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posted by
afzal50
on October 26, 2006 at 10:40 PM
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Star, you are so right!
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 26, 2006 at 9:30 PM
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Rumored
This is so true. I really admire you guys that can do that. I know, it's not easy.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 26, 2006 at 9:29 PM
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Troosha
If I blast, I usually stick around for more crap.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 26, 2006 at 9:28 PM
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If it's a situation arrises, just walk away if they can't understand
TRY TO TALK FIRST, BUT IF THEY STILL ANGRY, I LEAVE THEM. IF THEY ARE CONSTANTLY ANGRY, THEY HAVE AN ISSUE
posted by
star4sky5
on October 26, 2006 at 9:20 PM
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I try to just be quiet or give a soft answer and leave the room..
easy??..lol...no way, but its better than getting into a verbal battle and raised blood pressure..
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posted by
Rumor
on October 26, 2006 at 8:05 PM
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I tend to blast (then leave the room)
posted by
Troosha
on October 26, 2006 at 1:01 PM
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MandaLee
That's much better than engaging in argument.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 26, 2006 at 9:10 AM
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I ignore them or leave the room.
posted by
Amanda__
on October 26, 2006 at 8:58 AM
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Afzal
I have witnessed lately that you do very well with this kind of thing.
It was not me I was talking about. And no, I haven't been "angry" lately. Well...not with you anyway.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 26, 2006 at 7:30 AM
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Mrs. Tanga
That's kinda the way I am too. Thanks for this comment.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 26, 2006 at 7:29 AM
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Dave
You must have a lot of inner strength and patience.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 26, 2006 at 7:28 AM
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Whacky
Hahaha... That's probably the best way to avoid angry people.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 26, 2006 at 7:27 AM
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I get round them to understand things and help look straight into their
own fault. By the way , are you still angry.
posted by
afzal50
on October 26, 2006 at 5:15 AM
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Oooh, I am a Bad Girl...
If someones gets angry with me, which is very rare, I cannot keep my mouth shut, it is like something bad triggers in me and I just fire back --- Hang on... theres fire in the hole.....
But treat me right and I am as calm as a kitty...
Mrs Tanga
posted by
Tanga
on October 26, 2006 at 4:01 AM
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Mostly keep quiet or walk away. Mostly, but not always.
posted by
_dave_says_ack_
on October 26, 2006 at 2:25 AM
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I usually run!
If I can.
posted by
Whacky
on October 25, 2006 at 8:20 PM
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ladychardonnay
Family battles can be hard to deal with, especially if there are many to take sides.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 25, 2006 at 6:37 PM
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mneme
I don't much like to agrue, but I feel I'm very good at it, if need be. LOL.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 25, 2006 at 6:36 PM
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babe_rocks
Wow! I don't have a brother, so I guess it's hard to imagine that happening.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 25, 2006 at 6:34 PM
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it totally depends on my mood
i either ignore it - or instigate an incident and give a quick snotty comeback. family issues are bad - you can really say mean shit and damage a relationship for good - those i usually let go unless they really cross the line
posted by
ladychardonnay
on October 25, 2006 at 5:30 PM
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Sunny
I'm afraid I only lose patience with family members, and then only after, like you, trying to keep it calm. I hate being disrespected. Some people just love a good argument. I'm not one of those, but I do hate to be made wrong when I know I'm not.
posted by
mneme
on October 25, 2006 at 3:45 PM
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I avoid angry people. In my family people took whatever was dished out, didn't answer back, then carried grudges the rest of their lives. Then along came my brother who has a little backbone. He was present when the person with whom I work bawled me out. My brother advised me to quit, then said, "If he talks to you that way again I'm going to punch him in the nose". I said, "Let me handle my own situations".
posted by
babe_rocks
on October 25, 2006 at 12:11 PM
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