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posted by
Shams-i-Heartsong
on July 28, 2006 at 9:57 PM
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hold onto your memories
It is possible to enshrine lost loved ones and forget that they did things like pee and giggle. (If you pee and giggle at the same time, is that piggling?)
posted by
amy02
on May 21, 2006 at 7:44 PM
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My prayers are with you and your family.
Lots of hugs
posted by
poeticspoken
on March 6, 2005 at 10:25 AM
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Melody,
thinking of you, do take care...
red
posted by
redlunar
on March 6, 2005 at 10:20 AM
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Sympathy
I have sympathy for you and your family. Your brother and father both know how you feel. I lost friends and boyfriends myself because of Cancer and other sicknesses. I found it hard to forget after 4 years passed. But then I had to get my mind off of the people because it was destroying my own life. Only time can help.I don't know how I would feel if my younger brother passed away? Probably the same way.
posted by
Experience
on March 1, 2005 at 7:11 AM
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Melody
You have my sympathy. *hugs*
posted by
Wildwoman_Laloba
on February 26, 2005 at 2:32 PM
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Melody,
I am so sorry for you and your family...such pain is hard to get thru...stay strong...
posted by
Original_Influence
on February 25, 2005 at 5:18 PM
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Oh, Melody, I'm so so sorry this happened.
There are no words that can truly ease this pain, but just remember in your heart and mind that you will never get over this, but you WILL get through it. I promise. Oh, and your brother did/does know how much you loved him. Even IF he didn't during life (doubtful) he definately does now. Stay strong.
posted by
SpitFire70
on February 25, 2005 at 5:14 PM
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big hugs to you and Mia
posted by
daisysface
on February 25, 2005 at 11:34 AM
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I am so sorry for you and Mia...
...words do little at times like this but know you two are in so many of our hearts right now. Take care of yourself, and each other, Melody.
posted by
ginnieb
on February 25, 2005 at 10:16 AM
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I am so sorry melodystar
I have missed you so much, I am here for you and MiaElla....email me anytime.....
posted by
_Symphony_
on February 25, 2005 at 9:54 AM
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Melody
I haven't seen you in forever.......and now I can comment, but on such a sad post. I'm sorry for you.
posted by
ladyofshalott
on February 24, 2005 at 7:01 PM
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im sorry
posted by
PoeticHoneyDew
on February 24, 2005 at 6:48 PM
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Oh God Melody, im so sorry sweetie... im sitting here crying my eyes out.... Im really very sorry!! {{{hugs}}} Please email me if you need anything and ill try to help you out
posted by
Tanoolicious
on February 24, 2005 at 6:09 PM
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Oh dear Melody, how heartbreaking...
Thoughts, hugs and prayers sent to you and your family.
posted by
Katray2
on February 24, 2005 at 6:06 PM
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I'm so sorry!
I know the pain you are going through. I'm sorry that you have to go through it. *hugs* My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
posted by
Jemmie211
on February 24, 2005 at 3:24 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss
I can't imagine how I would feel if this happened to me other then totally helpless and devastated. I never knew my real father. I came home after school when I was 15 to the news that he had committed suicide the night before. I lived 3,000 miles from him and was supposed to meet him that very summer. I still haven't gotten over the loss and its been 25 years. My prayers are with you.
posted by
Sherri_G
on February 24, 2005 at 2:59 PM
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Melodystar,
This is the first time I have ever read your blogs. I am so deeply sorry for the losses of your brother Christopher and your father. I will keep you in my heart, thoughts, and prayers.
If there's anything I can do for you, please don't be afraid to ask. God bless and keep you.
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on February 24, 2005 at 1:23 PM
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Melodystar - I am so sorry that you are suffering loss of two that you loved so dearly. My love and prayers and sympathies are with you.
posted by
TAPS.
on February 24, 2005 at 11:50 AM
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Melodystar--such tragedies, words can't express. Love Frank.
posted by
scriber
on February 24, 2005 at 11:37 AM
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voyager
There seems to be no words to comfort. Thank you for such kind thoughts.
posted by
Melodystar
on February 24, 2005 at 10:56 AM
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quirky
Thanks so very much.
posted by
Melodystar
on February 24, 2005 at 10:55 AM
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Mel,
When my beloved cat died, I found an excellent article on the internet for dealing with loss.
Losing a Loved One (by Nick Halpin PhD). You can google it to read the entire article, but I wanted to share one small passage, as it explains grief in a way I've never seen before but feel has much validity.
The author said: "Each one of us contains both an adult and a child. As the adult seeks to make sense of loss and tries to do all the appropriate and sensible things, alongside this is the emotional inner child, with a different agenda, who usually feels confused and abandoned. While the adult struggles bravely on, the dependent inner child is desperate for consolation. So that grieving is often a seesawing between these two parts of ourselves, as we try to be reasonable, but we actually feel at sea, lost and awash in anguish."
posted by
Julia.
on February 24, 2005 at 10:55 AM
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erinlove
I am not sure what to say but Thank you.
posted by
Melodystar
on February 24, 2005 at 10:54 AM
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Dear Melodystar, my condolances dear, it's so brave from you to share this news along with us, and I'm sure there will be plenty of comforting, with words only I'm afraid, to help you through this darkened period. My thoughts are with you dear, have strength, and faith!
VOYAGER9940
posted by
Voyager9940
on February 24, 2005 at 10:53 AM
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So very sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
posted by
Julia.
on February 24, 2005 at 10:51 AM
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I'm so sorry MelodyStar!
posted by
erinlove
on February 24, 2005 at 10:50 AM
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YLF
Thank you.
posted by
Melodystar
on February 24, 2005 at 10:49 AM
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posted by
TARZANA
on February 24, 2005 at 10:47 AM
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gypsy
Not allot of people know. But we are going through this together. Thank you for your kind words.
posted by
Melodystar
on February 24, 2005 at 10:40 AM
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Melody... I'm sorry!
I didn't know about the family bond. I'm glad you can be there for each other.
posted by
RedHeadedGypsy
on February 24, 2005 at 10:37 AM
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Whammie
Thank you.
posted by
Melodystar
on February 24, 2005 at 10:36 AM
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gypsy
I know she is my little sister. Thank you so very much we are both so lost.
posted by
Melodystar
on February 24, 2005 at 10:35 AM
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Melody,
Hugs and Prayers. Sorry for your loss!
Whammie
posted by
WHAMENATOR
on February 24, 2005 at 10:35 AM
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Melody...
I'm sorry for your loss. You should confer with MiaElla, she is going through the exact same thing right now. I am sure you could be a comfort to each other.
posted by
RedHeadedGypsy
on February 24, 2005 at 10:33 AM
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