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I didn't say goodbye. And right now I'm trying to sort all this out.
I had explained the situation and his involvment in it, in the email I sent you.
As for the "other", I got one continuous responsive email. Was there others?
As for what was in the email, the only thing that really surprised me was the phone call. Everything else that was said, I already knew in advance.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on November 4, 2006 at 8:00 PM
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Star4you is a well-wisher for all. She has given a wise and practical suggestion. If it was love then it should not fall the way it seems to. Again, I do wish you well and that both of you come out unscathed from all this.
posted by
Bhaskar.ing
on November 4, 2006 at 7:25 PM
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Star, thanks
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on November 4, 2006 at 6:59 PM
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Sunny and Afzal, I have a suggestion, try this out
If you guys are serious about your life, do not discuss your personal issue at here, because people from different view who never even know your intentions well, just make comments and that get heated to your life. So make sure you will discuss about your life in person, not in front of these in laws( like we do at home). Any relationship need some sort of privacy to nurture better. An open page cause too much of expose and further issues. I pray for your well. I hope both of you will be together as like you both wish.
posted by
star4sky5
on November 4, 2006 at 6:57 PM
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Bhaskar ,
Thanks .
posted by
afzal50
on November 4, 2006 at 6:51 PM
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Bhaskar, thanks.
It's not just the poem and what was said, but why it was said. There's a lot involved.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on November 4, 2006 at 6:43 PM
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Sunny and Afzal
Coming back after an hour, I'm surprised to see all this happen. I did try forewarn you Afzal that you may find yourself in troubled waters, but you chose to ignore it saying that I see too many things. And to you Sunny, Afzal probably did not mean it. He was too blinded by passion. I wish that you both sort it out without being angry or hurt at each other. I do wish both of you very well.
posted by
Bhaskar.ing
on November 4, 2006 at 6:41 PM
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Sunny,
I will explain to you when I chat with you my usual time . Please bear with me till then . I request you to please keep cool and let the storm and dust settle down .Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on November 4, 2006 at 6:34 PM
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babe_rocks
I'm being nice right now. Trust me on this.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on November 4, 2006 at 6:32 PM
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Afzal, debate? This is not a debate. This IS my life we are talking about.
You wanted this "controversy" remember? You brought all this upon yourself, after my requests that you don't do these things.
Debate? Is that how you viewed my love for you? As something to debate about?
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on November 4, 2006 at 6:31 PM
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I din't mean quit from your life but from this debate.
posted by
afzal50
on November 4, 2006 at 6:26 PM
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Be nice, everybody.‡
posted by
babe_rocks
on November 4, 2006 at 6:26 PM
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Afzal
That's all I needed to know. You quit, I'm not going to persue you. You can go on with your life, I will go on with mine.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on November 4, 2006 at 6:21 PM
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Sunny ,
I am grateful to all my friends and with due respect I quit . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on November 4, 2006 at 6:18 PM
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My vision and kindness? That's all you have to say?
After reading your lengthy response to all of us "friends" here in the US in your previous post. I really guess it doesn't leave much to wonder anyway.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on November 4, 2006 at 6:13 PM
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Sunny,
I appreciate your vision and kindness . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on November 4, 2006 at 6:11 PM
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I guess I have to ask too...who IS this for?
Though, I'm sure it's me, the cruel beloved. Somehow... Bhaskar's comment made a lot more sense to me than this poem did.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on November 4, 2006 at 6:08 PM
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Passion,
This is for myself . Thanks for your kindness.
posted by
afzal50
on November 4, 2006 at 6:06 PM
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Who is this one for???
Have you lost Sunny?
posted by
Passionflower
on November 4, 2006 at 5:55 PM
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Bhaskar,
I appreciate your talent . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on November 4, 2006 at 5:54 PM
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Afzal
Sorry, if I have seen too many things. Wish you all the best in your seeking, Afzal.
posted by
Bhaskar.ing
on November 4, 2006 at 5:51 PM
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Bhasker,
I think, you trying to read too many things in this poem .It is plain and simple . YOu can't philosphise every feeling and find sense.Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on November 4, 2006 at 5:44 PM
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'Down', 'Cruel Beloved', some 'Design' - Why all this if love is true? I somehow don't find these sentiments in consonance.......How can you for someone whom you really care? I didn't wan't to comment, but I couldn't stop myself. Just hold yourself together Afzal, and pls. do not get blinded or deluded. It may land you in troubled waters. And, if you can, excuse me for saying all this, because I generally don't butt in, but somehow these words made me do so.
posted by
Bhaskar.ing
on November 4, 2006 at 5:34 PM
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