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Mari-am, I am very sorry to learn about your illness . plz take care .
posted by
afzal50
on October 16, 2006 at 7:15 AM
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afzal50
i`m so series and stomach pain and vomit while i hear you have so much problems . my head aching too .. i eat some american , european medicine not useful . still vomiting the foreign medicines .
posted by
Rosetree
on October 16, 2006 at 6:47 AM
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terpgirl30, Thanks for providing me the insight .
posted by
afzal50
on October 6, 2006 at 3:58 PM
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I dont mind traveling as long as I dont have to fly and go thru that pain in the ass, excuse me why does your wife need you there? She is a grown woman
posted by
Lanetay
on October 6, 2006 at 1:18 PM
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Afzal
I think your heart is already telling you the right thing. You're wife will get over the fever, but your mother will stay in the state she is or get worse. You won't get that back. I wouldn't make my husband make a choice like that. I don't want to sound like I'm such a good person that way, but I hope I know how to put things in perspective. It's not like you are taking a skiing trip with the boys just to ignore her.
As for the jitters, I think a lot of people get it, especially when they have so many other things on their mind.
posted by
terpgirl30
on October 6, 2006 at 11:42 AM
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afzal
poetry
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 6, 2006 at 10:49 AM
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Troosha , I shall follow your advise. Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 6, 2006 at 10:36 AM
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Your inner voice knows the answer to your question
listen to it carefully and mindfully.
posted by
Troosha
on October 6, 2006 at 9:35 AM
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Sweetie, I shall be careful before taking any medicine . I will talk to
my brother who is a doctor in alternative medicince specially herbal medicines and has good knowlege of common ailments and chronic diseases.Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 6, 2006 at 9:01 AM
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Afzal
Yes, do an internet search...and be careful with what you take...some herbs can have a negative affect on you if you have certain health problems.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 6, 2006 at 8:58 AM
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Ariala , I shall have to talk to my brother who is a doctor of alternative
medicines and has made a name in herbal practice in India . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 6, 2006 at 8:56 AM
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Bhaskar , thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 6, 2006 at 8:54 AM
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afzal, India is one of the leaders of alternative therapies, including
herbs, so I'm sure you can find them there...I do know that Kava Kava had a bad wrap not too long ago because it can cause liver problems in some people, so you may have a hard time finding it there. It's still one of the best herbs to help people relax. It comes from the South Pacific islands, if I remember right.
posted by
Ariala
on October 6, 2006 at 8:54 AM
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afzal
Nobody but you can take a right decision for yourself. Do what you atma tells you is best to do. Allaha's blessings will always be with you, so don't worry too much or feel nervous.
posted by
Bhaskar.ing
on October 6, 2006 at 8:53 AM
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Ariala , thanks I shall do that . I am grateful for your kind support and
advise.
posted by
afzal50
on October 6, 2006 at 8:41 AM
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afzal, do an Internet search and you sould be able to find them...
posted by
Ariala
on October 6, 2006 at 8:40 AM
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ladychardonnay , I shall try to find out here in my chemists shop if I can
get what Araia suggested . Ariala is very kind like you . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 6, 2006 at 8:34 AM
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Ariala , Where do you get those herbs . Is is available here in India.
Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 6, 2006 at 8:32 AM
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oh - so you can't drink or take any kind of medications?
what about organic items like ariala suggested?
posted by
ladychardonnay
on October 6, 2006 at 8:31 AM
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ladychardonnay, I am a Muslim (Mohammedan) from India .
posted by
afzal50
on October 6, 2006 at 8:30 AM
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what religion are you if you don't mind me asking?
posted by
ladychardonnay
on October 6, 2006 at 8:27 AM
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afzal, have you tried Kava Kava and St. John's Wort? No chemicals, just
herbs from the earth.
posted by
Ariala
on October 6, 2006 at 8:27 AM
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ladychardonnay, I also suffer from anxiety disorder but I can't take any
kind of chemical specially alcohol because of my religious beliefs.Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 6, 2006 at 8:26 AM
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Sweetie, I shall not cancel this trip .Thanks for the moral support you
always provide .
posted by
afzal50
on October 6, 2006 at 8:23 AM
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i have anxiety disorder
so i treat my mental illness with chemicals when i have to.
posted by
ladychardonnay
on October 6, 2006 at 8:20 AM
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afzal
I love to travel...well, I've only traveled by car. So no..I've had no problems.
No...there is no way you should cancel this trip.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 6, 2006 at 8:18 AM
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ladychardonnay, I would have resorted to drinks if it were not forbidden
for me .Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 6, 2006 at 8:17 AM
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valiums and vodka for me - if i ever get on another plan
i passed up a trip to paris with my mother last year because i was having so many anxiety attacks before. she took my sister instead. i really regret that.
posted by
ladychardonnay
on October 6, 2006 at 8:12 AM
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Ariala , you are always so nice and kind of a friend who gives right
advise . I have great respect and regard for you as I have always been telling Sunny my closest blogit friend . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 6, 2006 at 8:11 AM
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Atleast you're traveling on a train...planes make me nervous...when I was a
kid, my mom would give me Dramamine to call my stomach down LOL I think you should go see your mother...your wife's fever will break...surely she doesn't need you to stay to nurse a fever? Maybe to show your love and support you can make her some homemade soup and keep some of her favorite juices in the refrigerator...meanwhile, go see your mom. She needs you.
posted by
Ariala
on October 6, 2006 at 8:08 AM
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