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YLF
You like to lump men who have sex before marriage (or having casual sex) as some kind of swine or criminals or some other derogatory name. You really have to uncover those eyes of yours and realize that there are more than enough willing females who also want casual/recreation/no-strings-attached sex too.
Stop jumping on the guys all the time. You really should see how some women are. You would be very suprised!
posted by
David1Spirit
on November 9, 2004 at 11:33 AM
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I'm married to a man who's feelings are on a more basic level. I don't need to go all bitter on the entire male population for the errors of some. But really, it's like having criminals running loose. It really is.
posted by
TARZANA
on November 9, 2004 at 11:28 AM
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Lady Dude........Switch sides then. I wouldn't blame you for going over.
Men can be pigs. So can some women. I'm sorry that a couple of apples have spoiled the whole bunch.
posted by
Barrett
on November 9, 2004 at 8:16 AM
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Also Barrett,
I did read the whole post, and I was utterly appalled by your attitudes. I think you are blind to the extreme offence you have caused in thinking that women can somehow be equal to you. If you had reverted to grabbing them by the hair and dragging them into your caves, then tossing them out into the cold pregnant, you couldn't have done it much worse than you men have done anything in my lifetime. I said, I am
appalled. Hurt. Wounded. But your equal? No way.
posted by
TARZANA
on November 9, 2004 at 5:17 AM
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Barrett,
A woman's web? I didn't ever MAKE a web! Is that the assumption you guys began with? Is that the entire reason true love could never be found? You were waiting for some scheming woman overpower you? You turn a pure soul into a rotten bitter enforcer with such thoughts. That destroys love altogether. And you never intended to be the strong one when by all appearances and by the constant complaints of men, one would think they want nothing less than to be respected as the architect, instigator and head of the family?
Posted by on November 9, 2004 at 5:10 AM (permalink)
You should read the whole post / When no meant yes
I'm not sure what your comments meant. My blog was about getting men back off their feet and acting romantic. I never said that falling in love is a bad thing, nor did I suggest that they screw anybody. The blog is about not acting sheepish and getting yourself together. If a catch finds his way into a womans web, it's her job to keep him .. My post is just to get him out there. If the guy's an ass, then he's an ass. Out he goes with the bathwater.
Posted by on November 8, 2004 at 11:10 PM (permalink)
posted by
TARZANA
on November 9, 2004 at 5:11 AM
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Barrett,
You know, I'm a girl, and unfortunately, I live in the same world as this post. I am truely offended by these attitudes. I would imagine that a boy and girl could meet, fall in love, and get married (which is a genuine vow to be companions for life). It's a beautiful concept, and the only one I was ever interested in.
Is it because of men who think like you that I was instead misled for two decades? That's two decades of my life being led astray -- away from what I wanted, what was important and cherished and precious to me.
Does that begin to sound like a kidnapping or a serious crime to you? It does to me. In the end, my father, whom I loved, died a hero by the gun of a sixteen year old robber. Why do you suppose a boy would think that he can get anything good for such behavior as taking what belongs to others, even their life? Do you suppose he got twenty years too? If he did, then we are equal, huh.
posted by
TARZANA
on November 8, 2004 at 9:28 AM
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Barrett, well you see where I wound up......SEX!!!!!!!
I neither want to own a man nor to be owned. Contradictorially (new word?) nothing would please me more than to have one man to give my heart to.
I think with me it takes a very special kind of man , because I am always within a sea of HOT SEXY MEN, and I am a hopeless Flirt!!!!!
My sense of humor is raunchy and warped.
I am not the most beautiful of women, but I "scrub up nice", and I exude sexuality, I am pretty and I am sexy, and I spend 40+ hours a week in a sea of men.............And if you hurt me, you need to take it up with my Brothers!!!!!!!
I hate being called intimidating though!!!!!!! Me?! C'mon now!!!! I am just me........very sweet and very real.
Whammie 
posted by
WHAMENATOR
on September 30, 2004 at 1:00 AM
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Plus, after you do a woman, you can go shoe-shopping and buy some new clothes and make-up. Would a guy be up for that???
posted by
Passionflower
on September 29, 2004 at 10:56 PM
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