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Afzal

Thanks, love. Have a great day. If you should need me later and can't find me, ring.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 9:14 PM | link to this | reply

Sunny ,

Good night and sweet dreams.

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 9:12 PM | link to this | reply

Star

See you in your blog! Good Night!

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 9:11 PM | link to this | reply

Afzal

Always good when you are near.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 9:10 PM | link to this | reply

click for click, Afzal, Sunny, Lustor, you guys owe me bunch of clicks.

Peace............and good night

posted by star4sky5 on October 26, 2006 at 9:10 PM | link to this | reply

lustor ... What? Who? Where? Tell me.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 9:09 PM | link to this | reply

Sunny ,

How are feeling now?

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 9:09 PM | link to this | reply

so I am making this up like I made up my so called lover

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 9:08 PM | link to this | reply

star4you

yes its a freedom of speech but the words were twisted what I had said and I have the same freedom

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 9:07 PM | link to this | reply

lustor... and what's that?

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 9:07 PM | link to this | reply

Afzal

This post has got 94 comments. Well, actually, this makes 95.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 9:06 PM | link to this | reply

Sunnybeach7

I dont think what I have read lately were jokes

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 9:06 PM | link to this | reply

lust ,

I have done nothing to you nor have I ever tried to disrespect you for anything but you are after my peace and have been always attempting to destroy my relationship with Sunny .

You still have time to repent and say sorry .

God bless you my friend .

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 9:03 PM | link to this | reply

Lustor, after I read, I felt like letting you know some about India and

Indians, it's my freedom of speech..........

posted by star4sky5 on October 26, 2006 at 9:00 PM | link to this | reply

lustor ...and where are these women he's supposedly chasing?

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:59 PM | link to this | reply

lustor....Who? Where?

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:56 PM | link to this | reply

lustor

I don't know what bad things you're talking about. Maybe I don't remember. Maybe it's just the fact that people have realized how wrong they were about him if they felt that way? Either way, I haven't seen anyone but you trying to put him down recently.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:56 PM | link to this | reply

come on Sunny woman are always saying bad things about him as a woman chaser

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 8:55 PM | link to this | reply

lustor

I don't know who told you that, but that's news to me.
Afzal is NOTHING like the men I've been with. He's smart, and educated, ambitious and dedicated....just to name a few.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:54 PM | link to this | reply

star4you

you were speaking about things I hadnt even said

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 8:53 PM | link to this | reply

Sunnybeach7

then I guess you have a bad memory about what others have said about him

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 8:53 PM | link to this | reply

Sunnybeach7

I am just telling you to learn from your mistakes with men, and dont say it I dont know anything about you and men except the fact what I have read from your blogs and what I have been told many have tried to tell you the same thing

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 8:51 PM | link to this | reply

lustor

No, I haven't seen. Where? In your gossip section? What makes these people such an expert on him when they don't even talk to him?

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:51 PM | link to this | reply

Sunnybeach7

havent you read the comments others have said about him

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 8:48 PM | link to this | reply

lustorlove, peace.........

posted by star4sky5 on October 26, 2006 at 8:48 PM | link to this | reply

lustor

What is it taht you think you have to warn me of? And who else has done this?

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:47 PM | link to this | reply

PS

Jealousy is bullshit. It is an emotion triggered by fear, threat, and weakness, due to a lack of self confidence, honor and pride.

posted by Moxie_Maven on October 26, 2006 at 8:46 PM | link to this | reply

Afzal

I'm there.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:46 PM | link to this | reply

star4you

I havent said anything bad about Indians either men or women. I am just trying to warn Sunny into making another mistake with men. It doesnt matter what country they are from men are men and women are women, but you need to read what I write before saying what you think I am saying. And Sunny has been warned by many to think what about what she says. Oh by the way I love my dentist and not the way you think, he is a great dentist

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 8:45 PM | link to this | reply

lustorlove

That was a foul and uncalled for comment.
You know nothing about him, and what you are saying isn't even true. Who is he supposedly chasing around blogit?

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:44 PM | link to this | reply

Sunny ,I want to see you in cosy corner where we can chat.

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 8:44 PM | link to this | reply

Hey, it was for fun my kids put that, sorry about that. I am a very pretty

mom in their view, so for fun they did....... If you want to see my face, I am familiar here with some people, but I will send you a email with my face. My children are pre teens and they blog here some time too. My son here read and write at some times with a name KJB.

posted by star4sky5 on October 26, 2006 at 8:44 PM | link to this | reply

Star, I always thought you seemed like a woman. Why does it

say in your profile that you are a male?

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:41 PM | link to this | reply

Hey, if anyone is the senior citizen here,

it's me. Just look at my profile, young un's!

posted by Moxie_Maven on October 26, 2006 at 8:40 PM | link to this | reply

afzal50

its obvious that star and you arent reading what I am saying. I havent bad mouthed the Indian people at all and you are a senior citizen yourself and you should act like one too, getting a hard on for all the young things on blogit. And why would I want to act like a senior citizen and who are you to judge me? I have no one to answer to in my life.

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 8:37 PM | link to this | reply

By the way Afzal and Sunny, I took a long space, sorry about it.

posted by star4sky5 on October 26, 2006 at 8:37 PM | link to this | reply

Lustor, I thought women in total/ where ever from has some similarities

I had seen many American women are abused by AMERICAN MEN, I heard and read about bunch of American men are abusing the kids sexually, physically and mentally. So why do you call Indian men as mean and kind of untrusty. In every religion and culture, you will find good and bad. So, it's common. But with a little knowledge about some thing, won't give you a right to talk about every men in India as bad. May be you personally has a bad experience, but please don't pour to public. I had seen good and bad people in every culture. All men are not same.

Look in the world records, where India stand with it's cuture, tradition, ecconomic, educational growth. One thing is sure Indian people much more honest than many others.

I am an INDIAN WOMAN, who live in USA, studied and working here. I lived in this country and love this country as mine. My family is here. We are treated with respect from Americans and I treat Americans as my own sisters and brothers. I never seen a difference in them, nor they see any difference. Though I am a Hindu, I don't wear a star on forehead usually, but if it's a function I might. I read bible, I believe in jesus. I shake hand an American man while I am in business, I hug a grandma if I want to be.SO take a deep breath, and wish them the best.

posted by star4sky5 on October 26, 2006 at 8:36 PM | link to this | reply

lustor

Star has been around long enough to comment back and forth with me and Afzal to know what he's talking about.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:35 PM | link to this | reply

OK, I'll share 1 cent.

I had the luxury of being on the receiving end of a tall dark and EVER so handsome Indian diplomat. I mean the EPITOPME of dashing, biting my KNUCKLES gorgeous. Damn...anyway, in his efforts of wooing me I was gifted with many items over a period of time, which I will not mention here and now,but as for the basics you should have received as gifts I would hope the first and least would be a token of true Indian beauty and feminine apparel, that being a luxurious intricately beautiful hand made Pashmina of cultural authenticity.

If someone has designs on marrying, I would expect better and more than just words typed out and sent in an email, or posted for the world to see, or phone sex whenever. Especially FIRST AND FOREMOST with children on both ends, exes or currents involved, and being half way around the world from each other.

Oh, my Indian was exquisitely hot. Anyway, I will save THAT for my own posting!

posted by Moxie_Maven on October 26, 2006 at 8:34 PM | link to this | reply

lustorlove

Who has tried to talk to me? By the way, I have the perfect guy for you. Want his number?

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:34 PM | link to this | reply

lustorlove ,

You should thank star4you to enlighten in so many ways the truth of the way Indian are and would like to be . I think you are dragging the whole issue to a nasty pitch without keeping your senses to its normal limits.

You are a senior citizen of America and need to behave like one . You sould not equate your personal enmity with the social and cultural life of a nation. You are attacking the whole nation like a mad person.I think you are some how related to us otherwise you would not make such a furore over our marriage which is sure to happen and we have already singed an email marriage contract under which we are already husband and wife . As a Muslim I do not have to divorce my wives before I take anther wife and four is the limit at a time .

I shall be very glad if you listen to star4you and come to bless us.

I am grateful to star4you and Bhasker for coming forward in my defense .

Special thanks to my wife Sunny.

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 8:32 PM | link to this | reply

star4you

have I said anything bad about Indians in anything I have said, and many people have tried to talk to Sunny about this I am not the only one that is telling her the same thing and you should know the whole story before you put your nose into it

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 8:30 PM | link to this | reply

afzal50

how dare you say I am a mental case when you have pretended to admire me and you chase other skirts around Blogit, I have been around a long time and I don't need a man for anything thing but companionship and sex. And I wouldn't go for a man that I don't know. especially if I had small children. You would leave your country and daughter to travel for more than american 3 thousand dollars, its your money and your life you and sunny waste it any way you want but how many years will this reunion take place?

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 8:27 PM | link to this | reply

Also, Indian woman are strong, educated and well cutured too.

posted by star4sky5 on October 26, 2006 at 8:25 PM | link to this | reply

Lustor love, your DENTIST doesn't resemble whole India's rep

What you know about India and Idian people? How many Americans live there and love to be there? First of all educate yourself before you fight with some one because she loves a man. If her love is true, if he wish to live together, it's their right. Why you worry? If you are open minded, you won't bbe an ant in their heaven, wish the couple good luck, and move on. You are very adoment about him. Also, you commented that poverty striken INDIAN. How many Americans are collecting food stamps in USA? Indians in America or wherever, they are willing to work hard and take care of their family.............SO

posted by star4sky5 on October 26, 2006 at 8:21 PM | link to this | reply

Lustor

I'm NOT an Indian woman. And men leave their country all the times, for a variety of reasons. I don't see where you see him as making this sacrifice as being a bad role model?

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:18 PM | link to this | reply

lustorlove ,

You are having some mental problem and you are should go for counselling . See to your own life before tying to be the guardian of others . You need to secure yourself with a nice American who could take care of you needs perhaps you are suffering from some sort of phobia regarding Indian Mem. The comment of star4you should be fine enough to convince you that you daughter Sunny would be in safe hands .

Thanks for being so vociferous in solving the problem of others .

Good luck.

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 8:16 PM | link to this | reply

Bhaskar

Thanks

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:16 PM | link to this | reply

Star....thanks so much for all that, and comming to our aid.

I know Afzal will appreciate it as well.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:15 PM | link to this | reply

Moxie

Thanks. Think I'm losing my chances. How about our getting together. I mean 'butting' in?

posted by Bhaskar.ing on October 26, 2006 at 8:15 PM | link to this | reply

Sunny

OK, wish you all the best.

posted by Bhaskar.ing on October 26, 2006 at 8:12 PM | link to this | reply

Ok the only Indian women I have ever seen are in the long dresses with the stars on their forhead and are with Indian men, my dentist is a Indian. But a man that would leave his country to come here I dont think is a good role model

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 8:11 PM | link to this | reply

Lustorlove

That's alright, it's likely not going to be a big ceremony...and if it was, I wouldn't want to invite guests if I couldn't help with expenses.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:11 PM | link to this | reply

Butt in, Bhaskar.ing!

Go for it!

posted by Moxie_Maven on October 26, 2006 at 8:11 PM | link to this | reply

Bhaskar

I'm just trying to explain to Lustorlove why I love Afzal, and why I believe that things will work out between us.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:09 PM | link to this | reply

oh by the way I wont be able to attend as the honor guest at your wedding as I have better things to spend my money on

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 8:08 PM | link to this | reply

Lustorlove

The kind that will provide a loving and secure home? I'm not sure what your thinking that evokes negativity?

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:08 PM | link to this | reply

Lustorlove and Sunny

Some serious talks going on. Do I have to stay out of all this, or should I butt in?

posted by Bhaskar.ing on October 26, 2006 at 8:08 PM | link to this | reply

Hahaha, woman with long gowns, not all Indian woman were that...........

not all Indian woman has to were long hair, not all Indian woman have to be this or that. Indian men accepted Indira Gandhi as Prime Minister of India, a brave Lady. Indian men like to keep their women as prescious, but it doesn't mean that Indian men treat women with control. Indian men sacriface their life for their family and kids. Indian men marry whom they want to be with. Sonia Gandhi, late prime minister Rajeev Gandhi's wife is an Italian ( I guess). India accept golden hair and blue eyes as a symbol of beauty. So SUNNY, never doubt, if you have a heart for your man, go for it. After all, atleast you can trust him with your kids. Once an Indian man accept a woman, 95% he will stick with you for life. This is the usual case, but once you see eye to eye, you can choose your decision. Indian people are caring in nature. Also, Indian people speak good English, so you may not have an Issue with him. Indian woman were all kinds of dresses. Indian people are smart and hard working. They have high standards of morals and family values. HOPE IT WILL WORK OUT WELL IF YOU BOTH WANT TO BE. Sunny, I will email you some pictures, if you prefer. Best of luck, if love is true, this will happen and it may be choice of heaven...........

posted by star4sky5 on October 26, 2006 at 8:07 PM | link to this | reply

what kind of a role model are you and him making? oh well you live your life in lala land

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 8:07 PM | link to this | reply

Ok good for him but he talks as though he is poverity striken and he is going to spend over 3 thousand dollars and scarfice his daughter, to come here for a woman he doesnt know and he has never been treated the way you treat him then he doesnt understand American women at all

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 8:05 PM | link to this | reply

!Whooooaaa! Nelley!

I see some wild shit's been flying around here! Too bad I am so all-consumed with business to catch up on my favorite soap of the season! Don't ask my 2 cents.

posted by Moxie_Maven on October 26, 2006 at 8:05 PM | link to this | reply

Lustorlove

I'm not sure why you think my kids will suffer from this? He is a good father to his own children, despite the circumstances.
And my own kids would be more secure in having a more stable home environment and a male role model.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:04 PM | link to this | reply

Lustorlove

He's going to work for it, what else?

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 8:03 PM | link to this | reply

ok go ahead and waste your time, and who is going to give him the money to come to the US? You know kids should be your first concern not a man that is not even in the same time zone or world. I am just talking to you like a mom, I hope your mom has tried this too

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 7:59 PM | link to this | reply

Lustorlove

He doesn't have to understand American women, he only has to understand me. Anyway.... AMERICAN men don't understand American women, so what difference does it make? LOL.

I am not taking my kids to India. And yes, he accepts me as I am, for what I am. I don't and wouldn't consider ANY time with him "wasted".
We have at least some interests in common, and we tend to think alike.

Yes, he's far away, and yes, things can be different when you meet someone. I've been through it all. I don't have any fear that things will be THAT different that it will make a big difference.

Getting to know him, is a sincere pleasure of mine. He has a good heart, and has made many sacrifices on my part, and willing to make the ultimate sacrifice of leaving the country he loves, to be here with me.

Not everything is meant to be.....but sometimes they are.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 7:55 PM | link to this | reply

sunny

and how does he plan on being close and are you willing to waste your time on him, there are too many men here in the US that you can meet and know their real personalties, not someone that can say anything to you without you knowing the real person. If you were to meet he may not be the man you think he is. I have spent a lot of time in fantasy land, and I had a man that was 21 years younger than me, but someday I will be too old to care. But you are young and look at you you are beautiful on the inside and on the outside. We have never met eye to eye and you have kids to worry about. You going to up root them and take them to a strange country? There are too many cultural differences. We have a lot of Indian people here but I have never seen one with an American. they are always with their own and the women wear the long gowns and cover their entire bodies is he going to go into culture shock to see you the way you are? I have made some bad choices in men and I can see what I have read the things you write you have too, don't make another mistake that is so big as this one. He may be a great man but he doesn't understand American women.

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 7:46 PM | link to this | reply

Afzal

You're welcome, love. It's just the truth.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 7:40 PM | link to this | reply

Sunny,

I appreciate your kindness . Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 7:38 PM | link to this | reply

Lustorlove

Age is not a factor. And he won't be thousands of miles away forever, if things work out.

Secondly.... he made a mistake... he's entitled, ok? He wasn't trying to be serious, things just got out of hand rather quickly. It was more like a bad judgement call. He wanted a reaction from me, but he hadn't anticipated hurting me.

When you really love someone, you don't walk out on them over something so frivolous. His good points FAR outweigh any bad ones.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 7:32 PM | link to this | reply

sunny

I am just curious why you would give your heart to a man that is thousand of miles away and an old fart like him. You are too young and beautiful with a great personality. Don't waste your youth on this

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 7:26 PM | link to this | reply

afzal have you been hiding under a rock that you havent had that kind of love before or is it just differnt in India?

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 7:23 PM | link to this | reply

babe rocks , you are right and I agree with you . Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 10:29 AM | link to this | reply

Jealousy is a natural emotion and there's not much you can do about it. People want what other people have. Jealousy afflicts people who are not busy enough or who have some emptiness in their lives. This includes just about all of us from time to time. t

posted by babe_rocks on October 26, 2006 at 10:07 AM | link to this | reply

I'll be there

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 9:57 AM | link to this | reply

I am coming after posting a poem for you .Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 9:56 AM | link to this | reply

Afzal

Wanna talk?

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 9:53 AM | link to this | reply

Afzal

You're quite welcome.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 9:52 AM | link to this | reply

Thanks for all that you do for me . I have never know this kind of love

before I could experience here with you .

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 9:51 AM | link to this | reply

Afzal

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 9:47 AM | link to this | reply

Sunny,

It is the complete book . Thanks for sending me the website.

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 9:47 AM | link to this | reply

Sunny ,

You have opened my eyes . Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 9:42 AM | link to this | reply

Afzal

Like I said... everyone makes mistakes. It's not like you had been doing this for months, and I don't feel any need to "beat a dead horse".

I know there are some out there that wonder why, and think I am likely a bit nuts for being with you. I know and have experienced your sacrifices for me, I know and understand that the good in you outweighs, by far, anything wrong you may have done.

I know your intention wasn't to create hurt. You know how I feel and now you know how many other feel as well.

I sent an with a question for you.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 9:38 AM | link to this | reply

Sunny,

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 9:29 AM | link to this | reply

I am grateful you made out such good points on my behalf inspite of my failure to understand you . I think there are people who feel and talk about morality without ever knowing the meaning and spirit of morality . I am unable to see any truth in what then comment except that it is whole lot of jealousy coming out of their heart like venom bing discharged by a snake in fear of being killed or hurt . I have never known of people who behave like children and continue to hanker after something which is not suitable or not made for them .

I think many who are watching me and talking ill about me should first clear their own mind from thoughts which are more likely to affect them .

I have not flirted with anyone except that what is said and told on the comment section by way of casual remarks and in lighter vien. I am glad that you do understand me and trust me .

I am here to write and create topics for soul searching and throwing light on subjects which interest whole lot of us .After seeing all this rucous over an issue which does not concern any one except my own life it reminds me of Lord Jesus when he said something like only one has not sin has the right to throw stones on others.

However , I am happy that whole lot of us shared our views on the topic. I am also happy that some friends have tried to make out their points and greivances agitated in this section to prove their point of ill feelings they carry against me for the reason best known to them .
I thank all who understand me and also those who don't understand me .
I pray good counsel will prevail in their hearts and minds when they apply their wisdom to the issues concerning some of us .

Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 9:28 AM | link to this | reply

Lustorlove

What he did was wrong. But I understand his reasoning behind it. I have talked with him personally on this issue, so I also know some things that aren't "put out there" so to speak. People make mistakes.

And you are "wrong" that I have tried to make him jealous. I have not. What I have done was out of fun. I had talked to him about this and whether or not it was hurtful to him. I would never willingly engage in something that would hurt him, and I know that the "other" party concerned, would not either.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 7:36 AM | link to this | reply

PS I never at one time considered him a man that I would have relationship I just enjoyed his comments, but telling me he loved me and then telling you just a few days later makes him a fickled womanizer. Sorry Afzal if the truth hurts

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 7:31 AM | link to this | reply

sunny

he has done it to the both of us, the difference is you dont see the romeo he is as those around do. Actions speak louder than words. And this kind of love is shared in the heart but that is all it ever will be. You too do things to make him jealous and that is spotted by others. Blanche is right on

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 7:25 AM | link to this | reply

I am not jelousy to any one normally, because I am so confident

in me, but at times, lot of people get jelous on me. They expect me to be less than them, but I have a kind of attractive nature and average looking( not extreme beauty), still I catch the center of attraction most often. This cause people jelousy to me. Jelous is very dangerous thing. One more thing, I don't have everything in the world, but I am content with what I have. Afzal, very good topic.

posted by star4sky5 on October 26, 2006 at 7:15 AM | link to this | reply

Afzal

I have to agree with Ariala...like I've already told you... you don't purposefully try to make someone jealous... it's hurtful.

Sometimes jealousy happens... naturally, and that's ok. Yes, it can make the other person feel good and loved, but it doesn't do a whole lot for the person feeling it. To answer your question.... NO. In no way do I feel that jealousy is necessary to "PROVE" anything.
When someone tells you they love you, you beleive them, or you don't. If you haven't been able to know that I love you from all of our conversations, blogs, email, etc... then there is NOTHING in this world that is going to PROVE to you that I love you.

I also agree with Blanche, and I'm not sure you even got her point. I've observed people all my life, and I know a little about their actions usually, because of past observation, empathy and intuition.
While I understand your reasoning for your actions, and you thought it was all in fun... you just don't seek out to do these kinds of things if you care about someone's feelings.
The best I can say, is that I hope you can take this as a learning experience.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 26, 2006 at 7:12 AM | link to this | reply

jealousy

I am not proud of being jealous, but there are many reasons for me to feel that jealousy and its not something that dies with time, it only dies when you finally find someone to trust with your heart. I am a person that no one should be jealous of because I don't cheat.

posted by Lanetay on October 26, 2006 at 7:05 AM | link to this | reply

afzal50

so good description about jealosy . go to church will be finish all jealosy bad sprits and up sprits , happen love and pray . bright mind just like sunlight . sunlight keep in heart all the world on those days .

posted by Rosetree on October 26, 2006 at 7:02 AM | link to this | reply

Blanche ,

Thanks for participating in the discussion . I appreciate your views

and shall see that I don't make the enterainment available free of

cost in future .Plz keeping coming .

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 6:23 AM | link to this | reply

Oh, I'm already paid in full, and I wouldn't say compulsive, Afzal, more

repulsed.

posted by Blanche. on October 26, 2006 at 6:13 AM | link to this | reply

Blanche , So you are a compulsive viewer of this quality entertainment.

Don't let Blogit know it , you might have to pay later . Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 6:09 AM | link to this | reply

Ariala , I agree with you . You have always been wise in your approach to

things in life .Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 5:59 AM | link to this | reply

i agree ariala - i told him not to say it anymore

beauty is beauty - love is love. when i started say how hot Hugh Jackman was he caught onto to my point very quickly.

posted by ladychardonnay on October 26, 2006 at 5:54 AM | link to this | reply

Good point, Afzal, who am I to censure? It's a free blog, you provide

quality entertainment for so little.

posted by Blanche. on October 26, 2006 at 5:53 AM | link to this | reply

If you love someone you never purposely make them jealous and you

are honest and accountable at all times. True love protects and honors the person loved. It is mutual and both persons care about the other person's feelings. There are no games in true love.

posted by Ariala on October 26, 2006 at 5:48 AM | link to this | reply

ladychardonnay, Its the most natural feeling for any one .Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 5:46 AM | link to this | reply

the only time i feel jealousy

is when a man i am "in-love" with finds another woman attractive - so much so that he says it out loud. i don't envy status or money.

posted by ladychardonnay on October 26, 2006 at 5:40 AM | link to this | reply

Blanche ,Read " I have some one who loves me and I am a Romeo for her "

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 5:36 AM | link to this | reply

Blanche , Just ignore, I am already reserved .I have some who loves me .

posted by afzal50 on October 26, 2006 at 5:33 AM | link to this | reply

Afzal, some susceptible females may find you charming. Personally, I've

never seen the attraction. It was mildly amusing for a while to be an unwilling witness to your courtships, but you're not the Romeo you think you are. So, don't try to work it too hard, will you?