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oh, brother...
I know what you mean...thanks for reading me!

posted by QuailNest on January 4, 2005 at 2:56 AM | link to this | reply

My dear Quirky,

I would have noticed you were gone if I hadn't been gone also!

Only Vibrance left me a comment saying she missed my writing while I was gone for over a month...

posted by MariVye on December 21, 2004 at 12:18 PM | link to this | reply

Anyone
seen Rocky lately? - auntyholly's out on the prowl!

posted by auntyholly on December 7, 2004 at 11:27 PM | link to this | reply

I guess I've passed through all the stages of Blogit fever....
so I'm familiar with the symptoms.   Sometimes you can't find anything to say - the post said it all - and at other times, you'll simply burst if you don't cast in your two cents worth.

posted by word.smith on December 2, 2004 at 1:29 PM | link to this | reply

thanks Katray.
I do know.

posted by Julia. on December 2, 2004 at 8:18 AM | link to this | reply

Ah Quirky, I did wonder about you but as one who now takes many Blogit breaks, I figured you were doing the same. Honestly if you hadn't returned in a week or so, I would have e mailed to inquire. Back when I was in the throes of blogging obsession, I would get antsy pretty quickly whenever my favorites were absent. I was told by one to take a chill pill, so I did, lol. You were one of two who e mailed me not too long ago when I was away. It does feel nice to know there are bloggers who care. Please know the feeling is mutual.

posted by Katray2 on December 2, 2004 at 7:00 AM | link to this | reply

Isis--
Maybe it was just wishful thinking on their part, lol.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 9:45 PM | link to this | reply

Quirky,
Honestly, occifer, I don't remember!  But I heard it, I tell ya, I really did.

posted by myrrhage_ on December 1, 2004 at 9:13 PM | link to this | reply

Isis--what?
What rumor? Who is telling such tall tales about the Quirkster?

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 8:55 PM | link to this | reply

Merry,
Well you're not the first one, lol.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 8:54 PM | link to this | reply

Quirky!

Awww, I'm sorry :(  I haven't been around much either, so I didn't notice much of anything around here.  I heard a nasty rumor you were leaving Blogit, though, which is what brought me to check out your blog today.

See?  We care, we really do!

posted by myrrhage_ on December 1, 2004 at 8:43 PM | link to this | reply

I'm sorry quirky,
Just too caught up in my own life. I am incredibly self absorbed - in case you haven't noticed.

posted by MerryAnne on December 1, 2004 at 8:40 PM | link to this | reply

IR,
thanks for your honesty...and for the cold one.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 8:38 PM | link to this | reply

Quirky,
I could blame my surgery and month of hell on my not noticing your absence (in fact I think I've read exactly ten pages this month...), but would that just be another excuse offered to you? Perhaps. I don't know. I'm too tired to tell anymore.

It's sad that you felt you had to perform this experiment in the first place - I suppose you learned something from it, though. If I had noticed I would have sent you an email, but I didn't notice. I'm not sure which says more.

Here's to realizing the fragility of Blogit and to making more real friends

posted by InherentRights on December 1, 2004 at 8:13 PM | link to this | reply

Alf...um...just today?? Waaa.
Hey I left you a comment in Quirky Poetry, you better go check it out before it burns up the blogit server.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 7:37 PM | link to this | reply

Well Quirky...Aren't we special today ! :)

posted by A_Norseman on December 1, 2004 at 7:35 PM | link to this | reply

Ariala,
Oh and about the MPT thingy...that will be a short-lived little slice of Blogit heaven...hahaha!

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 7:33 PM | link to this | reply

lol, poor cat!

posted by Ariala on December 1, 2004 at 7:33 PM | link to this | reply

Ariala,
I know (re: the cat) and so do I--when I had the skunk problem, every time I saw my cat I thought she was the skunk...

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 7:32 PM | link to this | reply

By the way, dear, check MPT and see who's #1.
 

posted by Ariala on December 1, 2004 at 7:17 PM | link to this | reply

I have a black and white cat that reminds of me of skunk!
 

posted by Ariala on December 1, 2004 at 7:16 PM | link to this | reply

Ariala,
yes...no kitty cats will ever be harmed in the making of this post, lol. Now skunks...that's another matter entirely!

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 7:15 PM | link to this | reply

lol, yeah, I know you're kidding big time. You and me both! We cat
lovers have a pact with our feline friends that can never be broken.

posted by Ariala on December 1, 2004 at 7:12 PM | link to this | reply

Tapsel,
No, but there are ten or eleven who, if they had not posted for 12 days with no explanation...I most certainly would have sent off a short email to them, without hesitation.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 7:12 PM | link to this | reply

Ariala, lol.

So are all the stray cats in my neighborhood!

JUST KIDDING!

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 7:09 PM | link to this | reply

word.smith...
coming here to read but staying silent (like a spy, hehe) was at times, beyond torturous...you have no idea how hard it was and how much I wanted to comment sometimes!! I'm actually surprised that you're the first person to ponder that.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 7:08 PM | link to this | reply

lol, well, I'm glad the pact didn't involve a cat sacrifice or drinking of
blood... 

posted by Ariala on December 1, 2004 at 7:07 PM | link to this | reply

Huh?
Did you say something, Quirky?

posted by Blanche. on December 1, 2004 at 7:07 PM | link to this | reply

David S,
hey you. I hope you stay around more regularly.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 7:05 PM | link to this | reply

Rachel,
Maybe it's just me, but I don't think of emails from bloggers as being intrusive...but thanks for saying you thought about it, even if you didn't actually do it. And thanks for the welcome back and all that!

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 7:03 PM | link to this | reply

You know...

I should have gone with my gut and emailed you.  Three days ago I even clicked on the little link to email you and then thought I'd better not.

I figured you'd think I was some blogging freak!!  I thought you were probably up to bigger and better things and didn't want some girl from Blogit bugging ya! 

So, I did notice.  Believe it or not, I did.  And, I missed you.  And, I'm glad you're back. 

posted by RachelAnna on December 1, 2004 at 6:57 PM | link to this | reply

witchflower,
whoever said that to you is a curmudgeonly curmudgeon...who needs 'em!

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 6:56 PM | link to this | reply

Ariala,
Thank goodness you finally did ...my pact prohibited me from returning until you saved the day, lol!

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 6:55 PM | link to this | reply

loan lady,
welcome back to the quirky shack.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 6:53 PM | link to this | reply

Ben,
what you are suggesting is not really the same thing as checking in with someone who regularly posts, who then suddenly stops for 12 days.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 6:52 PM | link to this | reply

Symphony,
yeah, it would be pretty hard to write a post with only stumps where your arms used to be, lol.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 6:51 PM | link to this | reply

Quirkyalone - I am sorry that you felt like no one cared but, can you
honestly say that if all of those who have commented here on this post had not posted for a week you would have sent them an email saying, "Where are you?  I miss you."

posted by TAPS. on December 1, 2004 at 5:50 PM | link to this | reply

The Quirkster returns, finally!
Glad to know that nothing untoward happened to you. Yes, I admit, I'm ashamed that I didn't care enough,  or was too busy living, to email. Hmmm, I wonder why I didn't. I have in the past.  Sorry, old girl. You do realize though that it seems as if Blogit has a revloving door and more people go MIA than those that are coming in.  Your Post has stirred the beginnings of a post in my mind Quirky to do with connections formed here. Stay tuned and please don't take unscheduled leave again.   P.S. I lift my hat to you. You have some fortitude and discipline not to here and not tempted to write a word or make a single comment in all that time. I dunno if I could do it.

posted by word.smith on December 1, 2004 at 3:58 PM | link to this | reply

Quirky

I noticed you were gone

posted by David_S on December 1, 2004 at 3:05 PM | link to this | reply

Quirky,
I did notice, and I missed you.  I hesitate to contact anyone outside the blogs because once I did that and was more or less told it was an invasion of privacy.  So happy you're back, though, and the next time I miss someone, I will contact them. 

posted by Witchflower on December 1, 2004 at 3:04 PM | link to this | reply

Quirky, I apologize for not writing sooner...Sometimes I miss people and I
don't even email or write blogs about them...glad you came back.   

posted by Ariala on December 1, 2004 at 2:58 PM | link to this | reply

Funny - I was on a little break too, couldn't get all the work - job- cooking for turkey day- entertaining family- keeping family from killing each other- taking my kids on outtings as they were of school- blowing my nose with a bad cold -and cleaning and God knows what other stuff together. Back but not running on full speed yet

posted by the-loanlady on December 1, 2004 at 2:33 PM | link to this | reply

At the risk of being considered a pest

or stalker, one would not continuously

leave comments or email a blogger unless

one has had close understanding that

one has the liberty to do so.

Ben

posted by A-and-B on December 1, 2004 at 2:21 PM | link to this | reply

FORGIVE ME!

I am usually quick to notice when on missing list.....but I have had so much going on right now..that I would not have noticed if somebody had chopped of my arm.....well actually now thats a lie because I need to type...

my head has been here and there but missed my shoulders

posted by _Symphony_ on December 1, 2004 at 2:12 PM | link to this | reply

Chris,

You big goofball...you've barely been here yourself lately, how could I read you?? (See, I noticed!). lol.

I'll play my pre-recorded violin music for you if that will make you feel better. If not, let's run away together??

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 1:12 PM | link to this | reply

David,
I know...that's true...and sad in a way.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 1:05 PM | link to this | reply

I'm gutted, because I read your blog and noticed you don't read me.

Now I want sympathy.

posted by chris2303 on December 1, 2004 at 1:00 PM | link to this | reply

We are all just one post away!
Or one non-post away from obscurity here on Blogit. Your best friend today will hardly miss you the next day if you don't show up. If fact if you are above that person in the rankings, they might even relish the idea of one less competitor. It's the nature of the beast, the beasts of Blogit!

posted by David1Spirit on December 1, 2004 at 12:49 PM | link to this | reply

Jems,
For the most part, I don't.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 12:29 PM | link to this | reply

If it makes any difference...

I was gone from Blogit (in posting and comments) for longer than you were and also had no one ask about me.

No...I take that back.  ONE person emailed me.

Don't take it personally.

posted by Jemmie211 on December 1, 2004 at 12:07 PM | link to this | reply

belle,
now THAT I will agree with you on...one must be present to *win*--lol.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 11:02 AM | link to this | reply

No change there - lol
To sink like a stone was no shock.. presenteeism rules here

posted by beachbelle on December 1, 2004 at 10:55 AM | link to this | reply

Alfster,

Hey...for once you spelled my name right, lol!!

I noticed shortskirtsrkewl was gone but I hadn't really read much of her stuff.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 10:50 AM | link to this | reply

belle,

we'll have to agree to disagree then...I think there IS a difference between an experiment and playing games (although not a huge differerence, lol)...

Anyway...it is a very humbling experience to see your ranking plummet down to the core of earth, isn't it?? lol.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 10:46 AM | link to this | reply

Quirkyalone...

Glad to see you back...By the way, has anyone noticed that shortskirtscewl has not posted in 18 days?  I think I got her name wrong, but you know who i'm talking about.

posted by A_Norseman on December 1, 2004 at 10:46 AM | link to this | reply

Scoop--WHEW!!

That crown really sucked, lol--glad it's gone. Actually, I'm not sure it comes across...but this post was really *mostly* tongue-in-cheek.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 10:42 AM | link to this | reply

Gypsy,
I read some of your posts, and I like your style. Thanks for the comment.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 10:41 AM | link to this | reply

Same difference QA
my top blog went to 1,700 or thereabouts when I stopped posting in May and you know what I didn't care

posted by beachbelle on December 1, 2004 at 10:36 AM | link to this | reply

No Quirky no crown, it has been retired BUT.....just kidding

posted by scoop on December 1, 2004 at 10:30 AM | link to this | reply

belle,

I wasn't playing games...it was an experiment that went awry, lol.

Anyway, thanks for keeping tabs on my blog while I was away...even I don't pay that much attention to it, hehe!

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 10:28 AM | link to this | reply

Quirky...
I don't really know you. I've only been in here for a short amount of time. So, hopefully I'll get a free get out of jail card here. Anyways, I'm sure everyone is happy to have you back and I look forward to reading your posts.

posted by RedHeadedGypsy on December 1, 2004 at 10:25 AM | link to this | reply

canine,

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 10:22 AM | link to this | reply

QuirkyAlone
That'll teach you for playing games;-)
If you think I didn't notice you must be crazy. I kept going back to check that your post about the toys was the last one and looked for some clues as to where you were then I observed how long you remained in the top 25 of MPT and the weekly list in spite of not having posted. I observed your progress and thought that I would not remain so far up the list were I not to post.

I was going to email you and then I thought you must have your reasons plus I was completely bogged down both with work AND last week with another massive phase of self-doubt. Besides I usually leave it a couple of weeks before I panic about bloggers. Last week I actually emailed another blogger who had been gone for more than two weeks. I am not one to post an APB just because someone didn't brush their teeth for a couple of days.

posted by beachbelle on December 1, 2004 at 10:22 AM | link to this | reply

well i have medication for that. and i stand by my statement, after all you are quirkyalone. still and always one of a kind.

posted by canine277 on December 1, 2004 at 10:18 AM | link to this | reply

Scriber,
Well it may have been only one but BOY was it entertaining!! Anyway, I got the impression you didn't want me reading you anymore.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 10:17 AM | link to this | reply

canine,
an icon? Wait...be right back, I think I busted a rib from laughing so hard.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 10:15 AM | link to this | reply

klara,
see comment to Hollee.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 10:14 AM | link to this | reply

ginnieb,
thanks!

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 10:13 AM | link to this | reply

Ody, lol.
Oh, if only that were true...

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 10:12 AM | link to this | reply

scoop,
this post isn't going to get me that dreaded "whiney ass" crown back is it???

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 10:11 AM | link to this | reply

melodystar,
ditto what I said to Hollee, lol.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 10:10 AM | link to this | reply

thanks for the one read...

posted by scriber on December 1, 2004 at 10:09 AM | link to this | reply

Hollee,
You're forgiven. You may get up now. What? You weren't down on your knees? ...ah well you are forgiven anyway.

posted by Julia. on December 1, 2004 at 10:04 AM | link to this | reply

quirky,
 i'm very sorry i wasn't here because i usually notice these things quickly. i sent justsouno an email when she hadn't posted for a few days and whammie also. you are absolutely a favorite here and should never have to think otherwise. i'm sure that i can speak for ir in that we definitely appreciate the concern showed for us. in my case especially i did not expect the attention i received, except maybe from hollee who i knew was not around. i was extremely touched by everyone's concern for me. but you are an icon here. i'm glad that ariala had the wherewithall to send you an email. please accept a group apology. we are all very sorry.   

posted by canine277 on December 1, 2004 at 10:03 AM | link to this | reply

I honestly was just trying not to pry. Believe it or not.
I am a very private person (you know that) and prefer when others don't ask, especially if it's in my private life. You know I'm like this. I guess I'll have to stop applying my wants to others and stop making assumptions. But I also have a problem with that. Mea Culpa! I'm so guilty now I could scream!

posted by KlaraRoberts on December 1, 2004 at 9:50 AM | link to this | reply

I think I'd just put you in my favourites folder when I came back to blogging after a hiatus..was happy to see you come up again though!

posted by ginnieb on December 1, 2004 at 9:49 AM | link to this | reply

I did notice that you were gone but
I didn't e-mail.  Sorry, I don't email that much.  I guess you better post everyday after this or get ready to get bombarded with e-mails next time.  LOL! 

posted by telemachus on December 1, 2004 at 9:48 AM | link to this | reply

Seriously I did think about you the other day when I started to check
Arialas photo page, there are many missing from here and people come and go and change names, so it is hard to know what is up. I noticed many disappesred after the election in the News&Politic and US category but if you really want to see who is missing is check the photo page and it will surprise you. But anyhow welcome back

posted by scoop on December 1, 2004 at 9:43 AM | link to this | reply

I am so sorry, I had read Ariala's posts,Please I also ask for forgiveness. I had not been here myslef for a while. Thank you so much for reading me.

posted by Melodystar on December 1, 2004 at 9:37 AM | link to this | reply

Begging forgiveness Quirk - I was not online for over a week, and have

been working myself to death to get unpacked and still work so I can afford to live here - would not have known about canine not posting had not Alf alerted me.

So sorry dear. Please forgive--I have been ignoring everyone - and will most likely continue to do so until I have enough money to eat on.

posted by Hollee on December 1, 2004 at 9:29 AM | link to this | reply