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Sunnybeach7, That's really a thoughtful comment on my blog .
posted by
afzal50
on August 2, 2006 at 9:51 PM
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afzal50
I don't think women, in general, are hard hearted. Maybe things are different where you are. It may seem that women may see evil intention in a woman seeking help from a man, but depending on the circumstances, this is not necesarily untrue. Some women do seek out men for "evil intentions" so to speak.
I don't know that I can really answer this appropriately, as I'm not sure what all your talking about.
Like to offer a hand to a woman who has fallen? Sure. Give her a little money because she's standing there with two kids, starving...yes, fine.
But to offer your shoulder for a stranger to cry on, I'd likely have to draw the line if it's someone of the opposite sex. Things happen, hearts change. This is a real fear for women. Maybe some jealousy, but I don't see anything malicious there, just someone guarding there relationship.
Well that's my 2 cents
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on August 2, 2006 at 8:51 PM
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nireo71, Thanks for stopping by !
posted by
afzal50
on July 29, 2006 at 11:55 PM
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Women are hard hearted...
my hard heart is all for show though.
posted by
rtrr06
on July 29, 2006 at 10:56 PM
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Shamsuddin Jim, It is difficult to state but it has been my experience that
most of the women I have known are hard hearted . Do have any statistics on the emotional issue? It may vary from woman to woman or it may not .
posted by
afzal50
on July 29, 2006 at 5:53 PM
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Lilane, feeling is all that matters. Feelings can calm and feelings can
excite your heart and mind. Let's feel that we are already united in our spirit and soul .
posted by
afzal50
on July 29, 2006 at 5:49 PM
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How many women out of a hundred are you talking about?
posted by
Shams-i-Heartsong
on July 29, 2006 at 4:36 PM
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How many women out of a hundred are you talking about?
posted by
Shams-i-Heartsong
on July 29, 2006 at 4:36 PM
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afzal50
you might be right but its useless to feel that way
posted by
Lanetay
on July 29, 2006 at 11:42 AM
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We are made for each other.
posted by
afzal50
on July 29, 2006 at 10:48 AM
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you know me I dont get a lot in return but I give my all and I know you are the same
posted by
Lanetay
on July 29, 2006 at 9:24 AM
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Lilane , you are absolutely correct . I agree with you .
posted by
afzal50
on July 29, 2006 at 9:14 AM
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women
just don't have a women turn on you they are vindictive and so many are just looking for what they can get from the man in return to giving him sex, a real relationship shouldn't be like that, give until you cant give any more but don't expect anything more in return
posted by
Lanetay
on July 29, 2006 at 9:07 AM
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Lilane, Your view on women is excellent . I liked your view on men because
you gave a new angle to my blog.
posted by
afzal50
on July 29, 2006 at 8:45 AM
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afzal50
and not my view on women?
posted by
Lanetay
on July 29, 2006 at 8:38 AM
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OFFBEATS, Thanks for stopping by !
posted by
afzal50
on July 29, 2006 at 8:33 AM
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Afza
I don't see women like that. I would help a woman out as fast as I would a man. Jealousy is such a wasted emotion!
posted by
Offy
on July 29, 2006 at 8:29 AM
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Lilane , I agree with you in as much as men are concerned .
Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on July 29, 2006 at 8:24 AM
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women
Many women are protective of their status in life and the way they live their life for their man and children. But some women are vicious and jealous of anything good another woman might receive. Men in most cases could care less, what the neighbor is doing. It is called ugly envy, women are more prone to be envious than a man is. That is why they have the word Bitch on clothes, jewelery etc because some women live up to that name, unfortunately. And men have caused some of women to over react to the attention they give another woman in friendship, as many do stray more so then a woman.
posted by
Lanetay
on July 29, 2006 at 7:32 AM
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Afzal
No harm, no foul.....that is what writing is all about, you were expressing yourself and I was as well.
I don't want to discourage you from writing or your beliefs.....but I had to give you my thoughts on the matter.
I look forward to reading your posts.
posted by
BlondeAmbition007
on July 29, 2006 at 7:22 AM
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ms bradrock, I am extremely sorry if my blog has disturbed . I was just
trying to make the issue lighter and initiating a debate to raise some humorous comments . Of course, I just overlooked the impact my generalisation to could leave upon some of my respected readers. Please for give me if I have made some harsh remark or observation with regard to ladies encompassing all women which incidently was not my intention but a failure of my mind and writing .
posted by
afzal50
on July 29, 2006 at 6:37 AM
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BlondeAmbition007, Thanks for visiting my post . I do agree with your
observation fully and in complete sense. I think ,it was my mistake to gereralise , I am really sorry for being that harsh . I do respect women and have always held them in high esteem . I just expressed my view in a lighter vien . Please feel free to communicate with me as you should , I am not the person to disallow opposite views . I always invite people to opine on what I write . Writers by nature by naure are objective except in some cases where subjectivity is the prime objective . Hope you will excuse and forgive me if I have heart you unknowing and without any intention. Take care .
posted by
afzal50
on July 29, 2006 at 6:30 AM
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Afzal
I've never disagreed more with anything you have previously posted than I do with this blog.
I have a problem lately with stero typing gender, religion and any group just because of your personal views, it does not mean that every person in that category acts or believes the same way.
I am a woman that falls into your category of all "women" in this blog.
I am nothing like what you are writing about.
I have a sense of humor when it comes to joking around about how men act in general and how women act in general...in a joking and humorous manner, but you posts today does not seem like a joke and I do not see terms of "general" characterizations....it reads as though....it is cut and dry that all women act and think the way you have descirbed in your posts.
That is my honest opinion and feedback as you have requested.
I'm sorry that your personal experiences have led you to have this sterotypical view of all women. I would be happy to give you examples of my own personal experience that contradicts almost everyone of your statements, but I do not like to waste my time with someone who is set in their ways and not open to opposing view points.
posted by
BlondeAmbition007
on July 29, 2006 at 6:03 AM
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afzal,
Yours is an interesting perspective. Though I do not believe it to be true of all women, I have observed this in some. As the mother of sons of the marrying age, I have noticed some personality traits that I don't mind telling you disturb me greatly. I can only hope that there are still a few young ladies out there who nont only understand the the true meaning of virtue but also take pride in being virtuous. We women are a curious species...
By the way, thank you so much for stopping by my blog. There will be more to come on What Grandma Knows...Blessings!
posted by
ms_bradrock
on July 29, 2006 at 5:52 AM
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