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I agree marriages are choice of heaven,
posted by
star4sky5
on October 14, 2006 at 7:28 PM
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Thanks. I have posted a poem .
posted by
afzal50
on October 14, 2006 at 7:11 PM
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afzal... I will look for you.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 14, 2006 at 7:08 PM
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Good evening . I will return after two and half hours . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 14, 2006 at 7:05 PM
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afzal
Good Morning
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 14, 2006 at 7:02 PM
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Sweetie, I do agree with you that our choice depends on our circumstances .
Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 14, 2006 at 6:58 PM
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lionladroar, Your comment in this regard is quite interesting. Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 14, 2006 at 6:57 PM
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Passionflower , The Indians are also catching up with the western world.
Men and women are both getting married for strange reasons like you said sometimes for money and sometimes for automobiles .It is not for spiritual or emotional attachment which can be had some where else .Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 14, 2006 at 6:56 PM
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Afzal
Like I have said many times before...it depends on the people and the circumstances. Not everyone is meant to be together.
Some people are harder than others to be able to find someone that they can be happy with and that can be happy with them.
Happiness is what you make it. It depends on your effort and your perception of things, as much as anything else.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 14, 2006 at 6:47 PM
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Afzal. Sir you always please, in searching heart and mind, for answers
Speaking from the point of view of a male, when young, maybe our loins drive the wanting. Though our elders may advise. Its uaully our needing, in making our mark. The beginning of our idependence, freedom in decisions but mostly the thought of having regular female company for the urge that defines a young male. Our thoughts then, if I remember correctly are seldom of nothing else but females. Also family, traditions, influence weather we stay together. Not always love ? If at the romantic end i.e Children and grandchildren, have flown the nest and the romantic last chapter is, hand in hand, into the sunset of love ever after then yes. Made in heaven, where else ? Though if this thought is true, then heaven is full of mistakes. In my humble opinion Thank you afzal for my chance in comment friend. Mike
posted by
lionladroar
on October 14, 2006 at 6:15 PM
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It was interesting to read about the way you choose wives there -
Here in the USA, we choose very differently. I heard a hairdresser say once that she married this man because he had a good automobile.
Another girl married at 17 so she could move away from her parents. Here in Texas, there are a great many illegal aliens who are looking for a man to marry so they can get citizenship.They often have children and will accept an older guy or an ugly or fat man in order to become a citizen.
posted by
Passionflower
on October 14, 2006 at 5:51 PM
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babe rocks , that's a good question . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 14, 2006 at 4:40 PM
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That would make a good short story. I wonder if the girl ever got married.
posted by
babe_rocks
on October 14, 2006 at 4:37 PM
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Ariala, I am grateful you liked the post . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 14, 2006 at 4:19 PM
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Tonyzonit,You have a point and I do agree with you . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 14, 2006 at 4:18 PM
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Glad they found each other...interesting post and way of doing things!
posted by
Ariala
on October 14, 2006 at 3:49 PM
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All marriages are certainly NOT made in heaven, Afzal!
But they certainly have many good points, not least the chance to raise a family such as the one you describe. This can make the down side worthwhile and give life a sense of purpose.
posted by
Antonionioni
on October 14, 2006 at 3:48 PM
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