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Thanks, Joe. I appreciate that.
It's officially been decided that we're going to Oregon. M will have to be moved by the first or second week of January and I will be there, well, when I get there. I gotta sell the house and train a replacement (and train my boss of 10 years.) **sigh** Long road ahead, I guess!

posted by SpitFire70 on November 21, 2005 at 2:51 AM | link to this | reply

SpitFire70
I hope everything gets better for you. I've been where you are several times in my past, and when the smoke clears, everything turns out all right. Your home sale will relieve a bunch of pressure on you. On the bright side, both North Carolina and Oregon are beautiful states.

posted by Joe_Love on November 20, 2005 at 8:16 AM | link to this | reply

Thank you, Sweet Taps.
I'm trying. I always do try. I know things can always be worse. (But, I hope they don't get worse!)  

posted by SpitFire70 on November 17, 2005 at 11:30 PM | link to this | reply

Spitfire, I know it has not been long enough yet to work things out, but I do hope you are seeing some light at the end of the tunnel, or coming in the windows or somewhere.

posted by TAPS. on November 17, 2005 at 4:23 PM | link to this | reply

Mystic,
How much $$ are we talkin'? hehe  

posted by SpitFire70 on November 17, 2005 at 5:56 AM | link to this | reply

Tough choice? How about both?

posted by fwmystic on November 17, 2005 at 5:07 AM | link to this | reply

Mystic,
Got your  and you cracked me up! I needed that. Now, do you want Mark to alter or manipulate a pic of me or the tomato?  Eyes  





posted by SpitFire70 on November 16, 2005 at 11:12 PM | link to this | reply

I want the tomato picture!!!!
is it for sale? or, is there anything else you might be able to entice me with. You did say anything I wanted, right. How about sending that photo to Mark, letting him pervert it any way he wants, and I buy it???

posted by fwmystic on November 16, 2005 at 5:45 PM | link to this | reply

JJ, my friend, thank you for at least that penney, here.
Regardless of whether or not you paid even less than a half of a penney, I'm grateful for your friendship. Always will be.  

posted by SpitFire70 on November 16, 2005 at 1:33 AM | link to this | reply

Oh, my sweet Jems, THANK YOU.
And much love and light back to you.  

posted by SpitFire70 on November 16, 2005 at 1:26 AM | link to this | reply

Flame-thrower,
If you do visit the site, just enjoy. And, I apprecitate any visits and any referrals; truly, I am grateful. Thank you.  

posted by SpitFire70 on November 16, 2005 at 1:24 AM | link to this | reply

curator, thanks for the interest and I totally, truly appreciate it....

God, I hope it's not "Shaycom Illigal," but it's at www.cafepress.com/SoulXpression 

Thanks again!!  Enjoy!

posted by SpitFire70 on November 16, 2005 at 1:22 AM | link to this | reply

Sir Strat, THANK YOU!!!
And, many, many, genuine smoochies to you, too.   

posted by SpitFire70 on November 16, 2005 at 1:20 AM | link to this | reply

Oh, Reni, no worries!! I got it now!
   

posted by SpitFire70 on November 16, 2005 at 1:18 AM | link to this | reply

Spiffy,

Hey!  Here's a penny for your blog.  What about that?  Pretty kewl thinking, eh?

Figure up how many years it will take for my visits to make you ''well to do'' and I'll figure out whether either of us will live that long.  Take care of U-seff.   jj

posted by Jack_Flash on November 15, 2005 at 7:18 PM | link to this | reply

***HUGS***
I hope things work out for you.  I shall pray for you and send you good thoughts.

posted by Jemmie211 on November 15, 2005 at 11:05 AM | link to this | reply

An amazing post with a tinge of provocation isn't it? I liked it very much.

posted by Flame-thrower on November 15, 2005 at 9:49 AM | link to this | reply

I haven't visited so much so I don't know where to find the website...?

posted by curator on November 15, 2005 at 9:01 AM | link to this | reply

Hang in there, Young Miss.
Off to see the website!

posted by strat on November 15, 2005 at 7:02 AM | link to this | reply

Geez, what the HELL did I mean? mo???? WTF was I thinking?
Thanks, Temple, for straightening my crap out so poor spiffie could understand me...

posted by Renigade on November 14, 2005 at 7:59 PM | link to this | reply

And, BESIDES, Mark!!! I'm NOT WICCAN! You KNOW that already!
K, Yeah, I'm a witch, but I'm a TRAD Witch, ya goon ball! You know that! Oh, hell, how can I even yell at you? Me and Temple woke your ass up at 3am a few weeks ago, so shit, I guess it's okay. K? Right? Hello? Mmm-K?? Um, Hi? Ya there? Helloooowww??? **Grovelling happening here***   Shy 





posted by SpitFire70 on November 14, 2005 at 7:38 AM | link to this | reply

ltlmac70, I MISS YOU, TOO!
Great to see you!!!!  Thanks for stopping by. Hope you're doing well. Talk to ya soon, K?

posted by SpitFire70 on November 14, 2005 at 3:37 AM | link to this | reply

Mark, I KNOW the kind of guy you are already, so
why try to explain yourself to me?  

posted by SpitFire70 on November 14, 2005 at 3:31 AM | link to this | reply

JJ, you silly. You quack me up, you.
However, the drugs they gave me have actually made me lose at least 3 days of my life this past week. It kinda sucks. So, what day is it again?

posted by SpitFire70 on November 14, 2005 at 3:29 AM | link to this | reply

Sell them?
That hurts.  I would do no such thing, and I don't make a dime from posting them on the WildWiccanWozahs! website, either.  Why not?   Because that's just the kind of guy I am. 

posted by mark2556 on November 14, 2005 at 3:05 AM | link to this | reply

Spiff,

If you're interested in doing the pain thing without Rx stuff, get the scripts and have insurance pay for them, send them to me, and I'll pay you for them.  That way you can con money from the insurance carrier for your MRI, I can get drugs, and everyone will feel a lot better.  I'll have to go with generics, though.  I can't afford the good sheet.

Things will work out somehow.
Just don't let it get to your head.  That only makes it worse.   jj

posted by Jack_Flash on November 14, 2005 at 2:23 AM | link to this | reply

Oh, and Temple, if Mystic wants that or ANY pic of me to sell or
whatever, I'm desperate enough to give him whatever he wants as long as I can $benefit$ from them!! Wow. How desperate am I?? Yeeks. Did I just type that out loud?

posted by SpitFire70 on November 14, 2005 at 1:27 AM | link to this | reply

Temple, I think that's what Reni meant, however,
I don't wanna rent if I don't have to. If I do, it will be only temporary cause of Capital Gain and all. I will eventually take the $$ I sell the house for and put it into a purchase of a new house wherever we end up moving to. (Looking like NC so far.) I will take the equity and pay off bills and maybe have to use some more to supliment my lost income by being jobless for a little while. Yikes.

posted by SpitFire70 on November 14, 2005 at 1:25 AM | link to this | reply

Yes, Temple. I want everyone to visualize me on the potty.
Any potty. I'm obsessed with potties, don'tcha know? I'm already having a Pity Party On The Potty. K? Enough visuals for ya now? hehe

posted by SpitFire70 on November 14, 2005 at 1:20 AM | link to this | reply

Spif, Reni means month to month I think...
But your mortgage is cheaper or the same as your rent would be (esp if you have to put stuff in storage).  Does your left side hurt tonight?  Remind me to tell you later why I'm a GENIUS!  Oh, about the pics, I meant of the bunch you sent me the other night and the one you posted in your comments, you should have posted the one with the sunglasses cuz it was cute....and mystic wants the one in your sidebar in the post itself (in case that was confusing). xo

posted by Temple on November 14, 2005 at 1:20 AM | link to this | reply

JanesOpinion, well, I can't thank you enough.
All I can say is that I know ANYONE can and will find something for everyone and/or themself. It's full of lots of items with unique creations of mine. I truly appreciate your looking and your comment. Thank you.

posted by SpitFire70 on November 14, 2005 at 1:18 AM | link to this | reply

I know, Quirky. How kewl would that be??
  

posted by SpitFire70 on November 14, 2005 at 1:16 AM | link to this | reply

Reni,
What's a "mo" apartment? I know I should put my house on the market, but until we get an official offer for relocation that we are willing to accept, I'm not doing anything. I'm sure that if M gets an acceptable offer, he'll have to move before I can. I'll stay here, continue working, train a replacement for my position, and sell my house.  Thank you so much for all your advice, you kind woman, you!

posted by SpitFire70 on November 14, 2005 at 1:14 AM | link to this | reply

Temple, I could never "ho you out!" You're all mine!
Besides, me love you long time! hehe

posted by SpitFire70 on November 14, 2005 at 1:10 AM | link to this | reply

Koriani, I will certainly download that info for pain control!!
I'll do anything to rid myself of this constant pain. And, thank you SO much and thanks for checking out my webstore, too.

posted by SpitFire70 on November 14, 2005 at 1:09 AM | link to this | reply

Temple, if I sent Mark the pic of me
(or any of those pics) he may sell them for a profit that I may never benefit from. Not that I don't trust him with them, of course.

posted by SpitFire70 on November 14, 2005 at 1:01 AM | link to this | reply

Thanks, Blackcat and yup... I'm hangin on!
What else can one do?  Have a great vacation, too!!!

posted by SpitFire70 on November 14, 2005 at 12:58 AM | link to this | reply

katray, my sweet friend, I can't thank you enough.
So, allow me to at least send you a big smooch!  Blowing A Kiss 





posted by SpitFire70 on November 14, 2005 at 12:57 AM | link to this | reply

You do know it's supposed to be a pity PARTY right?
Or did you just feel some sick need for all of us to have a visual of you on the potty again?  Hmmmmm?

posted by Temple on November 13, 2005 at 11:43 PM | link to this | reply

I'm heading over to your website if not tonight then in the next few days . . . . Hang in there!

posted by JanesOpinion on November 13, 2005 at 6:23 PM | link to this | reply

Transitions and change are never easy to handle, but I try to hold onto the hope that good will come of it all. Wishing the best for you now and always. If you have to move, I hope it is to Oregon so we can get together.

posted by Julia. on November 13, 2005 at 5:24 PM | link to this | reply

Wow...That's alot to deal with. I'd put the house on the market ASAP
to get rid of that payment and then live in a mo apt yourself.  As for the move, we just went through the same thing, so I feel you on that one.  It WILL get better.  Good luck!

posted by Renigade on November 13, 2005 at 3:31 PM | link to this | reply

If you're interested in non-drug methods of pain control

I highly recommend you download the free manual on the EFT website.  I find it very effective for immediate pain control.  Works wonders on my headaches and carpal tunnel.

I'll check out your cafepress store too!

posted by koriani on November 13, 2005 at 9:23 AM | link to this | reply

Mystic was talking about the pic in your sidebar of you in the white top.
I think you should have given Mark the pic you sent me of you with the little sunglasses (down in your comments).  It was cute.  Jimmy will check out your store.  Where the fuck is Jimmy already?  And, hey, if you can get me to Japan, you can ho me out like we talked about, dude.  Just get me a cat sitter and I'll pay you back outta profit.    I might do okay... American girl, redhead, big knockers....something of a novelty.  

posted by Temple on November 13, 2005 at 6:40 AM | link to this | reply

damn.. that sucks! I'll check out your stuff when I'm back from vacation.
Dial-up is just way too slow.  Hang in there!! 

posted by -blackcat on November 13, 2005 at 6:34 AM | link to this | reply

Bad times, good attitude Spitfire
I'm trying for one too, amidst the tragedies and tatters. I haven't begun shopping yet for the adults on my list, so I'll be visiting your site soon to find some gifts. (I know they'll be kewl and special) Take care friend.

posted by Katray2 on November 13, 2005 at 6:08 AM | link to this | reply

Passion, thanks anyway, my friend.

If you can at least pass it on to others, that would be totally kewl. Myabe someone else may be able to benefit from my store.   

posted by SpitFire70 on November 13, 2005 at 5:34 AM | link to this | reply

Hey Girl! I'm so sorry to hear about your financial crisis.
I've got money right now just no time to spend it...life ain't never perfect is it? Wish I had time to go check out your sales. Good luck.

posted by Passionflower on November 13, 2005 at 5:21 AM | link to this | reply

Oh, and Mark, the fishnet stockings,

I still have them, but they may be a bit worn out due to usual wear and tear. Sorry. How 'bout....

 

posted by SpitFire70 on November 13, 2005 at 5:19 AM | link to this | reply

Mark, must I continuously tell you how much I adore you and

love you?

posted by SpitFire70 on November 13, 2005 at 5:02 AM | link to this | reply

Libertine, thank you, my sweet friend.
I wish I could do more for you, too. Times are hard. It sucks, but I guess we have to do what we have to in order to evolve in this life; whether or not we feel it is the right thing or not. We must go with our gut feeling, I guess.

posted by SpitFire70 on November 13, 2005 at 4:51 AM | link to this | reply

MayB, I totally understand and I thank you truly.
Thank you for being so, well, who and what you are.   

posted by SpitFire70 on November 13, 2005 at 4:37 AM | link to this | reply

BlancheD, thank you!
Here's the link... www.cafepress.com/SoulXpression  There is SO much to see. And, I thank you for anything or any referrals for anything. As I said, I'll create ANY personalizations requested for NO extra charge. Thanks again!!

posted by SpitFire70 on November 13, 2005 at 4:27 AM | link to this | reply

Mystic, WAIT! What pic are you referring to in "this post"?
What the hell pics could I possibly sell for moolah, anyway??

posted by SpitFire70 on November 13, 2005 at 4:22 AM | link to this | reply

Mystic, well, I'm not really willing to chance that with the mortgage
payments being late! Scawwy stuff! Thanks for the comments, you sweet thang. Smoochies.

posted by SpitFire70 on November 13, 2005 at 4:20 AM | link to this | reply

Oh, T, only pics of my boobs for you. You know that, Silly Girl.

posted by SpitFire70 on November 13, 2005 at 4:18 AM | link to this | reply

lovelyladymonk, how sweet of you to say these things...
Thank you. I wish you the best in your life, too. Especially your back pain. OMG, that is something I have learned I would never wish on anyone! Yikes!!  

posted by SpitFire70 on November 13, 2005 at 4:14 AM | link to this | reply

You're a victim.
And in pain.  And have semi-decent credit.  Come here and let me hold you, and I'd be able to hang on longer if you're wearing fishnet stockings.

posted by mark2556 on November 13, 2005 at 4:14 AM | link to this | reply

Thank you, Ariala. That means very much to me.
This was a hard post to write as it was. Yick. I hated to stoop to this level...not that it isn't genuine, but still...

posted by SpitFire70 on November 13, 2005 at 4:12 AM | link to this | reply

A million thank you's, Taps.
That means so much to me. Really.   

posted by SpitFire70 on November 13, 2005 at 4:10 AM | link to this | reply

J-Mum, I can't thank you enough.
 Bow Down Wave    





posted by SpitFire70 on November 13, 2005 at 4:08 AM | link to this | reply

SpitFire
I have been where you are. Our first son, Sam, brought on some troublesome financial times for Cameron and me. We prayed and little by little, we crawled out of what was not so big a hole afterall.

Have you ever heard of 'The Law of Abundance'? It is a Chinese New Year ritual, where you take a check and make it out to 'The Law of Abundance'. Where the amount is required, write 'Pd in full'. Sign it 'The Law of Abundance'. My wife did this and I know it is only suggestion, but she looked at it taped to the refrigerator.

Every day, she would work to pay off debt and save money. It really turned her around. I know they say it's for the New Year, but I surmise it can begin to help immediately.

My prayers are with you.

Scott

posted by avant-garde on November 13, 2005 at 3:28 AM | link to this | reply

Spitfire70, your pro-active approach is bound to help you through. I have always found that when things are very tight, something always provides. In my big earning blogging days I used to give much of my proceeds away to bloggers or at least support them in their projects. Alas, during this time of transition I can't and am trying to keep myself afloat. Hang in there. I think that communication with debtors is the key. Take care. I do understand the stress

posted by Azur on November 13, 2005 at 2:49 AM | link to this | reply

Let me see what I can do...

I've missed you and will certainly help if I can.  Later...

ltlmac70

posted by superflymom119 on November 13, 2005 at 12:00 AM | link to this | reply

Ask and ye shall receive! It will happen - you deserve lots of good things. Check your email shortly - ok?

posted by Ca88andra on November 12, 2005 at 11:18 PM | link to this | reply

I'm so sorry. It just seems to be getting tougher for everyone. I will definitley check out your stuff if I ever catch up! 

posted by Holy_Grail on November 12, 2005 at 8:57 PM | link to this | reply

Spitfire,

Yeah, we thought we'd be ahead by "bundling" everything with QWEST and maybe in the long run we will, but with the cost of new phones, the modem installments, activation fees, etc.  the bill was $328, I just about passed out.  btw,  (I need to get your website). 

posted by Blanche. on November 12, 2005 at 8:46 PM | link to this | reply

Forget selling your stuff ...
how about auctioning off the tomato (which looks like an apple to me). I'll bid. And how about a life sized poster of that great shot of you on this post? Not to mention the boobie pictures. And have you considered webcams????

Don't worry about missing your mortgage payment. You have to be three months behind before they evict ya!

posted by fwmystic on November 12, 2005 at 8:37 PM | link to this | reply

I know you don't email everyone dork....did you read my whole comment?
I have a link to your store on my page, so do you, so they always have access (and won't have to always find this post)....see...?  Now stop takin' pictures of yer boobage.  ;)  Second thought, always take pictures of yer boobage!

posted by Temple on November 12, 2005 at 8:31 PM | link to this | reply

SpitFire,

I truly wish there was some way I could help you out, but there isn't and I'm so sorry.  I have chronic back pain too...Have had it on and off for several years now.  So, I know how you feel in that respect.  Unfortunately, the only advice I can offer to help you here is to suggest that you make yourself as comfortable as you possibly can and try not to do any one thing or stay in any one position for any length of time.

Know that if I had money to loan you, I'd do it in a heart beat!!  If you need someone to talk to, please let me know.  In the meantime, I'll be sending good thoughts your way.

posted by lovelyladymonk on November 12, 2005 at 8:26 PM | link to this | reply

Spitfire, wow...that's almost too much to go through and I'm sorry you
have to bear so much pain, as well as the unexpected bills...I'm gonna be sending prayers and positive thoughts your way.

posted by Ariala on November 12, 2005 at 8:24 PM | link to this | reply

Spitfire, I really hate to read of all the problems that you are having, especially the pain.  It is really hard to take care of other problems if one is in constant pain and not functioning as normal.   My thoughts are with you and best wishes for very quick solutions.  I will visit your web site.

posted by TAPS. on November 12, 2005 at 8:09 PM | link to this | reply

Spitfire
I am so sorry this is happening to you. I will check this out. I will /

posted by Justi on November 12, 2005 at 7:52 PM | link to this | reply

Blanche, funny you mention cell phones....
That was our unexpected $540 bill!!!

posted by SpitFire70 on November 12, 2005 at 7:47 PM | link to this | reply

Spitfire,

Exactamundo.  What the pho are they thinking. Well, anyway, I got to write down your site, and visit (after I balance my checkbook).  This is small potatoes compared to what you're going through and I"m not crying n my hot chocolate, but when we changed our cable/cellphone/DSL package we got hit with a ton of charges I wasn't expecting.  Day-um.

posted by Blanche. on November 12, 2005 at 7:38 PM | link to this | reply

Okay, T. I will check it out. Yeah, I know it's in my
email signature, but well, I don't email with everyone, so I thought I'd just mention it.

posted by SpitFire70 on November 12, 2005 at 7:36 PM | link to this | reply

Blanche, a million thank you's!!!!
And no, I don't get the insurance companies either. Obviously there is something really bad going on with my back/neck and I just want a frickin' diagnosis so I can fix it! I don't want to keep masking it with drugs (though the drugs can be fun, hehe) but some of us have to work for a living!

posted by SpitFire70 on November 12, 2005 at 7:35 PM | link to this | reply

p.s. go look at snifferhead
It will make you laugh....... xoxo

posted by Temple on November 12, 2005 at 7:12 PM | link to this | reply

Spiffy, you can mention you have a link in your sidebar
And that I do too...and that it's in your email signature for anyone who gets email from you...

posted by Temple on November 12, 2005 at 7:11 PM | link to this | reply

Hey Spitfire,
Those are some heavy duty things you have on your plate: back injury (what is it with insurance companies not paying for MRIs?  Do they think people can fake an MRI?  Isn't the whole point to rule out people who are faking?), pulling up stakes and moving.  I'll check out the website cause I still haven't done any Christmas shopping.  Stay strong. 

posted by Blanche. on November 12, 2005 at 7:01 PM | link to this | reply