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Jemmie, there is never enough time, never. I had my dad for over 80

years and  knew that he was dying and told him everything in my heart and it never ever felt like it was enough.   Enough does not exist when it comes to loving, I think. I  am so very sorry that this was a surprise and in your youth, it seems so unfair.

My heart goes out to you and your family.

posted by benzinha on September 22, 2004 at 12:46 AM | link to this | reply

EVERYONE
I've posted the essay I am going to read tomorrow night at my dad's memorial to my blog People I Love And Admire. Thank you all for your love, your prayers, and your thoughts. You have all helped across the miles to get me through this.

posted by Jemmie211 on September 21, 2004 at 5:24 PM | link to this | reply

Jemmie211

God-Sized Love and Hugs and Band-aids and Strength I Send In Truckloads

   

 

posted by mysteria on September 21, 2004 at 10:50 AM | link to this | reply

My thoughts are with you, Jemmie.

 

posted by Tremac on September 21, 2004 at 9:44 AM | link to this | reply

Jemmie - I am so sorry for your pain - my thoughts and prayers are with you ~

posted by MariVye on September 21, 2004 at 9:34 AM | link to this | reply

jemmie

Your post gave me chills.  Not what I expected.  I am deeply sorry for your loss.  If I can do anything, let me know  We (i) are here to support you.  Take care..........xoxo

posted by EccentricShock on September 21, 2004 at 9:32 AM | link to this | reply

What can I say? Since you don't want sympathies, I can only write prayers and peace be with you.

posted by mariantonia on September 21, 2004 at 3:24 AM | link to this | reply

Oh Jemmie, I am so sorry for your loss.

I wish you peace and love.

posted by Moohahaha on September 20, 2004 at 2:21 AM | link to this | reply

jemmie,
my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

posted by Julia. on September 19, 2004 at 6:53 PM | link to this | reply

I'm so sorry
You know you've made my life better.  I wouldn't have gotten through my illness half as well without you.  I understand what your going though all to well.  I've lost too many people myself of late.  If you need to talk, e-mail me.

posted by cripfemme on September 19, 2004 at 1:16 PM | link to this | reply

Jemmie Im so sorry about your dad, you and your family are in my prayers

posted by Tanoolicious on September 19, 2004 at 1:14 PM | link to this | reply

jemmie
hollee mentioned this to me.  I am sorry for your loss. tg

posted by tbgroucho on September 19, 2004 at 11:19 AM | link to this | reply

My condolences...
for what it's worth, take care...

posted by jimmy68 on September 19, 2004 at 12:39 AM | link to this | reply

 Whatever else we are, we are support. My thoughts to you.

posted by Kay-Ren on September 18, 2004 at 9:36 PM | link to this | reply

Jemmie
I am so sorry for your loss.  My thoughts are with you.

posted by StrickGold on September 18, 2004 at 8:23 PM | link to this | reply

Jemmie
I'm sorry for your loss.

posted by ladyofshalott on September 18, 2004 at 4:38 PM | link to this | reply

I'm glad you decided to post this.

I've already told you my thoughts, so I won't repeat them all here. (Kinda hard to write up our long phone conversations.) Still thinking of you every minute....   

posted by SpitFire70 on September 18, 2004 at 4:34 PM | link to this | reply

Jemmie
 Take care dear.

posted by Hollee on September 18, 2004 at 7:09 AM | link to this | reply

That's really too bad that your dad was killed by a Car.

Please take care of yourself.  Only lean on those you've known all your life.  You will need to lean on someone you can really trust while you mourn.  My father was killed in 1991.  He was shot by a teenage robber. 

(by the way, I blocked everyone in the MA category, so it's not a personal thing)

posted by TARZANA on September 18, 2004 at 7:06 AM | link to this | reply

I am so sorry
my thoughts and prayers are with you, please take care

posted by scoop on September 18, 2004 at 6:53 AM | link to this | reply

I am so sorry for your loss.......I know you don't want sympathy
but I am here if you ever want to talk to me, I know what you are going through right now...........take care and look after yourself, I be thinking of you and I be be sending my prayers your way.

posted by _Symphony_ on September 18, 2004 at 6:27 AM | link to this | reply