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LOL, Groucho. I dunno where that email address is!
How and why is it that I keep tuning into your thoughts? Why is your wife's coming into them now, too? I know. You guys gotta be doing that on purpose to me!

posted by SpitFire70 on April 11, 2005 at 9:14 PM | link to this | reply

spitfire

not just the last sentence! Just a bit of self-deprecation on my part. 

(where's that shrink's e-mail? Wait, not the guy who wanted to remove his leg...)

posted by tbgroucho on April 11, 2005 at 9:03 PM | link to this | reply

tbgroucho, oh, did you mean that last sentence in my
repsonse comment to you? LOL. Took me a minute to understand what ya meant!!

posted by SpitFire70 on April 11, 2005 at 8:56 PM | link to this | reply

Temple, it sounds as if you already have a pretty good idea
of what your dreams mean. I don't really think you need me!

posted by SpitFire70 on April 11, 2005 at 8:54 PM | link to this | reply

Spitfire
I wish you'd stop quoting my wife!

posted by tbgroucho on April 11, 2005 at 8:44 PM | link to this | reply

Spiffy, only once I knew the kidnapper. Gene Hackman!

What the hell does that mean? I haven't escaped yet.  But, this recent PTSD episode came about with major feelings of being trapped and restricted and forced into things....I think that in my dreams that they force me into things represents, somehow, some of the loss from the brain injury.  The owls and water I do understand, yes....they both represent change or transition in different ways.  The kidnapping dreams are twofold, I think:  PTSD comes from violence of some kind, as did mine, so when it's triggered it's triggered by danger + helplessness.  It doesn't have to be violences.  This is very complex and I'm simplifying it a lot for my purposes, but the trapped part totally works.  I started having them when my danger + helplessness was triggered by something, I wasn't feeling safe (relating to my security, stability in life), and I was feeling monumentally (I can't find a big enough word here) trapped and forced down a road that I didn't want to follow.  That was when I was at Yellow.  They've slowed down since I left. 

So, the combo of the PTSD brought me violent dreams (it always does) but in this case it tapped into that trapped thing that had taken over me.  Cool. 

Last night, I dreamed that my Mother was 7 different people.  If you knew my Mother, you wouldn't have to analyze that one. ;)

posted by Temple on April 11, 2005 at 12:55 AM | link to this | reply

Any time Strat!

posted by SpitFire70 on April 10, 2005 at 2:13 PM | link to this | reply

Groucho,
According to Dream Moods (a website) this is what it says, "Contrary to a popular myth, you will not actually die if you do not wake up before your hit the ground during a fall.
As with most common dream themes, falling is an indication of insecurities, instabilities, and anxieties. You are feeling overwhelmed and out of control in some situation in your waking life. This may reflect the way you feel in your relationship or in your work environment. You have lost your foothold and can not hang on or keep up with the hustle and bustle of daily life. When you fall, there is nothing that you can hold on to. You more or less are forced toward this downward motion without any control. This lost of control may parallel a waking situation in your life.
Falling dreams also often reflect a sense of failure or inferiority in some circumstance or situation. It may be the fear of failing in your job/school, loss of status, or failure in love. You feel shameful and lack a sense of pride. You are unable to keep up with the status quo or that you don't measure up."

posted by SpitFire70 on April 10, 2005 at 1:31 PM | link to this | reply

Cool. That actually makes the most sense of any thoughts I've had or heard
on the matter. I thought I was just either dipsomanic or just plain nuts.

Thanks!

posted by strat on April 10, 2005 at 1:25 PM | link to this | reply

Temple,
From what I looked into, I found that to dream that you are being kidnapped, denotes feelings of being trapped and restricted. Someone or some situation may be diverting your concentration and your attention away from your goals.

posted by SpitFire70 on April 10, 2005 at 1:16 PM | link to this | reply

FactorF,

To see a raging flood with its muddy debris, signifies that you may have much unsettling occurrences and tribulations in life. Your repressed emotions may be overwhelming you.

If you’re swept away by a flood, forewarns that someone may be trying to use you. To see an ocean in your dream represents the state of your emotions and feelings. It is indicative of some spiritual refreshment, tranquility and renewal.

posted by SpitFire70 on April 10, 2005 at 1:14 PM | link to this | reply

Strat, how interesting!!
I'd say stay away from the red wine! But I think the wedding dream meant something like in real life, you're anticipating the outcome of something you don't have too much control or say about. The strangers in the church may represent unknown onlookers or the decision makers that you don't personally know. Oh, and I fell off a cliff once in a car and hit the ground. I can't remember if I died or not but I remember suddenly being "okay" with dying in a few more seconds.

posted by SpitFire70 on April 10, 2005 at 1:05 PM | link to this | reply

Temple,

I'm sure you understand the owl and water dreams already, but I'll check out the kidnapping. Just have a question, though. Do you know the kidnapper? Does he take you somewhere? Do you escape?

posted by SpitFire70 on April 10, 2005 at 1:01 PM | link to this | reply

JJ,
Don't be spooked. Voices talk to me all the time. hehe

posted by SpitFire70 on April 10, 2005 at 12:59 PM | link to this | reply

I am mostly G and H

although I have had teeth dreams in the past.

Mostly now it's looking for my class/new dorm room/boyfriend (ex) who can tell me how to find the prior

or H - flooding, especially ocean flooding (nothing to do with tsunamis - has been around for most of my life)

 any deep insights now?

posted by FactorFiction on April 10, 2005 at 9:31 AM | link to this | reply

Spitfire,
I'm not married. But I don't think the dream means I don't want to. I think it's just something that happens when I drink red wine.

posted by strat on April 10, 2005 at 6:01 AM | link to this | reply

I could keep you busy for YEARS with mine girl...

It depends on if I'm having PTSD dreams or not, but they are always vivid.  My PTSD dreams lately are about kidnapping (which has never happened to me)....sometimes being made to do things I can do that no one else can do (like if someone made you use your psychic ability for bad) to hurt people....this is just the latest treats....

Mostly I know what mine mean, that kidnapping, I don't know.  When I go through a lot of changes, sometimes I dream about owls.  When I am really withdrawn, and introspective, maybe depressed, but doing "inner" work, I dream about water.

posted by Temple on April 9, 2005 at 11:52 PM | link to this | reply

tbgroucho, I'll get back to you regarding the "falling" thang.
It is significant. (Give me til tomorrow, cause I'm Soooo Tired and just retrurned home from a wedding where I had to perform the ceremony and act as "Matron of Honor." Too much damn responsibility!!

posted by SpitFire70 on April 9, 2005 at 11:38 PM | link to this | reply

hey, I used to fly,

Holy Crap--I just figured that one out.  I'll tell you about it sometime.
Hi, I was just here to say something and a Spirit God told me ''Shut Up on that.''

  JJ    I just got spooked.

posted by Jack_Flash on April 9, 2005 at 11:37 PM | link to this | reply

Dreamster, Only your socks on?
Was the rest of you naked? Where were you? Let me know more details so I can more appropriately analyze them.

posted by SpitFire70 on April 9, 2005 at 11:34 PM | link to this | reply

Strat,
Listen, I must be honest here. I'm not sure if you're married or not....yet. If I knew, I could analyze your dreams more. Just tell me in a comment and I'll be better at analyzing your dreams for ya.  

posted by SpitFire70 on April 9, 2005 at 11:30 PM | link to this | reply

So, Rach, you were flying a plane. I gather?

If so, this reoccuring dream has a totally different meaning!

posted by SpitFire70 on April 9, 2005 at 11:25 PM | link to this | reply

OBP, is it LUCID dreaming??

posted by SpitFire70 on April 9, 2005 at 11:23 PM | link to this | reply

gypsy, SHOCKING!! ...NOT!!

posted by SpitFire70 on April 9, 2005 at 11:22 PM | link to this | reply

E and C in that order
I dream a lot about falling.  Most of the "violence" i dream of consists of attacks by nature upon my dreaming personage, esp. insects.  I am not afraid of them, save for bees (my generation was the Swarm one).

posted by tbgroucho on April 9, 2005 at 9:47 PM | link to this | reply

I would say having magic powers, flying, and being lost are my most common dreams. I did have this odd reacuring dream over and over about walking around with only my socks on...?

posted by oubleU on April 9, 2005 at 3:29 PM | link to this | reply

Love the flying dreams!
I didn't know anyone else had dreams of their teeth falling out. That always weirds me out.

The one I can't stand is the one where I'm standing at the altar of a church in tux, and the preacher is telling me it's time, and I don't know who's coming up the aisle. In fact, it's my wedding and I don't know a soul there. Wake up screaming.

Or wait a minute, that was my last trip to New Orleans...

BTW, I know fer a fact I dream in both sound and color.I've heard that's not possible. I've also hit bottom when falling off a cliff and lived to tell about it.

posted by strat on April 9, 2005 at 3:17 PM | link to this | reply

Hmm...
I guess a little of each, although I have only had one flying dream, but it was really cool.  I was flying next to a jet, and then decided to land on the Harvard campus.  The landing was a little shaky, but for a first attempt I did pretty damn good!  :)

posted by RachelAnna on April 9, 2005 at 8:32 AM | link to this | reply

Spitfire
I choose A..always have this dream about flying just above the tree tops on a card table. I love it when I have that dream, but doesn't seem to last long enough...

posted by Offy on April 9, 2005 at 7:32 AM | link to this | reply

Spitfire... I'd choose the same as you!!!

posted by RedHeadedGypsy on April 9, 2005 at 6:02 AM | link to this | reply

JJ, after tomorrow's wedding is over with, I'll have more time to
help out with dream analysis. But, what be up wit' ANYONE GIVIN YOU FLACK about....what???? OOhh, don't wanna release the Spitfire on them. What happened now??  Grrr....

posted by SpitFire70 on April 9, 2005 at 1:07 AM | link to this | reply

Jems, I gotta be quick for right now, but
violence in dreams means anger and unresolved issues that you are unable to portray in waking life. Dreams are our own ways of unleashing and releasing that anger.

posted by SpitFire70 on April 9, 2005 at 1:05 AM | link to this | reply

Alf, first of all, I'm SOOO glad to see you around again!
YAY! Secondly, hmmm, I may want to try to analyze this one for you. I am only awake at this hour right now cause I have been making last minute preps (which I have yet to finish) for a wedding I'm officiating tomorrow, wait, no, later TODAY! Oh, shit! I gotta get outa here and get to sleep! What am I thinking?!

posted by SpitFire70 on April 9, 2005 at 1:03 AM | link to this | reply

Violence, isn't that weird, Jimmy?
I had many violent (REALLY violent) dreams of seriously hurting or killing people when I knew my husband was cheating on me. I really messed this one guy up, big time. But he deserved it, cause in my dream, he was a really bad man. I shot him in the face after taunting him! I think that dream is a post within itself. I still remember it as if I dreamt it last night!  Scawwy!

posted by SpitFire70 on April 9, 2005 at 1:00 AM | link to this | reply

spiffy,

This sounds like one of those trick, undercover psychoanalysis, deals.  I know how those things work--you're trying to sneak everyone's profile out of them.

I guess I can live with that.  It has to be G.  Some of the other stuff has happened, but I get so lost in those that I have to figure out where I am when I wake up.  That needs to be combined with the walking around nekkid deal.  While I'm lost on the University Campus, I am nearly in some anacceptable form of dress.  Please get back to me on the profile, Dr. Spitfire.

  JJ    (I need to stop these things.  They were bitching about them at Ariala's blog last night.)

posted by Jack_Flash on April 8, 2005 at 10:57 PM | link to this | reply

Violence...Though not always against me or by me.
Often times the violence is against others and by others and I am just watching, horrified.  I always wake up in a cold sweat.

posted by Jemmie211 on April 8, 2005 at 10:54 PM | link to this | reply

Spitfire...
My most recurring dream had to do with churning lumps of gray clay as big as houses, me standing in the middle of it all, the entire scene pulsating to the beat of an unheard, unseen, rythm.  The rythm was the dominating factor in the dream, occassionally, even now in waking life I can feel this rythm inside me.  It is quite strange. 

posted by A_Norseman on April 8, 2005 at 10:11 PM | link to this | reply

Violence...
 against me and by me, though I am usually trying to protect myself or someone/something else...

posted by jimmy68 on April 8, 2005 at 9:13 PM | link to this | reply