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terpgirl30,
Excellent comment . Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on November 29, 2006 at 9:35 AM | link to this | reply

In my neck of the woods we have a phrase

"upside the head with a lead snowshoe."  It sounds as painfully obvious as it sounds.  I think you could hit someone upside the head....with the snowshoe, and he wouldn't notice.  Just my personal opinion.  It has been my experience that when men are looking for someone they find anyone they think is cute, then figure they can ignore the personality or pretend it is something else.  The ex to be was constantly telling me what I had done for a living (which I hadn't), the way I spoke (which I didn't), etc.  Personality, not much has changed from me since high school.  I sort of like who I am now, and figure the right person will be the person who fits with that.  Otherwise, it will never work. 

So we keep looking.  I think it's more looking and figuring out the right person (for sure without it just being because you want someone) that is more important than giving the signs.  If it's right, you both will get it.

posted by terpgirl30 on November 29, 2006 at 9:09 AM | link to this | reply

Chilitree,
Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on November 29, 2006 at 1:36 AM | link to this | reply

Star4you,
Thanks for stopping by !

posted by afzal50 on November 29, 2006 at 1:35 AM | link to this | reply

I would just say so ... and see.

posted by Chilitree on November 28, 2006 at 10:27 PM | link to this | reply

some time it's ok to reveal, some times just keep in mind......

posted by star4sky5 on November 28, 2006 at 9:45 PM | link to this | reply

OFFBEATS,
Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on November 28, 2006 at 9:30 PM | link to this | reply

A card is always nice...flowers should come later and an email is just too unemotional..

posted by Offy on November 28, 2006 at 9:07 PM | link to this | reply

Sunny,
You are right my love .Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on November 28, 2006 at 9:03 PM | link to this | reply

Afzal
By any means possible. I don't think it should be kept hidden. Life is too short for that.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on November 28, 2006 at 9:00 PM | link to this | reply