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Whacky--

What?? They are all gay? OMG!!

(sorry, that was bad but I couldn't help myself).

posted by Julia. on August 14, 2006 at 10:16 AM | link to this | reply

Silver--
They are perfectly normal reactions to something strange and unknown!

posted by Julia. on August 14, 2006 at 10:15 AM | link to this | reply

Ahh those kitties will soon be coming out of the closet.


posted by Whacky on August 14, 2006 at 12:36 AM | link to this | reply

My mom's dog reacted similarly

to meeting my son for the first time.  She has a little Maltese who had never seen children before my son.   We've a few trial-and-error experiences!  I hope your kitties recover smoothly.  I'm sure they will over time...

 

posted by SilverMoon7 on August 13, 2006 at 11:35 PM | link to this | reply

bel oh bel--
No, the question is what kind of human are YOU? lolololololol.

posted by Julia. on August 13, 2006 at 11:19 AM | link to this | reply

fourcats--
that would be unnverving to watch your "stuff" be in such peril!!

posted by Julia. on August 13, 2006 at 11:17 AM | link to this | reply

Bright--
her reactions and actions have surprised me on more than one occasion, lol.

posted by Julia. on August 13, 2006 at 11:16 AM | link to this | reply

thanks Wiley One!

posted by Julia. on August 13, 2006 at 11:15 AM | link to this | reply

Passionflower--
I think it's fairly common feline behavior to be freaked in new surroundings; they are starting to venture out a bit more each day.

posted by Julia. on August 13, 2006 at 11:14 AM | link to this | reply

If you try introducing me
to a 3 year old and 10 year, I'd be hiding in the closet too!  GEESH!  What kind of human are you??

posted by bel_1965 on August 13, 2006 at 9:53 AM | link to this | reply

hi julia. if your mother is going to offer sausage drippings, those cats

will be out of the closet in no time!

when my parents moved from saint john to quebec, my mother and i travelled together in the family car, dad was on a business trip.  at one point of the drive, mom and i caught up to the moving van on the highway and as we neared, the van started drifting in and out of the oncoming traffic lane so  we assumed the driver was falling asleep.  we wanted to pass him, we wanted to wake him, we didn't want to get run over by him as we went by, it was all very unnerving, watching all our worldly possessions careening about.  thankfully, everyone and everything arrived in one piece.

do let me know over time how you find being back in your old home town.  i don't want to go back to my town, per se, but i do yearn to move back to maine, which basically is a small town!   i worry that the s  l  o  w  will be my undoing, now that i'm accustomed to city life.

posted by fourcats on August 13, 2006 at 9:48 AM | link to this | reply

Julia
You sound happy and I'm sure the cats will adapt to their new home soon. I enjoyed hearing about your mothers reactions lol.

posted by BrightIrish on August 12, 2006 at 8:56 PM | link to this | reply

Julia
I am just happy you and pussycats are safe luv

posted by WileyJohn on August 12, 2006 at 7:46 PM | link to this | reply

"Needs must when the devil drives" Julia, it's better than some places I've
been. It's private and quiet.  The cats we'll worry about later, which reminds me of another favorite song, "Our House". 

posted by Blanche. on August 12, 2006 at 6:33 PM | link to this | reply

When we first moved here to the city a few months ago...
My cat was the same way. She's 4 yrs old but had only met a handful of people her whole life. She had never seen a child before. She was freaked out for a few weeks. Eventually, she came around though, as I'm sure yours will as well.

posted by Passionflower on August 12, 2006 at 6:33 PM | link to this | reply

blanche--
I could not live in an apartment, so asking a cat to do it would be unthinkable!

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2006 at 6:31 PM | link to this | reply

flightpath--
thanks very much!

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2006 at 6:30 PM | link to this | reply

True, Julia...I hope it works out well for you.

posted by reasons on August 12, 2006 at 6:29 PM | link to this | reply

I can't believe it either, Julia, I believe animals need space and freedom
as much as people do. I grew up rambling through pastures and over acres of space, and I would feel cruel keeping an animal from having any freedom merely for my own enjoyment. 

posted by Blanche. on August 12, 2006 at 6:27 PM | link to this | reply

blanche--
many people keep indoor kitties and swear they are happy, but I am inclined to believe that most of them are not. I've seen the pure joy of my three cats romping in a 4-acre field, catching gophers, climbing the trees, lounging in the sun and lots more, and I can't believe that apartment dwelling would ever come close.

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2006 at 6:25 PM | link to this | reply

flightpath--
I had several good reasons for coming back here, but of course that's still no guarantee that I will find it palatable. But then, we never really know for sure unless we try, right?

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2006 at 6:23 PM | link to this | reply

LOL, Julia., I believe you! I really want to get a kitty as soon as we
have a "cat friendly" home.  I'd really hate to have one confined to an urban apartment, without outside access. 

posted by Blanche. on August 12, 2006 at 6:19 PM | link to this | reply

Julia...When you choose to move back to a place where you've lived before, there's usually a good reason. You liked it there. I'm back now to a great, yet small place after raising a family and working in cities. Come to find out - so have many others here.

posted by reasons on August 12, 2006 at 6:19 PM | link to this | reply

Blanche--
crowded I can handle, I'll just move some things around until we all fit, lolol.

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2006 at 6:16 PM | link to this | reply

I understand the temptation, Julia., it might get a little crowded in there
but I know the feeling. One of my favorite songs is still "All I want is a room somewhere" from My Fair Lady.  That, and the story, by Virginia Woolf, "A Room of One's Own"

posted by Blanche. on August 12, 2006 at 6:13 PM | link to this | reply

blanche--
yes it is, and I said recently that due to the stress, change, ordeals etc. of moving, sometimes I want to join the cats in their safe haven!!

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2006 at 6:11 PM | link to this | reply

Julia., that seems wise of the cats, to find a safe haven, until they feel
comfortable in their new surroundings.  It's always good to have that to retreat to, when overwhelmed by threatening and overwhelming stimuli, for all beings. 

posted by Blanche. on August 12, 2006 at 6:07 PM | link to this | reply

A-and-B--
HA! I knew it! lol. Of course it was a pretty easy guess for me.

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2006 at 6:03 PM | link to this | reply

Maggie--
yep, the Furbies are here, and my sister andI have already laughed ourselves silly playing with them.

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2006 at 6:02 PM | link to this | reply

Blanche--
yes I suppose it is a tad boring for them, in the closet, but it's safe!

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2006 at 6:01 PM | link to this | reply

Azur--
I may have already had one of those moments, lol.

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2006 at 6:00 PM | link to this | reply

It sounds like everyone is settling in. Lol.

Congrats, you've won 20 clicks in this blog.

(B)

posted by A-and-B on August 12, 2006 at 3:04 PM | link to this | reply

Hi, Julia.  I see you've survived the trip with the 3 little ones and are getting settled in.  I'm glad you had a safe trip and I hope the kitties get adjusted to their new surroundings.  Have your furbies arrived yet?

posted by MaggieMae on August 12, 2006 at 2:50 PM | link to this | reply

Julia., I hope the cats come out of the closet soon
It's a boring way to live. 

posted by Blanche. on August 12, 2006 at 1:38 PM | link to this | reply

Julia.
Yes you can choose success with this move although you will have moments when you are reminded of why you left. Five days is not so long to wait. Mine took weeks

posted by Azur on August 12, 2006 at 1:36 PM | link to this | reply

avant--
I think you're right, they have led a very sheltered life so perhaps it's good for them to see what the "real world" is like.

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2006 at 12:56 PM | link to this | reply

Jemmie--
me too, and thanks!

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2006 at 12:55 PM | link to this | reply

Julia
It's good that they are made to stretch their wings a bit. I hope you are happy returning to your hometown.

posted by avant-garde on August 12, 2006 at 12:42 PM | link to this | reply

I hope they continue to acclimate!
Good luck to you and the kitties!

posted by Jemmie211 on August 12, 2006 at 12:41 PM | link to this | reply

LLM--
nice to see you, thanks for stopping by.

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2006 at 12:19 PM | link to this | reply

TAPS--
thanks very much for the compliment!

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2006 at 12:18 PM | link to this | reply

posted by lovelyladymonk on August 12, 2006 at 11:54 AM | link to this | reply

Julia, It is very interesting reading about your move and your new life.   I'm getting used to your new name and I like it a lot.   It is a pretty name and it suits you.   Its not just your story that is interesting, it is your writing that makes it so.

posted by TAPS. on August 12, 2006 at 11:27 AM | link to this | reply