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Jemmie211
email me any time.....................................we may be in different time zones....but I will get your email and answer.you....................I really know what you are going through......................take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on October 6, 2004 at 3:04 PM
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SYMPHONY
You are a sweetheart! All your comments are wonderful and so supportive. Thank you so much. You may not believe it, but your words and your concern do help. Right now, all I have are the people around me (which are VERY few on this island) and the people who read and say caring things on Blogit.
I can't really turn to my stepmother since she's dealing with the same loss I am. Can't turn to my birth mother 'cause...well...that's another story. My best friend is in Vegas until Friday.
So believe me, your warm words do help. *hugs*
posted by
Jemmie211
on October 6, 2004 at 2:56 PM
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I have been reading you all the time........I do hope you are ok?
take care and look after yourself
posted by
_Symphony_
on October 6, 2004 at 2:50 PM
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I'm sorry I made you so sad
But the good thing is that we can share the pain of our respective losses here on Blogit. We aren't alone in the least. Would a good pat on the hand and a "there, there" help any?
Garfield Peters, MSFN
posted by
kidnykid
on October 5, 2004 at 11:55 AM
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jemmie211
hello...please do grieve and share your grieving because there are those who are most thoughtful in nature that know how to learn from others so thoughtful like you
They are the ones that you should keep in mind rather than those with limited vision... BTW I am curious about the 211 on your name..Is this a random number or did you choose it. I have had a lot of coincidence with that one and also 1111. Lover mysteria
posted by
mysteria
on October 5, 2004 at 9:53 AM
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Yes
There is no time limit, there is no day when you won't remember. I lost my grandfather 3 1/2 yrs ago and my daughter 13 yrs ago and there is not a day that goes by that I dont think of them or miss them. I go on and try to live life to the fullest as they would have done and as they would want me to do. My thoughts are with you!
posted by
StrickGold
on October 4, 2004 at 9:56 PM
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I've read several of your posts tonight...
I hope you feel better or at least at peace with it sometime soon...take care.
posted by
Original_Influence
on October 4, 2004 at 9:44 PM
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posted by
Tremac
on October 4, 2004 at 9:13 PM
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Honey, don't fight it.
Let the tears come. Sure, they give you a stuffy head and sore eyes, but they wash the pain away. Honest. Let the tears come. Cry until you have no more tears left in you. The longer you fight it, the longer it will take you to find peace and normality again. Give yourself permission to really and truly grieve. This was your daddy, and you have every right to bawl your head off over his being gone. Send anyone who gives you flak to me, and I will kick them in the butt for you.
posted by
editormum
on October 4, 2004 at 9:35 AM
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Time
It takes time, everyone is different. This year I lost my mother and my mother-in-law within four months of each other. Of course I loved my mother but my mother-in-law lived in an in-law apartment in my house and I took her to doctors appointments and we were close, I still cry thinking about the little things we would talk about. We all deal with it in our own way, take your time.
Your friends will be here when you get back.
Scoop
posted by
scoop
on October 4, 2004 at 7:23 AM
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