posted by mneme on January 13, 2007 at 3:07 AM | link to this | reply

ahhh that's great....
Love does many things to ya...hehehe

posted by _Symphony_ on January 11, 2007 at 4:14 AM | link to this | reply

As a general comment, I was thinking that normally my title (Cherchez La Femme) is more often used in a negative context, in ways that suggest women, for a man, mean trouble.  I like to think of it in terms of bringing out the best in a man. In a world of extremes, and a sad lack of respect for women (present blogit company excepted), it's good to see a young man treat a girl well.  It's just the right thing to do.  

posted by mneme on January 11, 2007 at 3:34 AM | link to this | reply

Wiley
Thanks - and the hair looks great.

posted by mneme on January 11, 2007 at 3:22 AM | link to this | reply

Talion
What's nice to watch is his quiet confidence as he grows and matures. I like that he brought her home almost immediately, with no awkwardness. He's trained us not to embarass him LOL.

posted by mneme on January 11, 2007 at 3:21 AM | link to this | reply

richinstore
well, he's certainly woken from a deep sleep..!

posted by mneme on January 11, 2007 at 3:05 AM | link to this | reply

johnmacnab
I like it too, I'm obviously revealing my origins here.  And I don't know about a rotating garbage-can, perhaps not quite that bad - more a huge toolshed full of boys' toys... bits of engines, pieces of wood, tools that never get used and all that other stuff that can't be thrown out.. 

posted by mneme on January 11, 2007 at 3:04 AM | link to this | reply

Dave
That's a good idea...

posted by mneme on January 11, 2007 at 2:55 AM | link to this | reply

twisted mom
I've always been happier when I know the people my children spend time with - harder as they get older, but I'm lucky, he is happy to have his friends here often, and they are a nice crowd. Most are, I find, given the chance.

posted by mneme on January 11, 2007 at 2:53 AM | link to this | reply

afzal
it's early days yet, and thank you.

posted by mneme on January 11, 2007 at 2:51 AM | link to this | reply

mneme
I went through that hair business with my youngest son, guitar playing hippie. The army gave him the cut he needed, lol. I'm happy he's met a girl luv, for both of you.

posted by WileyJohn on January 10, 2007 at 5:53 PM | link to this | reply

Before I comment back to you all when I have more time, I want to add this while I think about it, after Talion's thoughts - these are the lyrics from Matt Monro's Love is a Many Splendoured Thing:

Love is a many-splendoured thing:
It's the April rose that only grows in the early Spring.
Love is nature's way of give a reason to be living:
The golden crown that makes man a king.

Once on a high and windy hill,
In the morning mist, two lovers kissed,
And the world stood still.
Then your fingers touched my silent heart and taught it how to sing.
Yes, true love's a many-splendoured thing!

Once on a high and windy hill,
In the morning mist, two lovers kissed,
And the world stood still.
Then your fingers touched my silent heart and taught it how to sing.
Yes, true love's a many-splendoured thing!

My uncle's wife had this played at his funeral, after nearly 50 years of marriage. I thought that was wonderful. She had good reason. 

 

posted by mneme on January 10, 2007 at 4:12 PM | link to this | reply

mneme
The girlfriend may be the catalyst, but such changes were already on the horizon. A woman's affection can bring out the best in a man, but it has to be there in the first place and he must be willing.  

posted by Talion on January 10, 2007 at 1:01 PM | link to this | reply

That's what I call ''love''.
Love can make a man do wonders ... it's like waking up from a deep, deep sleep!

posted by richinstore on January 10, 2007 at 6:28 AM | link to this | reply

mneme
I like the word 'prang,' mneme.  I haven't heard that for a long time.  Can you imagine what the world would look like without the influence of women on men?  A large rotating dustbin.

posted by johnmacnab on January 10, 2007 at 5:02 AM | link to this | reply

Mneme, he is in love. Go and buy yourself a new hat...

posted by _dave_says_ack_ on January 10, 2007 at 4:52 AM | link to this | reply

:)....whatever motivates change is good....and it is always nice when you like the one that your children is with...(I thankfully do not have to worry about that for a while...)

posted by twisted_mom on January 10, 2007 at 3:59 AM | link to this | reply

Pray they remain happy with each other .

posted by afzal50 on January 10, 2007 at 3:52 AM | link to this | reply