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Vibrance
thank you......
.......you are very kind...........take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 14, 2004 at 12:59 PM
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in reference to your last line
you're better off without HIM...you are not alone. Love, Vib~
posted by
Vibrance
on August 14, 2004 at 12:57 PM
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Wildwoman_Laloba
thank you..............
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 14, 2004 at 9:33 AM
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omgosh. An alcoholic will come up with all kinds of hardship excuses to drink. Stay strong, Symphony. Tough love!
posted by
Wildwoman_Laloba
on August 14, 2004 at 9:06 AM
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katray
thank you so much, it is no annoying though! because I really opened up to her, hoping that she could help.....she made me believe she could help.........but i'm that fool again........I will learn one day.......thank you for reading and commenting..and sharing.........take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 14, 2004 at 8:51 AM
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Stand tall, proud and determined Symphony
Mothers often can't or won't accept the failings of their grown children. Which is sad, because if they did, good chance they could really make a difference. I went through a similar situation with my mother-in-law during my first marriage. Hopeless. Take care!
posted by
Katray2
on August 14, 2004 at 8:29 AM
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SKY5
hello how are you?...................
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 14, 2004 at 8:21 AM
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hello symphony, I am here.........
posted by
Star5_
on August 14, 2004 at 8:19 AM
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Janina79
LOL.................thats was a great comment.............you made me literally LOL..........with the last part........hehehe...........thank you so much for reading and commenting me...........you are wonderful.....take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 14, 2004 at 8:16 AM
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Y'know it's one thing to love your children and think that one miracle cure could save them from all of their ills but your mother in law really needs to let go of those rose colored glasses. Stand firm and proud in what you're doing. And worse case scenario there's no doubt that there are several bloggers who would fly over the great pond and kick his arse.
-Janina79
posted by
Janina79
on August 14, 2004 at 8:10 AM
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jamryn
thank you so much..........for your advice and for reading and commenting.........you are wonderful........have a lovely weekend..........take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 14, 2004 at 6:36 AM
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Check it out.... some of the phones here ....you can turn the sound down or off. if it gets too bad you may need to have the number changed.....and then unlisted. Talk to him and mommie only through a lawyer. You get one first and start the procedings. This way everything is up frount and legal
No more harrassment from them. Your lawyer talks to his lawyer type of thing.
From a single mom times two........Jamryn
posted by
jamryn
on August 14, 2004 at 6:29 AM
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PASSIONTHROUGHU
no it is not enough..........I agree.................thank you so much for reading and commenting..........missed you
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 14, 2004 at 5:54 AM
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Time is not enough for a man to change his ways -
posted by
RICKYJFICO_PASSIONTHRU_U
on August 14, 2004 at 5:53 AM
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RachelAnna
thank you...............I feel a bit better now..............had time to calm down and think................thank you so much........take care and yes you are right!
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 14, 2004 at 5:06 AM
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littlemspickles
thank you so much..............hope you are ok?............have a nice day...............take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 14, 2004 at 5:04 AM
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Most people don't quite get it until they are put into
the situation themselves. She doesn't get it because SHE is not the one married to him. Be patient, don't get ahead of yourself and keep making good decisions!
posted by
RachelAnna
on August 13, 2004 at 6:44 PM
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Symphony
I've just been catching up on what's been happening lately. I hope that you are going ok (it sounds like it from today's post!). Do what feels right for you because if you don't, in time you will regret it.
posted by
littlemspickles
on August 13, 2004 at 6:13 PM
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GOSH
the time is ticking I must go to bed........it is now.........1am.......................well at least the phone has stopped.........finally..........................
ah peace...................phew
but then there's tomorrow...........ARGH!
Shh I must get some sleep now.................................... 
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 13, 2004 at 5:01 PM
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EccentricShock
I feel so sorry you have had to go throught the shit I am going through right now...............but it is also nice that you can relate..................and yes you are right about blogit
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 13, 2004 at 4:51 PM
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guess what,... yep I opened up to my inlaws and later regretted. they were very manipulative also
At least you have blogging, I didn't
posted by
EccentricShock
on August 13, 2004 at 4:48 PM
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mariantonia
thank you..........I am not sure if we are past councelling though..........because right now.......I hate him!........so fed up ........but thank you ............take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 13, 2004 at 4:15 PM
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hugz_n_kisses
thank you
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 13, 2004 at 4:13 PM
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That's why they say blood is thicker than water. You would react the same way when the interests of your kids are at stake too. There's always marriage counseling. I think this is the time the cards are in your hands. Make your demands / conditions if you want to try a reconciliation.
posted by
mariantonia
on August 13, 2004 at 4:09 PM
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keep your prioritie, you are important, dont let them make yo feel guilty for not acting how they want you to act, act like youve never loved anyone like you, well help
posted by
hugz_n_kisses
on August 13, 2004 at 4:07 PM
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Melodystar
thank you so much for reading and commenting and your advice and concern..............you are wonderful, I really do feel annoyed.......I am ok though.......I have calmed down a bit now!
and I promise I will get some rest but ..................in a little while....................thank you
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 13, 2004 at 4:06 PM
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I know that must be annoying. Just let her know gently that this is not a good time for you. Maybe if you tell HIM your not ready and if he keeps bothering you, you might not ever be ready. Good luck ask him nicely not to call now you need you space. Get some rest.
posted by
Melodystar
on August 13, 2004 at 4:00 PM
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hugz_n_kisses
oooooooooooohhhhh your clever......................hehehe
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 13, 2004 at 3:59 PM
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i dont know if you have cable or phone internet, but heres an idea, pick up and lay the receiver next to the phone
as long as you dont become too fatigued
posted by
hugz_n_kisses
on August 13, 2004 at 3:57 PM
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Symphony,
You are welcomed. 
shadow
posted by
Keshet
on August 13, 2004 at 3:56 PM
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ok shadow
thanks
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 13, 2004 at 3:54 PM
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hugz_n_kisses
thank you so much for your kind comment.............but there is no way I can sleep right now..........I am so annoyed........and can I ask a question?
if I pulled the phone out, can I still stay on the computer?........................take care thank you for eveything..
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 13, 2004 at 3:53 PM
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Symphony,
Your welcome. Hey, just call me Shadow. That happens to be my real call name by the way. 
Shadow
posted by
Keshet
on August 13, 2004 at 3:52 PM
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dear girl, pull out the phone, let your ears have some rest, nobody sshuld manipulate anyone, you dont have to take him back, its your life, your choiice
try to get some sleesp, dont think about all this, its really not your problem right now, get a good night sleep
nighty night, see you in my dreams :)
posted by
hugz_n_kisses
on August 13, 2004 at 3:49 PM
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myddrin /shadow
thank you for the advice
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 13, 2004 at 3:44 PM
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SanitySlipping
on my level....right this monent!.....................thank you
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 13, 2004 at 3:43 PM
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tremacc
yeah your right............now you put it like that........I would probably be like that with my son!........and.again your right about the locks....................I don't know whether to laugh or cry.............but fuck it.....he an'it winning!
sorry................about that out burst....................take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on August 13, 2004 at 3:42 PM
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Symphony,
I totally agree with both Sanityslipping and Tremacc. Don't let her or him force you into taking him back if that's not what you want. Call a lawyer and see what your options are at this time. Hey they give you at least one free talk. Or least they do here. shadow
posted by
Keshet
on August 13, 2004 at 3:38 PM
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Hang tough. Unplug the phone. And if I may - tell her/him when he gets another job and/or enrolled in a program (pills can be forgotten) - then call back. I'm evil
- I know. But either way keep your chin up!
And be strong!
posted by
SanitySlipping
on August 13, 2004 at 3:35 PM
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Symphony, she may understand in some small way but in the whole grand scheme of things, she will always look out for her son (baby) first. I don't think she can help herself when it comes to that. I think it's just a part of human nature. Again, consider getting the locks changed-- people can make copies, you know.
posted by
Tremac
on August 13, 2004 at 3:34 PM
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