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I just want your warmth and love . I do not want anything I just want you
to understand my feelings which I have developed for yo within these few days of exchange of views over different subject . I have found you to be the right person who could provide me true happines . better late than never . I must thank God I have got you now .
posted by
afzal50
on July 17, 2006 at 9:06 AM
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afzal50
that is true but cooking and cleaning is not part of that, its been so long that I had a partner I would probably cater to him at the beginning but not for long
posted by
Lanetay
on July 17, 2006 at 6:58 AM
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You are not lilke Women of US . You are the one who want to give
everything to your lover.
posted by
afzal50
on July 16, 2006 at 11:16 PM
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afzal50
I am sorry then you wouldnt survive in US as most woment dont cater to their mates
posted by
Lanetay
on July 16, 2006 at 11:01 PM
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No. I am unable to live alone without support.
posted by
afzal50
on July 16, 2006 at 10:47 PM
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afzal50
so you cant take care of yourself?
posted by
Lanetay
on July 16, 2006 at 10:41 PM
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Yes , it is true that men are dependent on women for cooking and
cleaning as you said .
posted by
afzal50
on July 16, 2006 at 10:21 PM
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afzal50
ok so are men considered helpless when it come to cooking and cleaning?
posted by
Lanetay
on July 16, 2006 at 10:08 PM
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we have to depend on women for food and other reqirements such as
maintenance of clothes and other things .
posted by
afzal50
on July 16, 2006 at 10:02 PM
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afzal50
dependent on women how?
posted by
Lanetay
on July 16, 2006 at 9:55 PM
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It is easy to think but hard to do . Men are dependent on women .
posted by
afzal50
on July 16, 2006 at 9:43 PM
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pleasure
you can get a divorce and live without love or sex
posted by
Lanetay
on July 16, 2006 at 7:39 PM
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freedom
can be a good thing but at the same time our morals or more relaxed
posted by
Lanetay
on July 16, 2006 at 7:38 PM
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I am impressed with the freedom you have . I also appreciate the choices
women have in western countries and ofcouse America is leading the world towards freedom both internal and external .
posted by
afzal50
on July 16, 2006 at 6:09 PM
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afzal50
too bad they are so back ward in that area, and so modern in other areas.
posted by
Lanetay
on July 16, 2006 at 5:58 PM
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Lilane, I have to live with this farce because I find no option.In India
people are forced to live a life which is not of free choice but of compulsion because of the cultural mores and social insecurity .
posted by
afzal50
on July 16, 2006 at 5:55 PM
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markng,In Indian people marry only to keep their family happy and often it
is understood to be a religios duty and ofcourse their is a special craving amongst the Hindus to have a son out of the wedlock for the son will provide the moksha to the father after death as he will lit the pyre and the Muslims to folow suit in this belief they need sons to carry out their name and burn candle in the graves as women are forbidden to visits graveyards most often.
posted by
afzal50
on July 16, 2006 at 5:50 PM
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lilane
Marriage is not about love or sex in some cultures, sometimes it is a family obligation, a kind of duty to marry and have children. Not sure if azfal subscribes to this cultural values though.
posted by
markng
on July 16, 2006 at 5:35 PM
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It certainly have a spiritual side, but that doesn't mean it ought to be govern by religious rules entirely.
posted by
markng
on July 16, 2006 at 5:29 PM
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afzal50
so you are confused as to who you love, so your need for sex is just that and no love attachment. Why continue with this farce?
posted by
Lanetay
on July 16, 2006 at 11:41 AM
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Lilane dear, I do not know whether I ever loved my wife with whom I am
living now or the one I have left and separated from . I am a confused man I do not know actually where do I stand . I think I have not yet found the lady who is made for me .May be I am being mysteriously drawn close to some Blogger who is my inspiration in my real life . Every thing that she says and every thing that she writes is what I love now .
posted by
afzal50
on July 16, 2006 at 10:48 AM
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Lilane , In answer to your first comment I would say you are very practical
bold and truthful.I must say you are not a hypocrite and do not pretend to act holy .
posted by
afzal50
on July 16, 2006 at 10:41 AM
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progeny
Do you love your wife still?
posted by
Lanetay
on July 16, 2006 at 9:14 AM
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pleasure of course
I guess I have a little bit of old fashion and openness when it comes to when its right to have sex. Unfortunately I wasn't a virgin when I married and I must admit I had sex with him before we were married. I don't have a excuse other then I am a very sensual woman and need a lot of sex to be fulfilled. What I don't agree with these days is living with someone and having children without the ceremony of marriage. Is that old fashion thinking? I would be all dried up by now if I waited to be married to have sex. I have been single for 22 years but haven't done without sex. Oh thank God for that!
posted by
Lanetay
on July 16, 2006 at 9:13 AM
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