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afzal50
It will be a little long, so I'll email you

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on August 7, 2006 at 6:58 PM | link to this | reply

What has happened to you? How are you disabled ?

posted by afzal50 on August 7, 2006 at 6:49 PM | link to this | reply

afzal50
Me and my daughter and son live with my mom.  I don't work right now, due to having two children and being disabled.
I have outside family...one grandmother, one grandfather, 5 aunts, 5 uncles, 9 cousins, 5 second cousins.... these are the one's that are still living

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on August 7, 2006 at 6:47 PM | link to this | reply

Sunny, How many members are there in your family and what work you do .
Hope you do not mind ?

posted by afzal50 on August 7, 2006 at 6:39 PM | link to this | reply

afzal50...actually, I'm nowhere near independant
At least not financially.  It's just mostly that I'm afraid of people

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on August 7, 2006 at 6:27 PM | link to this | reply

Sweetie , it's because you are fully independent in life probably.

posted by afzal50 on August 7, 2006 at 6:25 PM | link to this | reply

It sounds like it has it's good points and bad points.
I guess it would depend on how well you like your family.  Though it does sound secure.
Being that I'm not the real social type, I would probably not want to be in a joint family.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on August 7, 2006 at 6:15 PM | link to this | reply

Sweetie, Joint family system is a system where people of the same
family and clan live together ,work together,happen to share economic
burden together, support each other , care for each other and the family property remain inseparable till actually the family is divided due any compelling situation. Thanks.

posted by afzal50 on August 7, 2006 at 6:09 PM | link to this | reply

Ok sweetie

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on August 7, 2006 at 6:00 PM | link to this | reply

O.K. I will explain to you later.

posted by afzal50 on August 7, 2006 at 5:50 PM | link to this | reply

Hmmmm....guess I don't really understand this.
Guess I would need an indepth lengthy description of what goes on in a joint family before I could say yes or no.   

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on August 7, 2006 at 11:28 AM | link to this | reply

May be.

posted by afzal50 on August 7, 2006 at 8:50 AM | link to this | reply

afzal50
ok like the power of attorney here in the US, like my brother was using against me

posted by Lanetay on August 7, 2006 at 8:29 AM | link to this | reply

The property and law of inheritence is governed in a way to keep
the family under one head known as HUFi.e., Hindu Undivided Family , which is run by Karta , a karta is an eldest male memeber of the family and is a kind of legal manager of the Joint family property.

posted by afzal50 on August 7, 2006 at 8:14 AM | link to this | reply

afzal50
very good but I dont know what you mean by joint family

posted by Lanetay on August 7, 2006 at 8:03 AM | link to this | reply

Lilane, A joint family concept supports the individual to a
great extent. In India there is even legal concept of Hindu Joint Family system.

posted by afzal50 on August 7, 2006 at 7:55 AM | link to this | reply

Mari-am, Thanks for your compliments.

posted by afzal50 on August 7, 2006 at 7:48 AM | link to this | reply

joint family?
maybe  I dont understand this concept,

posted by Lanetay on August 7, 2006 at 7:48 AM | link to this | reply

your visions is too deep dear afzal thanks

posted by Rosetree on August 7, 2006 at 7:46 AM | link to this | reply

Rumored Intelligence, Thanks for stopping by !

posted by afzal50 on August 7, 2006 at 7:02 AM | link to this | reply

afzal, you make a good point..I'd go back to a joint family system
if we could....

posted by Rumor on August 7, 2006 at 6:58 AM | link to this | reply