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afzal
I'll be here.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on September 21, 2006 at 7:55 PM | link to this | reply

I am O.K I shall return after 2 hours to chat . Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on September 21, 2006 at 7:54 PM | link to this | reply

afzal
Are you ok?

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on September 21, 2006 at 7:48 PM | link to this | reply

CunningLinguist, thanks.

posted by afzal50 on September 21, 2006 at 7:38 PM | link to this | reply

babe rocks, thanks for stopping by!

posted by afzal50 on September 21, 2006 at 7:37 PM | link to this | reply

Hi Afzal...
I hope you haven't experienced a  woman with these attributes...     Best regards,  Melody

posted by CunningLinguist on September 21, 2006 at 7:31 PM | link to this | reply

Sorry...but...what a bunch of crap.

posted by babe_rocks on September 21, 2006 at 7:30 PM | link to this | reply

Sunny, I really liked your arguement and style of defense.
I had no internet connection for about two hours so I could not reply to everyone's comments. Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on September 21, 2006 at 7:17 PM | link to this | reply

8-ball, Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on September 21, 2006 at 7:15 PM | link to this | reply

star4you, You are wellcome. thanks.

posted by afzal50 on September 21, 2006 at 7:14 PM | link to this | reply

Rosedemsey, I agree with you. Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on September 21, 2006 at 7:13 PM | link to this | reply

Scramble, Thanks for stopping by!

posted by afzal50 on September 21, 2006 at 7:12 PM | link to this | reply

OFFBEATS, Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on September 21, 2006 at 7:10 PM | link to this | reply

afzal
I feeling I was kinda hard on you. I know your situation, and I know the stress you go through. 

So now you know why men don't argue with me, or it's a fight to the death, like with my son's father, who took forever just to learn not to pick a fight with me. 

So....anyway...I'm feeling guilty for all I said.  I know what you were saying and why you said it.  So I'm sorry.  

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on September 21, 2006 at 5:18 PM | link to this | reply

I don't sleep more or eat more than my husband
and I do everything around the house and everything with the kids while he sits on his ass. And I have a full time job. I think I will die before him which scares me.

posted by 8-ball on September 21, 2006 at 3:55 PM | link to this | reply

hahaha.........

posted by star4sky5 on September 21, 2006 at 3:10 PM | link to this | reply

I have to disagree

that women don't have as much stress as men.  Sorry.  Although men and women often both work outside the home, it is the VERY RARE man who will come home, cook, take care of the kids and clean house AFTER a day at work ... something a woman is expected to do, day in and day out.

Methinks you've had a bad experience with women or maybe one particular woman.  Let me tell you, LOL, I get up every morning and fix my husband breakfast and pack his lunch.  When he comes in from work, his dinner is ready.  I've done this for 21 years now, whether I've worked full-time, part-time or as now, am not working outside the home.  As ahs my sister for her husband, whilst working full-time and studying full-time too.  She just got her B. SC in Nursing RNLD a couple of weeks back, in England.

Not all women are as bad as you think ... believe you me, there are many women who will state the same bad things about men.

Thanks for visiting my page and commenting. Look forward to reading more from you.

Rose:)

posted by RoseDempsey on September 21, 2006 at 3:07 PM | link to this | reply

Glad I have 'found you'
Just to say 'thank you' for visiting my site and your comment.

posted by Scramble on September 21, 2006 at 1:24 PM | link to this | reply

azal
I don't believe for a moment that women like to harass men...now do you really believe that statement or is it specific to you? You see when you harass men you are only upsetting yourself and why go through that extra stress? It makes no sense to me as a woman. I really don't know the answer to the orginal question of why women live longer, but I guess we do! I hope you find the answer!

posted by Offy on September 21, 2006 at 12:27 PM | link to this | reply

afzal
I know this, love. Now get some rest.   

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on September 21, 2006 at 12:25 PM | link to this | reply

Sunny thanks, I am grateful for all your support and kindness.

posted by afzal50 on September 21, 2006 at 12:24 PM | link to this | reply

afzal
    

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on September 21, 2006 at 12:21 PM | link to this | reply

Sunny, just cool down plz. I am never that harsh with women as you
know better. I appreciate your ability to grasp ideas and thoughts so fast and easily. Regards to you and your agile mind . Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on September 21, 2006 at 12:20 PM | link to this | reply

afzal
You dare not dispute, because you know I'm right. LOL

I know you respect women....that's why this post came as such a shock. You have not adgitated me, but ONLY because I know your pain.  If I didn't know what you were going through, I'd likely be very upset with you.

Ok....I don't believe that you were trying to be humorous.  I think you are just upset and frustrated with what's going on.
I will send you an email now.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on September 21, 2006 at 12:16 PM | link to this | reply

Sunny, let me tell you that I hold in high esteem and great respect .
I was just trying to be humorous with cosy .I liked her blog with nice pictures. I thank you once again for taking such serious note of my blog and making me realise my fault. You are undoubtedly a very powerful
thinker.

posted by afzal50 on September 21, 2006 at 12:10 PM | link to this | reply

Bhaskar

YES! Of course, I'm serious! LOL
You're killing me here. Hahaha

This is why I try not to post controversial blogs. Do you see how long it would take me to comment on them?

 

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on September 21, 2006 at 12:10 PM | link to this | reply

Part 3
Men tend to take care of women but women keep complaining of men’s failure to give them true love
To be really honest here...a lot of men know nothing of true love. That doesn't mean they all don't. I would never any longer dream of man bashing the way you just bashed women in this post.
And as far as men taking care of women....see my previous comments about women taking care of children uncompensated, while men go and do whatever they want with their life and their money.

Every word that comes out of a woman’s mouth is full of condemnation and sarcastic blow
You know this is not true, I don't have to tell you this.

Men have to live like slaves indoors although they may act like kings outdoor . Women go for fresh air more than men
Men don't have to live in any circumstances they don't want too. They don't have to stick around...and that's if what your saying is true for the person in question.  And fresh air? How so?

Women eat more than men, Women sleep more than men
Men, by far as individuals eat much more than women. Sleep...I've already given my thoughts on.

Women enjoy this life more than men, so they get most out of this life
See my earlier comments, on kids, and work, and sex, and see if you can tell me this again.

Ok I think I'm done here, aside from commenting to your replies.
Being close to you, I had to take this opportunity to straighten your mind.
It's ok to vent, but if you do, make sure people know who you are talking about, or at least that you are talking about someone specifically....or you will have a LOT of women VERY angry with you.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on September 21, 2006 at 12:08 PM | link to this | reply

Sunny, I like your answer in defense of women . You know I respect women
a lot . It is only some women and it is only some men who go out of the category and class . Over all women bear much more pain in this life then men. I am listening to the latest song you sent me . I have great regards for you. Plz excuse me if I have agitated you and your thoughts.

posted by afzal50 on September 21, 2006 at 12:06 PM | link to this | reply

Sunny
F A N T A S T I C ............. What Wisdom!

posted by Bhaskar.ing on September 21, 2006 at 12:00 PM | link to this | reply

Artifact, You have a very balanced answer. Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on September 21, 2006 at 12:00 PM | link to this | reply

Part 2

"Women have one aim in life and that is to control men"
While some women do have a tendancy towards this, it is not the majority, and I for one have seen MANY more men controling women, than women controling men.

"women extract extreme pleasure from harassing men and giving them pain so that they may die soon"
All I can say is that I'm sorry that you are going through this. You know know this isn't true of everyone, and you know what to do.

"Women are sworn enemy of men and they are fond of inflicting pain on the hearts and mind of men in various and strange ways"
No honey, this is not true.

Women make men run till they are absolutely exhausted just for little things which is no secret to any one
It is to me...what's the secret you're speaking of?

There will be a part 3

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on September 21, 2006 at 11:57 AM | link to this | reply

Sunny , that' s the ageold allegation of men against women and what you
are saying is the real experience of life, I dare not dispute .Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on September 21, 2006 at 11:57 AM | link to this | reply

Sunny
Some great discussions - I 've never seen your comments bigger that your blog.! You serious or something?

posted by Bhaskar.ing on September 21, 2006 at 11:55 AM | link to this | reply

afzal
Simple!  because women are placed between men and God.

posted by Bhaskar.ing on September 21, 2006 at 11:53 AM | link to this | reply

afzal
I see every type of person acting that way to other people (women, men, children, the elderly).  I don't think it is particular to women or even to any one denomination of our society, but rather is a symptom of the stress and competitions we all must endure throughout our lives.

posted by Artifact on September 21, 2006 at 11:49 AM | link to this | reply

afzal ...Part 1
First....   "Women live longer than men because they are scared to die and because they love this life more than men"

This is COMPLETELY untrue. I can't speak for women where you are, but these are my views on people how they are here.  Women are no more afraid of death than men.  Even if they were, that certainly wouldn't play a factor in their length of life.
And as for loving life more...try being a single mother, who can do nothing but stay at home and take anxiety meds for having to deal with the kids ALONE, and not even being compensated for it, never getting to go out or do anything they like...while the men have a free life and can do whatever they like whenever they feel like it.

Next...   "They live longer because they harass men more and enjoy sleeping on the problems of their life" 
Harass more? Try being a woman who is stressed out dealing with kids full time, taking care of a home full time, and a good bit of the time also working a job full time....and then when a man gets bored with watching his t.v., he comes and harasses his woman for sex, constantly...something she doesn't have the time or energy for.
As far as sleeping on the problems of life.  While my son's father was living here, I can honestly say, I've NEVER seen anyone sleep that much.  All he did was lay on the bed all day long, watching t.v. and drifting in and out of sleep.  Oh, that's when he wasn't harrassing me for sex.  And as far as problems went....he just avoided them.

"Women take less stress than men."  See my comment above.  Then try being pregnant for nine months haveing to do all of the above while still working full time then giving birth only to almost die. When you can manage all of that...then we will talk about stress!

I'll send this in parts, since you're waiting. Here's part 1.

 

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on September 21, 2006 at 11:49 AM | link to this | reply

Ok, it will be a few more minutes. I'm working on it.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on September 21, 2006 at 11:46 AM | link to this | reply

I am feeling very sleepy but still I shall wait to see your reply .

posted by afzal50 on September 21, 2006 at 11:44 AM | link to this | reply

afzal
While I'm working on my reply to this, if you have anything you'd like to talk about, you can email me, and I'll get back to you.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on September 21, 2006 at 11:40 AM | link to this | reply

Thanks for being so kind and nice . I always respect you for that.

posted by afzal50 on September 21, 2006 at 11:35 AM | link to this | reply

afzal
HEY! Don't make me beat you! LOL
Obviously you're not having a good night at home, so I will consider this while I post my extended response here.  

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on September 21, 2006 at 11:31 AM | link to this | reply