Go to MY PERCEPTIVE REFLECTION!!
- Add a comment
- Go to DON'T TELL MY HUSBAND..............................BUT.....................
VIVA_LA_KATZE
thank you very much, that is very kind of you...............take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 24, 2004 at 2:24 AM
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what an uplifting post
I should be reading you more lmao
cheers VIVA
posted by
VIVA_LA_KATZE
on July 23, 2004 at 8:41 PM
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good morning............everyone
hope you all ok...........have a nice day....................take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 23, 2004 at 4:53 AM
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myddrin
fine by me..............I don't mind the chit chat........lol............
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 3:55 PM
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Sue????? I'm confused. Symphony sorry for the chit chat here. Sue nothing is up, just talking to Symphony. love shadow
posted by
Keshet
on July 22, 2004 at 3:54 PM
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Original_Influence
thank you I did..............but enough about me....................how are you........are you ok?............all the best and take care...look after yourself...........
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 3:52 PM
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Symphomy,
Thanks sweetie. I think that most if not all people have times in their lives that are such a challenge that it takes a all of their strength and courage and belief to succeed. The secret is all people who meet these challenges should take them and use them as stepping stones to help others also succeed. love shadow
posted by
Keshet
on July 22, 2004 at 3:51 PM
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Looks like fun!
Glad you had a good time!
posted by
Original_Influence
on July 22, 2004 at 3:47 PM
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myddrin, what's up now?
posted by
Star5_
on July 22, 2004 at 3:37 PM
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myddrin
I wish your future a happy one and I wish you all the luck in the world, look after yourself and purr, and stay positive.............you are a great person............take care and all the best
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 3:28 PM
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Symphony,
That's the best suggestion I can offer. I just don't know the system enough to advise on this. Symphony, thank you and God bless you. You will see the results of this one day, I promise this. shadow
posted by
Keshet
on July 22, 2004 at 3:25 PM
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myddrin
I have sent paypal an email..............see if they can help..................take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 3:22 PM
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Laura-V
"thank you.".........................LOL.............take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 3:18 PM
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(Thanks Symphony)
posted by
Laura-V
on July 22, 2004 at 3:14 PM
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Shadow-Just sent it again-and I have to get off the computer. Email me back if you did/didn't get it!
posted by
Laura-V
on July 22, 2004 at 3:13 PM
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Symphony: Poor man. Silly man.
posted by
Laura-V
on July 22, 2004 at 3:07 PM
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Shadow, no problem.
posted by
Laura-V
on July 22, 2004 at 3:07 PM
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Laura-V
I know what a cheek......huh?..............he is at home now...................and giving me the cold shoulder..........like I care, when I have my friends to keep me company........lol...............it is 11.00pm.......now
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 2:59 PM
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Laura,
I can't find anything wrong with system, but I've turned of the AOL messenger. Do you mind resending the e-mail. shadow
posted by
Keshet
on July 22, 2004 at 2:58 PM
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Hey Symphony: How's your hangover? Can't believe hubbie was waiting up for you to complain...
posted by
Laura-V
on July 22, 2004 at 2:57 PM
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hello laura
how are you?..............take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 2:54 PM
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mariantonia
thank you very much that is a great remedy,.................you are great..........I will remember this next time I am out...........because I am over the worst...........lol
thanks again..........take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 2:52 PM
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Laura,
That's earthlink, but I installed a free copy of AOL messenger and that might be delaying it. Let me check it out. shadow.
posted by
Keshet
on July 22, 2004 at 2:48 PM
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Shadow, I sent it off of Blogit, so I don't know where it went.
posted by
Laura-V
on July 22, 2004 at 2:44 PM
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Laura,
If you sent it to yahoo I haven't looked at that in a while. If you sent it to bellsouth then it should have come back. If you sent it to earthlink then no because I haven't had any e-mail in last few minutes. shadow
posted by
Keshet
on July 22, 2004 at 2:41 PM
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Symphony,
Ask Quirkyalone or Temple. They know more about paypal than I do. I've never used it until the other day and I had a easy time just following the directions to set the thing up. Hey, just because you are blonde doesn't make you any less smarter. Hell, I'm a redhead and I don't have a bad temper, well most of the time. LOL shadow
posted by
Keshet
on July 22, 2004 at 2:39 PM
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About your question regarding hangovers - you need to detoxify your body. Flush out the alcohol toxins. Try real fruit and veggie juices, plenty of water. No caffeine, tea. These absorb water and slow down the detox process. Grind/blender the greens for your juices or buy from store. Get ready to go toilet maybe few times.
If you had aromatherapy oils in hand, there are many for detox - common is lavendar (multi-purpose).
Any oil medicated oil for headaches / sniffing will also help to clear the head a bit.
At point of drinking, you should have eaten dry foods like dry biscuits, ckaes to help absorb the alcohol, to reduce the drunkeness.
Good luck.
posted by
mariantonia
on July 22, 2004 at 2:38 PM
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(Hi Symphony)
posted by
Laura-V
on July 22, 2004 at 2:35 PM
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shadow-did you get my email?
posted by
Laura-V
on July 22, 2004 at 2:35 PM
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Symphony,
Its a international system. I think you can only use a card. Might want to ask palpay they have a direct e-mail for questions like this and can explain better than I can. Hell, I'm not even sure yet how to take money out of the system. I'll need to contact them about that should people start sending money. shadow
posted by
Keshet
on July 22, 2004 at 2:34 PM
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I want to help a friend in need
I am just thick when it comes to technology..........but im blonde they say.............lol...............
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 2:34 PM
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also the money is different
does that make any difference through paypal...........?
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 2:32 PM
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Symphony,
Just go to paypal and I guess hit send money and put in the address for me which is myddrin15@yahoo.com and I think it explains. I've never used the system until a couple of days ago, so not sure, but it should explain. Hey sweetie, unless you really have money to spare, then I'd rather you take care of your babies, o.k. I know things have been hard lately for you and I always make exceptions never to expect those who are in as much need as I am to help. It's very much appreciated, but the friendship and your babies well being means just as much. love shadow
posted by
Keshet
on July 22, 2004 at 2:32 PM
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thats so sad
how do I send money through paypal..............I have a paypal account...so if you could tell me what I need to do please.............thanks
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 2:25 PM
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Symphony,
Its a combination here. Yes, the money is what I need the most to get to a place for a job and home and car. I have made posts, so has Temple, Quirky, you-look-fabulous, and Sue. I figure if I had money to blow on a happy meal from McDonald's and I could take that what? $4.00 and help save a fellow blogger from being homeless, then I'd gladly give it and double it. But, then there are people who are just in about as bad of a shape themselves. I'm thinking about another blog to post later today. I have the paypal acct. and that's mentioned in this last post. I also have to understand and not feel too disappointed simply because I'm sure that a lot of folks don't really believe I'm in such a sad state. That's normal. People don't trust strangers anymore. shadow
posted by
Keshet
on July 22, 2004 at 2:20 PM
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myddrin
have you mentioned it to the blogit cafe?.......................I'm sure many people want to help you, like I really do, I just read your post, I think maybe you should make it clear on what you want........because I am not sure if you are asking for requests for jobs, somewhere to stay, or you need money, ..................I love to help a dear friend in trouble..........take care..
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 2:11 PM
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Symphony,
Thanks sweetie I apprectiate it. I'd love to get suggestions from folks here about where to go and what jobs are available. I was hoping that my posts along with the other posts from dear blogger friends asking for help for me would bring in suggestions if nothing else. Time is getting crucial for me. shadow
posted by
Keshet
on July 22, 2004 at 2:08 PM
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myddrin
It is so unfair..................I wish I could help you..............and reach you and give you a great big hug.........you do not derserve this..........and no your right, I had not a clue about all that............I be thinking of you and wishing you luck........take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 2:02 PM
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Symphony,
Wished I could come to London to. You know it's mostly because I live in Tennessee that this is happening don't you? No, guess you don't. Tennessee is the worst state in the union for giving help and offering aid to people. Especially single women with no children. Now if this had happened in say California, then I would be getting plenty of aid, but not here. That's why I'm trying to migrate out. Problem is finding a place to get shelter until I can get a job and a car. shadow
posted by
Keshet
on July 22, 2004 at 1:56 PM
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myddrin
it is totally unfair that you can not get any help, from anywhere...........London has welfare and homless for emergency cases like yours, and they also find you a job by the job centre, do they not have any of these?.............I have never travelled and have no idea how other's live etc.................I wish you could come here some way..............
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 1:50 PM
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Symphony,
Don't say that, please don't say come to London. My God woman, I've been trying to get to London since I was 12 years old! If I only had that kind of luck and fortune I'd be on the first plane and never look back. Well, things are not great in the money department yet. Still can't find a job here, but most of the jobs are not sit down or light duty clerical type. Its mostly factory here same as where I lived before. Need a large city to migrate to where there is more a variety. Thing is need money to move to a large city. It's just a never ending circle seems like. shadow
posted by
Keshet
on July 22, 2004 at 1:44 PM
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myddrin
don't say that...............how are things going......are they no better?..................I feel for you I really do, ....come to london.............im sure your be able to find something here.......
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 1:37 PM
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Symphony,
Great! Lets hope home isn't a box under the bridge per say. Wonder how much trouble I will get in for running a phone line in for the computer? heehee shadow
posted by
Keshet
on July 22, 2004 at 1:34 PM
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myddrin
...........if I ever get there I will defiently look you up.....................where you thinking?.............lol
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 1:31 PM
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So right, and if you ever get to the states, look me up. I know how to have fun! shadow
posted by
Keshet
on July 22, 2004 at 1:29 PM
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myddrin
cos girls just wanna have fun.................................lol
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 1:27 PM
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Hubby sounds like he needs to have a good hard kick in the rear. Hey, even the girls need to play now and then, right. shadow
posted by
Keshet
on July 22, 2004 at 1:25 PM
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Vibrance222
thank you very much for reading and commenting...............enjoy your night............take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 1:19 PM
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wild night he/
ok...good fun read!
posted by
Vibrance
on July 22, 2004 at 1:09 PM
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tbgroucho
sounds very interesting.................maybe we should move this post somewhere elae like erm the m/a section..........lol
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 8:54 AM
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oh probably i could
but i'd rather be a man of action than talk!tg
posted by
tbgroucho
on July 22, 2004 at 8:52 AM
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tbgroucho
lol.......................you could say some more than that..........yeah? no?....................ok
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 8:51 AM
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i think i'd say something like this, symphony
well, that will teach you to send in your census form LATE! tg
posted by
tbgroucho
on July 22, 2004 at 8:48 AM
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tbgroucho
lol............I have no idea why that photo looks blurry it looks ok to me...............lol
yeah I carry you home..............with me......but could you explain to my husband.................lol
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 8:33 AM
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neither do we see -- that pic was too blurry! LOL
you might have stayed w/me, but I might have been passed out in some other corner of the bar, knowing my dumb luck! Couldn't ask ya to carry me back to your place, now! tg
posted by
tbgroucho
on July 22, 2004 at 8:30 AM
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man-boy
you always make me feel special...........and loved.............you are too kind.................I will watch that film........thank you so much for reading so many of my posts.......and helping me through so much, I love you...take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 8:30 AM
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tbgroucho
lol...................in that case would I of stayed with you.?..........lol............................thank you for your wonderful compliment................although I do not see what you are all seeing.............take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 8:28 AM
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Watch the movie
you talked about in the other post. What can it hurt? Be confident that you yourself are a treasure whatever situation you are in. Your husband needs to know that he does not control you. That is not the actions of a consc iously caring and loving spouse. Maybe you are meant to stay in this relationship? For love? For the kids? It doesn't matter. You are a human being and you don't just have needs, you have rights. I am not trying to incite you to anything but awareness of what you really, really want. You are loved. I love you Sister.

posted by
man-boy
on July 22, 2004 at 8:14 AM
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looks like the photog was drunk too -- or maybe I am!
glad you had a good time! Man-boy is right about your hubby -- he doesn't recognize a diamond when he sees one! Cheers to ya! tg
ps if i'd been buying drinks you might not have made it home
tg
posted by
tbgroucho
on July 22, 2004 at 8:12 AM
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scriber
thank you.............so much............yes I had great fun...............I felt alive.................take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 8:07 AM
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man-boy
thank you so much you are so sweet, you are right about my little treasure but I see them every single day and it was so nice to be free, of being a mother and a wife.............I loved the freedoom..........i'm not sure if anyone would want me anyhow...............thats why I probaly stay with my hubbie, I am scared of being left on the shelf..............thank you for all your wonderful compliments and advice.............you are great....take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 8:06 AM
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hi symphony--you are cute, really the best picture I've seen of you. And
you obviously was having fun. Good writing with your life and loves. love scriber.
posted by
scriber
on July 22, 2004 at 8:05 AM
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Your husband is an idiot!
You are a gorgeous caring woman. Smart as hell, and wanting more than what you are currently getting from life. You're husband should be very worried. I don't know him but I think most guys would treasure a lady like you.In Vancouve more and more guys are quite willing to take up with women with kids. In England? I don't know but you have a lot to offer and your husband has some really juvenile and archaic double standards. Spend the day loving your babies. You really don't need to party to be happy. Your children are your treasures.


posted by
man-boy
on July 22, 2004 at 8:02 AM
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Meriamne
lol....................thank you.......................how naughty...huh?.................I love it..............lol..............thank you so much...take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 7:53 AM
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Symphony,
It's about time you got out and about! That husband of yours is just going to have to face the facts. It's your turn! Oh, and I love the pic. Rawwwrrr! Hubba-hubba. Heeheee :)
posted by
myrrhage_
on July 22, 2004 at 7:41 AM
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Gheeghee
thank you so much, you are so kind, I am hoping to get stronger and firmer..........with all you behind me I am sure it will come a day....................thank you so much for everything..................take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 7:39 AM
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Girl, this is not a bad thing, and you are great for doing it!
You are a gorgeous person with a great spirit, and it's about time you see it in yourself! I for one look forward to seeing you get stronger~ you are an inspiration, and keep it all up!
Gina
posted by
Gheeghee
on July 22, 2004 at 7:35 AM
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Tapsel-T
thats a lovely thing to say..............thank you you are so kind and sweet, you are wonderful..............thank you so much........take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 7:31 AM
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SYMPHONY
You have so many qualities: sweet personality, youth, beauty, good figure, etc. How can your husband not be concerned, worried, jealous when you go out on the night with other people? Mine would have had a hemorrhage.
posted by
TAPS.
on July 22, 2004 at 7:28 AM
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Melodystar
thank you very much............I am hoping for many more..............take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 22, 2004 at 7:26 AM
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I am so very happy that you had a good night! You deserved it! Take care and have many more!
posted by
Melodystar
on July 22, 2004 at 7:26 AM
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