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Mari-am, Ek glass thanda lassi peo . Aram mile ga.
posted by
afzal50
on August 5, 2006 at 11:25 PM
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Mery sermi bohot dard hogiye Qaqajeee ,
Please Soal puqni band karigi ap , barayi mehribani ........... 
posted by
Rosetree
on August 4, 2006 at 1:47 PM
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bandanafish, thanks for stopping by !
posted by
afzal50
on August 3, 2006 at 9:34 PM
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Oh wow,
geez, good question.
I think I'd choose b) break it off, because I wouldn't be able to shake off that strange feeling. But, I'd probably remain friends, because the person has to very special (probably an inspiration to me) for me to be with in the first place. It'd a shame to lose that to say the least.
You sure have some nice questions here! 
posted by
bandanafish
on August 3, 2006 at 9:23 PM
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.Dave., thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on August 3, 2006 at 3:44 AM
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I don't know whether Ariel70 saw my comment below, so I'll call him by his
proper name and see if he finds it. He'd have to supply some decent cerveza as well.
posted by
_dave_says_ack_
on August 3, 2006 at 2:36 AM
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Moon Spirit, thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on August 2, 2006 at 10:50 PM
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Afzal, I have literally visited this post 5 times today; I kept thinking about the answer, considering different women, different situations. I think I have to agree with Sunny. Moon_Spirit 
posted by
syzygy
on August 2, 2006 at 10:11 PM
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Sunnybeach7, Thanks for stopping by and leaving a balanced comment.
posted by
afzal50
on August 2, 2006 at 8:12 PM
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afzal50
Depends on the person and the circumstances and if they are genuinely sorry.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on August 2, 2006 at 7:51 PM
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nireo71,It is really painful to do that but you have no option.
posted by
afzal50
on August 2, 2006 at 10:51 AM
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I would leave them at least that's what my pride says I would do.
posted by
rtrr06
on August 2, 2006 at 10:34 AM
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Jazwolf, it is but natural that relationship will end .
posted by
afzal50
on August 2, 2006 at 10:22 AM
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Afzal--- Cheating on one's spouse, of course, is but a symptom of
whatever is the real problem, which likely is long past fixing. I might consider going to counseling with her, but, more than likely, the relationship would be over.
posted by
Jazwolf
on August 2, 2006 at 9:51 AM
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shiqi, well you are very charitable . It is really good thought .
posted by
afzal50
on August 2, 2006 at 9:09 AM
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Love them. Love them anyway. A marriage means that you love them for better or for worse, and this falls into the "worse" area. Will it really matter if you talk to them? Will it really make things better? Building complications on complications rarely works. Loving someone is a horrible curse where you realize that you will love them beyond measure. Love them knowing that it's the best you can do, and if they choose not to honor that, they are losing everything, and you'll know there's nothing more you could have done.
posted by
shiqi
on August 2, 2006 at 9:03 AM
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.Dave., That's nice .
posted by
afzal50
on August 2, 2006 at 8:41 AM
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Go to Spain and live with El Tel and make jokes about donkeys all day.
posted by
_dave_says_ack_
on August 2, 2006 at 8:35 AM
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Sorry, I could not understand your comment in a hurry .
posted by
afzal50
on August 2, 2006 at 7:38 AM
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TAPS , You are right .
posted by
afzal50
on August 2, 2006 at 7:30 AM
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afzal50
hit back comment?
posted by
Lanetay
on August 2, 2006 at 7:26 AM
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Afzal, Its easy to say what you would do, but when it comes down to it, one does not always react in the way that they think that they would in such a situation.
posted by
TAPS.
on August 2, 2006 at 7:26 AM
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Lilane, Thanks for returning with a hitback comment .
posted by
afzal50
on August 2, 2006 at 7:18 AM
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forgive
I always give second, third, fourths etc, until I am blue in the face, dumb me
posted by
Lanetay
on August 2, 2006 at 7:15 AM
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bel 1965, very good and sensitive comment.
posted by
afzal50
on August 2, 2006 at 6:46 AM
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Done, over, I'm out the door
Today cheating on a partner goes so much further than just the personal dishonesty. This person puts your life and health at risk. Someone who cared that little for both my feelings and physical well being is not someone who loves me and I'd be gone.
posted by
bel_1965
on August 2, 2006 at 5:54 AM
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ariel70, You have made beautiful poetic comment . Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on August 2, 2006 at 5:29 AM
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Afzal
Hmm ... intriguing question. Homicide witha a blunt implement and maximum bodily damage springs to mind.
But there, I'm an old softie, so I guess I wouldn't. No, poison, an electic fire in the bath, a handful of ball bearings on the stairs. The possibilities are infinite.
posted by
ariel70
on August 2, 2006 at 5:17 AM
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