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Kat20, nice choice.
posted by
afzal50
on August 8, 2006 at 9:59 AM
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I would move away
To a the lake front were we have a small but nice home with my husband it has some land with it so not to be bothered with neighbors, and it's in a small town something I have always loved
posted by
Kat02
on August 8, 2006 at 9:57 AM
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Sunnybeach7
Ok so how can you speak for Afzal, he has told me many occasions how much he loves me and you didnt see that then you arent reading the right blogs, the way he has asked me to love him is not the kind of love of friendship nd the reason I got upset with the MA section is he started his expressions of love first thru the MA section. Al most all the comments I have had are from him and him alone.
posted by
Lanetay
on August 7, 2006 at 10:57 AM
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afzal50 and lilane
Afzal....do not fret over this or worry about what is public here, or my conversations with lilane. You are not at fault here. And whatever is put out there does not bother me.
Lilane....you are constantly contradicting yourself. You say you don't have feelings for him, then you come off this way. I don't understand your jealousy here. If you had read any of afzals posts, you would understand that this kind of thing is exactly the kind of behavior he wants to get far away from. Something that has caused him pain in dealing with his wife.
BTW....I don't want to sound cruel here. But I can't think of any other way of putting this. He doesn't have the interest in you that you think he does. And about my MA section. If you don't like the comments, you don't have to read them. He's a man for goodness sake. What he expresses after reading posts in the MA section may or may not reflect his personal feelings. Either way, you don't have a say in it. You can not try to control someone, they will resent you for this. He has done nothing wrong, accept try to find some comfort and friendship in you, which maybe his only mistake is that he didn't express this clearly enough.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on August 7, 2006 at 10:42 AM
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O.K. we need to relax little for things to settle down .
posted by
afzal50
on August 7, 2006 at 8:37 AM
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afzal50
I am not being cruel and vindicive. To whom have I been vindictive, I think I have already expressed what it was that upset me
posted by
Lanetay
on August 7, 2006 at 8:34 AM
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I think you have misundertood the whole interaction and feed back I
was trying to give Sunny on her blogs and you have to passionate to inspire some one to do something , it does not mean that I was doing all that as you allege. Please ,please do not be so crude and vindictive. I expect reasonable comment from you and a control of your emotional outburst . I ask you to accept me even now as I am and I shall accept you forever but you will not .
posted by
afzal50
on August 7, 2006 at 8:08 AM
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afzal50 and Sunny
You misunderstood the jealous end of this whole subject, you can talk as much as you want but it was the flirtatious way you both talked in the MA section. That is what bothered me, it was like Afzal was in a bar picking up women after he just made love to me. Its the same feeling, I don't care who you both talk to but when it comes to the sexual side that upset me. I haven't wanted to express sexual or love feelings to you through my email, because I don't say things I don't feel. If it was family or personal life then you should of expressed that to me and I would of been there for you. I have broad shoulders and I have been told I am easy to talk to so here I am, just don't expect that I send out sexual messages.
posted by
Lanetay
on August 7, 2006 at 7:58 AM
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Sweetie , I have received your email but some how I deleted it by
mistake . please do send me another email . I have sent an email to you expressing my feelings about you and I have also sent an email to Lilane explaining my position in respect of my conversation with you which I was trying to establish pertaining to my personal life . I do not know why Lilane took an exception to our interaction over a subject which is highly personal. I must tell you that I had asked her to share some moments with me privately but she refused now when you agreed to make me happy for friendship sake she became jealous. I do not know what sin I have done . Why is Lilane fighting with you so much over me . I appreciate your courage that you have handle the issue one on one with Lilane otherwise I did not know what to do . I am such an unlucky man that whereever I find little love I find my self in trouble . Any way I thank you so much for being kind and sympathetic towards me.
posted by
afzal50
on August 7, 2006 at 2:55 AM
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Sweetie , I am really very sorry if you had to face so much of
embarrassment because of me . It is not your fault actually it is my ill luck that people misunderstand me . I asked Lilane to be private with me but she refused . I found that you were really concerned and had developed some affection with me so I thought that I could share some heart to heart discussion off blogit. Any way I am grateful to you for respecting my feelings .Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on August 7, 2006 at 2:31 AM
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lilane....I guess I see it differently than you do.
See my most recent comment to you about this. I will go look at your other blogs, but at this point, I'm not seeing any um...how would you put it? Any "declaration" of love? At least not in the form you're hoping.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on August 7, 2006 at 12:16 AM
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Sunnybeach7
He has declared his love for me on all my most recent blogs, in all the subjects I write on. I feel he is just wanting someone to respond favorable when it comes to love and sex. I don't know where is Timmy?But the difference with me flirting with Timmy I haven't declared my love to anyone here on Blogit. There is one man that has my heart, but doesn't return the love I give him. Now is the time to try out that forgiveness
posted by
Lanetay
on August 6, 2006 at 11:58 PM
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lilane...lol. I have seen some of your blogs and the comments.
I know what you're saying. He is a man you know
I'll check out more later. Are you sure you understand all of what he's saying? He is a sweet guy after all. Maybe you're misinterpreting something, and maybe not? I haven't yet been able to figure out what is in a man's head.
BTW....what ever happend to Timmy? I thought U2 were having pretty intense conversation?
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on August 6, 2006 at 11:34 PM
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Sunnybeach7
its not so mcuh you Sunny but its him, I can hear the heavy breathing from here. Read my blogs and you will see why I feel the way I do. And that is all I have to say about this.
posted by
Lanetay
on August 6, 2006 at 11:28 PM
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lilane
Don't be so hard on him. We have talked for awhile on here. He's a real person with feelings too, ya know. Some of them you likely understand, and some maybe you don't. There is nothing wrong with people being friends. Calm down a little
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on August 6, 2006 at 11:11 PM
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lilane...dear....I love and care about everyone. At least I try to.
I'm not taking anything from you. If you two can get together and have a life or whatever and make each other happy, you have my sincerest blessings.
There's no need for you to feel this way. I'm not trying to "steal you man"
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on August 6, 2006 at 11:07 PM
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afzal50
you are approaching Sunny as you did me, you don't think that is a reason to be jealous
posted by
Lanetay
on August 6, 2006 at 11:05 PM
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Sunnybeach7
well call me nuts but you two sound awfully cozy
posted by
Lanetay
on August 6, 2006 at 11:03 PM
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afzal50
It's sent...you should get it soon.
About jealousy... it's easy to come by here. If a woman thinks you may be targeting her love interest, jealousy sets in
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on August 6, 2006 at 10:37 PM
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Why are you jealous so easily .
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 10:29 PM
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afzal50...I'll start working on it now.
lilane...lol....there's nothing to be jealous of....really
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on August 6, 2006 at 10:26 PM
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afzal50
I guess maybe you should read my blogit about jealousy
posted by
Lanetay
on August 6, 2006 at 10:25 PM
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Do it soon . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 10:21 PM
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afzal50
That's hard to say here...many different things. I could put them all out here, but if you really want to know, I'll email you privately?
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on August 6, 2006 at 10:20 PM
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What do you feel about me ?
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 10:14 PM
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afzal50 ...yes, you have crossed my mind on more than one occasion
I could tell you "no", but it would be a lie.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on August 6, 2006 at 10:12 PM
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lovelyone, Thanks for stopping by!
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 10:05 PM
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Hmm.
I honestly have no idea ... As I am not married and have no children, I, unless matters changed drastically between now and the decades until my retirement, would have to live alone. A nice cottage in the country would suit me, away from the hustle and bustle of city life.
posted by
lovelyone
on August 6, 2006 at 10:02 PM
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Did you think of me while you were out to enjoy the weekend.
You are so nice and thoughtful .
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 9:56 PM
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It was nice, though very exhausting.
Glad to hear you're feeling better sweetie
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on August 6, 2006 at 9:41 PM
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bel 1965, That's nice and sweet on your part to be so thoughtful of your
husband.
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 9:38 PM
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I will retire with my husband and live with him
We don't fare well sleeping apart, even for a night. Both of us end up tired and cranky without the other. Where? Doesn't matter as long as he is there with me. We are talking about someplace like Virgina or West Virginia. But I would live in a cardboard box as long as we could be together.
posted by
bel_1965
on August 6, 2006 at 9:36 PM
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Sweetie , Feeling much better . Thanks.How did you enjoy your weekend ?
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 9:31 PM
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afzal50
Yes, I think I understand now what you are saying.
Are you feeling any better today?
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on August 6, 2006 at 9:29 PM
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I meant that in case you would be working till you die you will be lucky .
They say : work is worship becuase many people do not want to work but remain idle in hope of God's mercy coming forth without any edeavour in life . Hope I am clear.
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 9:25 PM
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"work is worship" ? You may have to explain that one...
I'm not sure I understand?
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on August 6, 2006 at 9:20 PM
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Sweetie, Work is worship. Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 9:18 PM
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afzal50
That's a really tough one. I don't think it would be any of those options.
I haven't been able to work for about 4 years, because of the kids and disability. Even if I ever get well enough to work again. I can't imagine I'll ever be able to retire. I'll likely be working till the day I die.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on August 6, 2006 at 9:05 PM
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TAPS,That's great and good of you .
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 4:51 PM
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Tawakwan,Find some one . You will feel good.
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 4:49 PM
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Straightforward, Thanks for stopping by!
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 4:46 PM
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Straightforward
I guess you havent kept up on my blogs, you will learn what is going on there
posted by
Lanetay
on August 6, 2006 at 11:46 AM
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Afzal, I am retired and have been so for two years. I used to think that when I retired I would go to one of my favorite places like Santa Fe, NM or the mountains of Colorado or maybe the Oregon Coast. But, when the time arrived, I realized that I really wanted to remain where I was and keep the status quo and only visit those place like I had always done. I would like to live close to, but not with, my children and grandchildren but they are spread from one coast to another. I would like to live in my own place and take care of myself, but should that become impossible due to health reasons, I will be satisfied to spend my remaining time in whatever place my sons deem best for all. I am determined to be content in whatever state I am in and to see the best in any situation.
posted by
TAPS.
on August 6, 2006 at 10:30 AM
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Most likely simply die.
The word retirement for me is much like vacation. I don't know what they mean. I have no mother,father,sister,brother,kids,and few real friends other than my writing. When I retire I will simply die.
posted by
tawakwan
on August 6, 2006 at 9:59 AM
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Hey, afzal50 and lilane, what's up? or are you both simply deploying that
figure of speech called sarcasm?
posted by
Straightforward
on August 6, 2006 at 9:46 AM
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nireo71,Thanks for stopping by!
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 9:38 AM
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far far away, alone in a cottage
posted by
rtrr06
on August 6, 2006 at 9:36 AM
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So sweet of you my darling. I just want to sleep now . Take care.
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 9:33 AM
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afzal50
you must do what makes you happy
posted by
Lanetay
on August 6, 2006 at 9:30 AM
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Moon Spirit, That's good idea .
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 9:17 AM
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Afzal, I would take my millions in lottery winnings 
and travel continually. MoonSpirit 
posted by
syzygy
on August 6, 2006 at 9:15 AM
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No , only you and myself . She does not like village life.May be I will
sepatate very soon.
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 9:08 AM
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afzal50
with you and your wife?
posted by
Lanetay
on August 6, 2006 at 9:02 AM
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Kanupriya2683, I think it would be the best thing for you to do provided
you find your first love . I pray for your success and dream come true.
Thanks. Life is precious move ahead.
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 8:56 AM
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not do any of ths thgs
u knw wat , after my retirement i wud search for my first luv in life n wen i wud find him , i wud want to spend my remaining yrs wit him sumwhr in the hills very far frm the city!
posted by
sharon_2006
on August 6, 2006 at 8:49 AM
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Ariala, It's really a nice romantic choice . God bless you . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 8:38 AM
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I want to live near the sea and mountains.
posted by
Ariala
on August 6, 2006 at 8:34 AM
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You can come to India and live in my village with me .
posted by
afzal50
on August 6, 2006 at 8:25 AM
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retire
Not alone but in a cottage house, with snow, a fireplace. And I am hoping to retire soon, but the cottage will probably have to wait for awhile
posted by
Lanetay
on August 6, 2006 at 8:12 AM
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