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symphony
Maybe they've been together sooooooo long, that she really doesn't care. lol Kind of like, taaaaaaaaaaaaake him, but just make sure you forward his paychecks to me. lol
posted by
Joe_Love
on October 20, 2005 at 6:06 PM
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hiiii how r u now?
I got ur mail and i replied just a few minutes back.catch it up.
posted by
abhilasha
on October 14, 2005 at 6:40 AM
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Thank you ever so much everybody.
abhilasha ...did you get my email?
posted by
_Symphony_
on October 12, 2005 at 5:16 AM
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hiiii!
I share ur views i would also never ever share my man with anyone,but i've also seen it happening.i think relationships are not plain but cubical,with many corners if you dont juggle them u wont be able to see the cracks that spread on the other side.But its really very complex to judge whether to hold on or revolt,this subject is perplexing me for last few months and if and when i get a suitable answer to my questions am gonna write all that i'll get out of it.
Take care and get well soon 
And thanks for appreciating my poems.
Abhilasha
posted by
abhilasha
on October 12, 2005 at 1:16 AM
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Symphony, I always said, "my man ain't got enough for two of us.".....
Now, you can take that any way you want. Whatever he's got, there's only enough for me. That friend had to know something was amiss!
Hope your throat is on the mend and you are rested. Take care. 
posted by
MaggieMae
on October 11, 2005 at 5:18 PM
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Take care of yourself.
posted by
Aria4
on October 10, 2005 at 11:05 AM
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posted by
ARGUS
on October 10, 2005 at 7:55 AM
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Perhaps she accepted denial willingly
Hard to believe she didn't know on some level. Hope your throat heals quickly. Take care Symphony.
posted by
Katray2
on October 10, 2005 at 7:50 AM
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Symph,
You would be surprised how women will go to any length to protect their spouse in a abusive relationship. It has nothing to do with love. Its power play, shame, and its fear. Getting out completely for many women is totally impossible and they will accept any agreement just to keep the relationship operating. I worked at the women's abuse center one semester as part of a school project. Shadow
posted by
Keshet
on October 10, 2005 at 7:01 AM
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Some cultures tolerate polygamy. Take care of that throat! :)
B.
posted by
A-and-B
on October 10, 2005 at 6:53 AM
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myddrin and jojo ...exactley thats my point.
I don't understand how she would not know either, I too have been cheated on, but you always find out right? not 10 years down the line when he has another family. I just don't get it. and yeah he does work away. but still...
posted by
_Symphony_
on October 10, 2005 at 6:46 AM
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Symphony
I don't see how she could possibly not know. I agree with Shadow there must have been some abuse going on. It is one thing to cheat but to actually have children with someone and for this to have been going on for ten years that's just amazing.
posted by
jojostar
on October 10, 2005 at 5:42 AM
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Symph,
I've had them cheat on me, but not like this and personally I don't see how she couldn't have known. She's either a total idiot or he has abused her enough mentally and physically that she isn't really capable of fighting back and so will accept whatever he wants. I opt for the second simply because, unless the man has a job that takes him away for at least half the month, there's no way you and the other woman involved wouldn't figure it out. I can't answer for her decision to stay, but, I wouldn't be hanging around to meet the other woman. Shadow
posted by
Keshet
on October 10, 2005 at 5:39 AM
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