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tbgroucho, HOLY CRAP! You're back!!
What up wit' all 'dat?? Ya hoo!!
posted by
SpitFire70
on April 1, 2005 at 10:45 PM
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I would ask the woman whose house was where I met the Graceful One if she'd deliberately invited her there, anticipating the possibility that G. and I might click. She's gone now, but here we are, fourteen years, one house, two kids, and four revised insurance policies later.
posted by
tbgroucho
on April 1, 2005 at 10:31 PM
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Shit, Whammie, you're right. Okay.
Let me make sure it's not ticking first. Then I'll open it. Ooooh, it's vibrating!
Kick ass!
posted by
SpitFire70
on April 1, 2005 at 5:42 PM
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DivineD, I'm certainly far from knowing all the answers, but
in this case, I believe that life has to have balance. If we were all good doers and faultless, the world wouldn't work. We wouldn't have any challenges or lessons to learn; therefore, no purpose of living any of our lives. It sucks, but "that's life."
posted by
SpitFire70
on April 1, 2005 at 5:34 PM
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Thank you very much, Ann!!
I'll try.

posted by
SpitFire70
on April 1, 2005 at 5:32 PM
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Thanks, Factor. Yeah, they bought me a cake at work.
A yummy one, too!
posted by
SpitFire70
on April 1, 2005 at 5:31 PM
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Ciel, I think that if it is even an issue of doubt in your mind,
you should ask. I'm sure he does, regardless of your situation. You're still his child.
posted by
SpitFire70
on April 1, 2005 at 5:30 PM
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SF
You coward! What have you got to lose?
posted by
WHAMENATOR
on April 1, 2005 at 5:29 PM
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Darrke, see, that's what I'm afraid of!
I do think he will have issues with it.
posted by
SpitFire70
on April 1, 2005 at 5:28 PM
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poetjpb, I know, but after 10 years they're all like family to me.
posted by
SpitFire70
on April 1, 2005 at 5:27 PM
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Wham, um, okay.
I guess.
posted by
SpitFire70
on April 1, 2005 at 5:26 PM
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My sweet mysteria,
I know they think about it. And I'm glad they do. They should. And as for you and your recovery...

Oh, and I love you, too. Lots.
posted by
SpitFire70
on April 1, 2005 at 5:24 PM
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Chris, getting an honest answer is the KEY to that one!
Probably wouldn't happen, though. No, in fact, it definitely wouldn't.
posted by
SpitFire70
on April 1, 2005 at 5:21 PM
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I would ask God (or whoever she might be)
why there are scumsucking, dirtbag bits of humanity still walking around, hurting and abusing others, when beautiful, caring people have been taken from this earth.
Oops, do I sound bitter? I don't mean to be. I'm trying to work my way though this nonsense of life.
posted by
DivineDiva
on April 1, 2005 at 5:15 PM
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Happy Birthday!!! May you have many more happy days to come.
Ann
posted by
A-and-B
on April 1, 2005 at 1:53 PM
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Hey there Spitfire...
I saw that today is your birthday- so Happy Birthday! This was my Grandmother's birthday too... and tomorrow is my son's 7th. Hope you find some good cake or wahtever you like to celebrate with...
Dawn
posted by
FactorFiction
on April 1, 2005 at 1:15 PM
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I would ask my dad something I have wondered for years--
Whether it has ever really mattered to him whether he had my love, or not.
posted by
Ciel
on April 1, 2005 at 12:49 PM
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I wouldn't have any trouble asking the dad...he may need to talk to someone about it! Seems strange that they would keep it a secret that long. I've known people who didn't find out about their mom or dad being a "step" parent until they were adults and having major issues with it.
posted by
DarrkeThoughts
on April 1, 2005 at 9:04 AM
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GET A NEW JOB AND PRONTO

THEY SHOULD NEVER HAVE PUT YOU IN THAT SITUATION
posted by
poetjpb
on April 1, 2005 at 8:53 AM
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SpitFire,
Normally, I spit out my questions. I asked my Grandmother whether her husband was really my mother's father. Of course she insisted he was, but I still have my doubts.
Any time someone asks me if they can ask me a question, I always say, "Of course, so long as you are willing to accept 'That is none of your business' as one of the possible answers."
I say that you should ask away!
posted by
WHAMENATOR
on April 1, 2005 at 7:46 AM
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((((Spitfire)))))
Wow, cool question....Because I am dealing with resolving my personal dilemmas resulting from being sexually abused, I might tend to want to ask my brothers if they think about what they did to me as a kid. You know what Spitfire? I think that I am almost to the point that I have lost the feelings over being abused and I am at the threshold of total recovery... YaY!!!! I am getting better all the time... And really, I have my sweet blogging circle to thank in a lot of ways. You are included in a handful of people here that have been inspiring me and giving me hope...You have NO idea the great gifts you have given me...just by being your sweet self...I WuV eWe Q.T.!!!
posted by
mysteria
on April 1, 2005 at 7:41 AM
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Spitfire
If we're assuming we were to get an honest answer, I would ask Bush whether he authorised the 9/11 attacks. Cos I'm sad, with little else better to do.
posted by
chris2303
on April 1, 2005 at 4:46 AM
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JJ, I still don't get it. All I know is I'm going to sleep now...


posted by
SpitFire70
on April 1, 2005 at 1:45 AM
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Excuse me. My brain is numb tonite. I need to go climb a tree for some air.
posted by
Jack_Flash
on April 1, 2005 at 1:45 AM
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Spif, how should I know? Your made me forget, or maybe I never knew.
posted by
Jack_Flash
on April 1, 2005 at 1:04 AM
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JJ, I don't get it.....

Me confwused here...am I just too sleepy or am I just too dumb? What up?
posted by
SpitFire70
on April 1, 2005 at 12:58 AM
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Jems, such as??? And to whom????
posted by
SpitFire70
on April 1, 2005 at 12:53 AM
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Yes, Temple, I do. Sowwy. I promise I will
send you the

later today. (Tomorrow, for you.) I've been cleaning the house cause we're having friends over for mine and my sister-witches' b-day on Saturday night. I don't like celebrating any of my b-days. but she's turning a whole whopping 27! Sheesh. I wish I was, too.

Anyway, I promise I'll send it to you by your tomorrow!
posted by
SpitFire70
on April 1, 2005 at 12:51 AM
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Oh, David!! Don't do that to me!!!
You know what a curious person I am! Now this is gonna bug the shit out of me!!
posted by
SpitFire70
on April 1, 2005 at 12:47 AM
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Ciel, get historical, if you must.
But, I was really focusing on this day and time.
posted by
SpitFire70
on April 1, 2005 at 12:46 AM
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Spitsy,
I just have one person that I can think of right now. I would be a fool not to ask the question, since many important factors depend upon it. Is it true, as Temple says. that you are a big tease? Remember, when you answer, that either answer has the potential for being unsatisfactory.


JJ JJ

posted by
Jack_Flash
on April 1, 2005 at 12:18 AM
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There's nothing
Usually . . . sometime along the way . . . I always get up the nerve to ask. It may take a while, but I've always ended up asking people my burning questions.
posted by
Jemmie211
on March 31, 2005 at 11:26 PM
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I usually ask.
I'm sorta brazen that way. Like, with you, you big tease, don't you owe me an

? ;)
posted by
Temple
on March 31, 2005 at 10:53 PM
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That's a real tough one to answer
There was a young woman I loved many years ago. I'd have 1 question for her. But I cannot say what that question would be because it's hard for me to actually say it. 
posted by
David1Spirit
on March 31, 2005 at 7:59 PM
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Does it have to be someone living now? Or can we get historical?
posted by
Ciel
on March 31, 2005 at 6:09 PM
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