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mneme
Thanks. I've pretty much figured out that if it were true, more likely than not, he'd have to seek other medical attention to prevent this kind of thing....and he hasn't.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 14, 2006 at 7:56 PM
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Sunny,
I've just happened across your blog and I wanted to offer some support. From what I've been reading he isn't the type to stand on his own two feet. I'd be checking the internet for information on his "condition". He might be being honest, but surely if he's married then it's his wife's concern (I'm beginning to feel sorry for her too.) He doesn't own you and sees that you are compassionate, so I agree with Moxie; be careful.
posted by
mneme
on October 14, 2006 at 7:52 PM
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Pat_B
Thanks for those great suggestions. 
He doesn't really see his son...only when I am there. He doesn't have a LOT of desire too. His main interest is me. 
My daughter isn't his, and he's not allowed to see her.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 28, 2006 at 9:27 AM
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If I were in this situation and had good reason to doubt
my ex's truthfulness, I'd play dumb. It's possible the optometrist knows what he's talking about, just as it's possibly a lie made up for the heck of it. If/when he suggests you pick him up or drop off the kids when his current victim is out of the apartment, smile (even over the phone a smile reflects in the voice) and say, gee, I'd like to, but it's not convenient right now. I've got tickets to... or an appointment with ... (have a list prepared in your mind) and say something so sweet and phony even he will recognize it as a ploy... I guess you'll just have to miss this visit, the kids will be so disappointed... Oh, well, you can see them next time. Don't let him ruffle your feathers.
posted by
Pat_B
on September 28, 2006 at 9:23 AM
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Ann and Ben
Hahaha
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 28, 2006 at 6:20 AM
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Moxie_Maven
He doesn't have any sense...that's the point.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 28, 2006 at 6:19 AM
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babe_rocks
But for a few seconds? His eyes didn't stay that way, and he wasn't told they would get better in a few months?
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 28, 2006 at 6:17 AM
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posted by
A-and-B
on September 28, 2006 at 5:52 AM
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It's safe to say I've been where you are coming from...
hard to tell what is real and what isn't. Remember the story about Peter and the Wolf? That's exactly what it is.
About the eyes, though. He should have enough sense to get them checked himself if it's that bad. Could be something serious, could be a simple laser surgery. Be thankful for your health!
posted by
Moxie_Maven
on September 27, 2006 at 10:40 PM
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My dad used to lose his vision for a few seconds. It was mini strokes caused by pieces breaking off the placque in the carotid artery upon which he had surgery and no more problems. At least that is my understanding of it.
posted by
babe_rocks
on September 27, 2006 at 10:04 PM
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Moxie_Maven
He's been one to play on pity from the very beginning. You wouldn't believe some of the stories he's told me, back when I hadn't even met him yet. It's why I'm so leary to believe anything he says.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 27, 2006 at 6:20 PM
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Maybe he is one of those individuals that think they can get more attention with your pity so by playing on your sensetivity feigning ailments he is actually self-inflicting health issues. Reeling you in like a fish on a hook until you are caught back in the net. Sounds rather co-dependent to me. Be careful!
posted by
Moxie_Maven
on September 27, 2006 at 12:57 PM
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