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posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 19, 2006 at 10:40 PM
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You have a clue . You make sense . I am getting the link.
posted by
afzal50
on September 19, 2006 at 10:38 PM
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afzal
That doesn't tell me whether I've had a clue or not as to what I've been talking about. Hahaha.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 19, 2006 at 9:59 PM
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Sunny, You have gone to make a very deep analysis of my post
and provided good defense for women. Thanks .I am going to check the mail where I may see what more in store you have for me .
posted by
afzal50
on September 19, 2006 at 9:47 PM
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afzal
I'm really not sure I am understanding what your point here was, but I'm guessing I'd have to disagree with you on a lot of these things.
And Sadism? I nearly choked on that one. I have to remember not to eat and blog. I'm sure the definitions vary, but it is known that Sadism is deriving pleasure out of inflicting pain..physically. Some of the time this is done for sexual reasons.
I can't say as to whether women are fogiven more than men are....but if they are, I think it has a lot more to do with what is on the outside than what is on the inside. Men are more visual beings, where women are less visual than men. Men will always forgive, for need...of the attraction, the desire. Not true for everyone, but I think for a large portion.
I also don't believe that when men make mistakes they are not forgiven. I guess it would depend on just how much damage they've done, but I don't see where gender plays an issue here.
About men, and weak character, and such.... If men are perceived to be weak, it is because that's how people were made to believe, from birth. In a lot of cases, women have been "taught" that it's ok to be more emotional, and men have been taught that it is not. But I think things are changing in that area....although, very slowly.
And as far as women being to blame for the advances of men...I'm assuming that you're talking about sexual advances here...I would have to strongly disagree. As I have said, men are more visual beings, and cater more to how someone looks. I know as in cases of rape and such....nothing gives anyone that right. A woman does not deserve that, no matter how they look, how they act, or whatever.
The only thing I could even fathom that may come close to blame for such a thing is if they stop mid act and decide they really don't want to do it anymore.
Being a victim of sexual abuse, I just don't see anyone having that right. Man or woman. I haven't and wouldn't ever dream of having ill feelings towards a man because he doesn't want to have sex. I have been there a few times, and while crushing, it's within one's rights.
Maybe I'm just reading too much into my own thoughts? Maybe I missed the whole point? LOL.
This just hits too close to home with something I'm having to deal with right now.
Check your email, maybe it will shed some light. 
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 19, 2006 at 9:24 PM
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