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Temple,
I appreciate your concern and sympathy . Thanks for reading this painful story and commenting to throw light on it and making me feel strong with your advise to move away from the situation .
posted by
afzal50
on December 16, 2006 at 10:01 PM
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afzal, do you really have to act if she is justified?
If I read this right, you are supporting her long after you are divorced, right? If the marriage didn't work, and you feel in your heart that you did your best, than you should let it go and be gentle with yourself. If you feel you could have done better, then ask yourself how, and examine those things to become a better person. As humans, that's all we can do. But, even if you could have done better, it sounds like a toxic situation and that you are not being respected. Can't you just walk away from it all? Stop paying money, stop having relationships with people that hurt you? Obviously this is a complicated situation and there is much I don't know. What I do know, afzal, is that we ALL deserve chances at love and happiness... and if we always try to be a good person, if we are learning and growing, we deserve respect and honor. I hope you find your way to freedom from that completely, and a new way of being. Love and light...
posted by
Temple
on December 16, 2006 at 9:57 PM
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Sunny,
I shall be here after one hour and be in the chat room as usaul after three hours . I love you.
posted by
afzal50
on December 16, 2006 at 5:44 PM
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Afzal
(((Honey))), I am lucky to have you in my life. You are so sweet.
I will be back later, love.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on December 16, 2006 at 5:39 PM
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Sunny,
You are the sweetest gift of Almighty to me .I promise, I will never let you down .You have always been a great support to me at times of my problem and worries .You are my inspiration to fight ordeals of life.You are an ideal lady who deserve to be blessed by all happiness and joy of this life .
I am grateful to God for showering his unbound bounty upon me by sending you in my life to take care of my wounds. I have no words to express my gratitude for all the sweet and timely support that you have been providing from so far as a light of heaven .
Sunny, I would invite the whole world to come and see a heart which is full of love , affection, and wisdom in the shape of a battered lady with so much pain in her own life yet never failing to love and help me instantly . I have found a soul mate in you and a real golden heart with plenty of love to embrace me with and let me forget worst of my past pains.
I love you .
posted by
afzal50
on December 16, 2006 at 5:15 PM
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babe rocks,
Thanks for stopping by!
posted by
afzal50
on December 16, 2006 at 4:55 PM
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Afzal
No sweetie, she is not justified. It is no one's right to make someone miserable for life.
You had just made the mistake of marrying her without truly knowing her. You were a good husband and never deserved to be under that kind of suspicion and pressure.
You had sacrificed so much of yourself for the relationship, which is in the nature of your kind heart. Some pain is just too hard to live with day after day, never feeling loved or appreciated.
You have sacrificed yourself for both of these women, who have not provided you with any understanding or appreciation for all of your sacrifices and efforts to live a happy married life.
I'm sorry that we were not able to talk more tonight. I know you were feeling so down about all of these past and present pains.
She is wrong darling, she will not make your life miserable forever, no matter how hard she tries.
I love you, and you will never be unloved or unappreciated as long as I am alive. I will love you when you need to be loved, I will listen to you when you need to talk, I will comfort you when you need to be comforted.
I hope you are ok, sweetie. You don't need all this stress in your life. It will all come to pass. They won't be able to hurt you anymore. 
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on December 16, 2006 at 11:55 AM
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You have two wives?´
posted by
babe_rocks
on December 16, 2006 at 11:26 AM
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