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Frankenkitty, Thanks for stopping by!
posted by
afzal50
on September 14, 2006 at 11:03 PM
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I guess I am someone's problem.
I'm much nicer after a few drinks. Take care Afzal50
posted by
Flumpystalls3000
on September 14, 2006 at 6:25 PM
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Always
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 14, 2006 at 6:12 PM
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Sunny, Thanks for your inspirition and support .
posted by
afzal50
on September 14, 2006 at 6:09 PM
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BrightIrish, You are right now . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on September 14, 2006 at 6:08 PM
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afzal
I know that.
You will do well, I know.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 14, 2006 at 6:07 PM
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Sunny,I have decided and it is a matter of time and money . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on September 14, 2006 at 6:04 PM
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Afzal
I came back to read your response to my comment and realized that I made a huge error. I ment to say that nagging was a sure way not to get the co-operation of others. 
posted by
BrightIrish
on September 14, 2006 at 6:03 PM
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afzal
For all that I know of you, you have and have always had it in your power to break free of this. You only needed to have the desire to do so.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 14, 2006 at 5:45 PM
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Sunny, I know that and I am hopeful because of you now. Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on September 14, 2006 at 5:42 PM
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FLIGHTPATH, your comment is interesting and nice . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on September 14, 2006 at 5:40 PM
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BrightIrish, So it could beone reason for anybody to be nagging all the
time .Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on September 14, 2006 at 5:38 PM
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lionladroar, Thanks for stopping by with a sharp comment.
posted by
afzal50
on September 14, 2006 at 5:36 PM
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M.C.BREEZE, your comment is beautiful . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on September 14, 2006 at 5:33 PM
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afzal
I can't say I've been nagged much by any significant other.....I simply don't allow it.
The men I have been with know better....If they start with me, I won't give in, and there will be a fight to the death if need be, and nearly has been.
As in your situation....you won't be facing this forever. Just stay focused on your goals....you will make it away from all of this. I know you can. It may take a while, I know, but don't give up hope. I know there is a better life for you than this.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on September 14, 2006 at 5:30 PM
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I have a neighbor who nags herself, finding failure in everything she does if it's not done to absolute perfection. Fortunately, at least for a few moments, I can kid her out of a ridiculous apology for her perceived messed kitchen condition, with a quip such as, "How horrible ! "ONE dirty dish in the sink." (Her kitchen is spotless!)
posted by
reasons
on September 14, 2006 at 3:20 PM
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Afzal
At this time of my life I don't have anyone nagging me but I can tell you that nagging is the surest way to get others to co-operate with you.
posted by
BrightIrish
on September 14, 2006 at 2:53 PM
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I think what is worse is that they seem to be....
totaly unaware that thay are doing it. Maybe the secret is to make a tape and play it back to them?? But maybe not, they might just use it as fuel.... I had a spouse who nagged and found fault (for twenty years!) Now I have one who gives praise, it has a better effect that's for sure!
posted by
nonconformist
on September 14, 2006 at 1:49 PM
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Luckily not my spouse, if I get told off or nagged I mostly deserve my agonizing tongue-pie treatment. Though there is the guy named the Toepey, he's the man with the clout whom gives yes and no's, in replys. For our requests for all different manner of things. Us being market stall holders . On behalf of essex county council. His name is Less, our nick-name for him is Mona Less'er, but at least the painting smiles. Mike 
posted by
lionladroar
on September 14, 2006 at 12:27 PM
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this made me laugh and reminded me of when i was straight and
married to my ex husband. Thankfully i must now b one of the lucky few to now be married to a nice person min you i am also a lesbian now and of course she is my wife perhaps thats why she is nice coz she knows how to treat or nag another woman lol.xxxx
posted by
M.C.BREEZE
on September 14, 2006 at 11:47 AM
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