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Lisa , I think you have had a very tough experience of this life and it
is really very unfortunate what you feel . Men are not that bad as you feel it is a matter of luck that some one has a bad man in her share and some one has a bad woman in his share .
posted by
afzal50
on October 20, 2006 at 7:34 PM
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sometimes just want to be allowed to feel the feeling
For me, my response to this would be different depending on the situation, the seriousness of the grievance, the frequency of it, etc. But one thing that I think men tend to forget is that sometimes women just want to be allowed to feel the feeling, even annoyance, for a period of time until it is done. Sometimes, men seem to want to legitimately make amends, but sometimes it seems they also use items on the list to anaesthetize their partner, make her forget for the time, but no real resolution comes to the original problem. And sometimes men want to fix things instead of just be there, but not smothering, just be available to listen, and not necessarily to fix things for us. Lisa
posted by
heyastuff
on October 20, 2006 at 7:25 PM
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FraklyMyDear1, Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 20, 2006 at 8:35 AM
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leg wrestling then "C"
posted by
FranklyMydear1
on October 20, 2006 at 8:34 AM
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avant-garde, you can email your answer if you like . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 20, 2006 at 8:17 AM
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Mari-am, I am happy to know you have returned .Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 20, 2006 at 8:16 AM
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afzal
Hmmm. Rather not say here.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 20, 2006 at 8:13 AM
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C&F
posted by
Rosetree
on October 20, 2006 at 7:27 AM
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afzal
The waiting is over. Here I am.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 20, 2006 at 7:15 AM
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Sweetie, Thanks for being so kind .I was waiting for you.
posted by
afzal50
on October 20, 2006 at 7:14 AM
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Afzal
A big bottle of whisky? Are you serious?
A house party? No. Not unless it was a two person party.
Outing? Depends.
Dinner is always nice, but not necessary.
Chocolate, I can always be coaxed with.
A hug, absolutely. Some kind words and a few other things as well.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 20, 2006 at 7:12 AM
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candle lit dinner with lots and lots of sex
posted by
Lanetay
on October 20, 2006 at 7:03 AM
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ladychardonnay , thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 20, 2006 at 6:21 AM
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money - a hundred will do
posted by
ladychardonnay
on October 20, 2006 at 5:45 AM
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