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Joe
Thank you

posted by Bel_ on August 18, 2005 at 6:54 PM | link to this | reply

I feel if you WANT to write the letter
You SHOULD write the letter.

posted by Joe_Love on August 18, 2005 at 3:01 PM | link to this | reply

Dog1net
thank you, actually your comment helps me thin about what I will include.  Thank you!

posted by Bel_ on August 17, 2005 at 7:28 PM | link to this | reply

MayB
I am actually working on it.  It's tough to say what I want to say, but am working on it.

posted by Bel_ on August 17, 2005 at 7:23 PM | link to this | reply

I think the parents would welcome such a letter as it would affirm that there were others who cared about her and are saddened by her death. But more importantly it would be a testament of how their daughter's living affected those who she came to know and considered her friends. Thanks MW for reading and commenting on my recent post.

Scot

posted by dog1net on August 17, 2005 at 6:08 PM | link to this | reply

I think that it would be good to write that letter.

posted by Azur on August 17, 2005 at 2:24 AM | link to this | reply

U R welcome.

posted by word.smith on August 16, 2005 at 10:14 AM | link to this | reply

Quirky
You are right about that.

posted by Bel_ on August 16, 2005 at 9:19 AM | link to this | reply

sure you do...you just second guess your intuition is all...

posted by Julia. on August 16, 2005 at 9:14 AM | link to this | reply

Quriky

Thank you.  I am so bad with stuff like this, I never know what exactly is the right thing to do.

posted by Bel_ on August 16, 2005 at 9:09 AM | link to this | reply

MW--
Yes I'll pray for that family.  I'm sure your heartfelt words would be appreciated, regardless of whether you still have a loved one there or not. It would mean a lot to them to hear that their child was highly regarded by others.

posted by Julia. on August 16, 2005 at 8:56 AM | link to this | reply

word.smith
This really helps alot, thank you. 

posted by Bel_ on August 16, 2005 at 8:47 AM | link to this | reply

I think it would be a source of comfort to know
 that their daughter had an impact on those around her. Write if and when you can think of something to say.

posted by word.smith on August 16, 2005 at 8:45 AM | link to this | reply

Jimson
Thank you...now I just have to find the words

posted by Bel_ on August 16, 2005 at 8:32 AM | link to this | reply

Blackcat
Thank you, it seems this is one that everyone agrees upon....scary thought!

posted by Bel_ on August 16, 2005 at 8:32 AM | link to this | reply

You write so well...
My heart tells me they would like it! I would think they would be greatly appreciative! Good luck!

posted by SomeoneElse on August 16, 2005 at 8:20 AM | link to this | reply

Military.... YES. Write it. I can guarantee it will be appreciated.

posted by -blackcat on August 16, 2005 at 7:49 AM | link to this | reply

mmm-w
Thank you so much

posted by Bel_ on August 16, 2005 at 6:38 AM | link to this | reply

MIdnightToker
Thanks...I guess to be honest there is a part of me that feels guilty today because I am so grateful it was not mine.

posted by Bel_ on August 16, 2005 at 6:38 AM | link to this | reply

thats so sad... i know it's happening daily but it still breaks my heart to hear of it.....

i encourage you to write it....you are beautiful with words....

posted by mmm-w on August 16, 2005 at 6:13 AM | link to this | reply

MW,
Write it. Say whatever is in your heart. I can't help but think it would be something her family would cherish forever. You'll be glad you did.

posted by Jaxson-Pete on August 16, 2005 at 6:04 AM | link to this | reply

SilverMoon
Thank you

posted by Bel_ on August 16, 2005 at 5:51 AM | link to this | reply

Write the letter
I think it would be a nice idea to write to the woman's family.  Just a short note would do, explaining who you are, that your husband thought highly of her, and expressing your deepest hearfelt condolensces.  I'm sure they would appreciate the support. 

posted by SilverMoon7 on August 16, 2005 at 5:49 AM | link to this | reply