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Original_Influence
thank you very much for reading and commenting and sharing you are very kind..........take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 9, 2004 at 5:07 AM
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Symphony,
Continue to be strong...we all deal with our pain in our own way...
and I think I would be much like your sister...she doesn't want to feel any comfort right now...but later.
posted by
Original_Influence
on July 9, 2004 at 4:59 AM
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Ca88andra
thank you for reading and commenting..................take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 9, 2004 at 12:59 AM
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I think your sister just needs to know you are there for her. She might not be ready to let go or grieve yet.
posted by
Ca88andra
on July 8, 2004 at 4:44 PM
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myddrin
you are so great........do you know that?..........
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 8, 2004 at 2:04 PM
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We love you and always feel free to call us if you need to talk. Shadow
posted by
Keshet
on July 8, 2004 at 1:59 PM
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myddrin
thank you so much, I would love to have some time for myself, but I don't get any, there is not enough hours in a day, but my day will come when I am giving a break again, thank you for everything, I feel a lot better now, so no need to worry about me, thank you..........you are wonderful
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 8, 2004 at 1:56 PM
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Symphony,
Ka is completely correct in getting rest, nurishing food, and it never hurts to soak in a hot tub, plenty of bubbles, candlelight, and soft music of choice. If you can just kinda let your body float and listen to the music playing. Do this after the stick battle or will need another hot soak. Love ya sweetie, Shadow
posted by
Keshet
on July 8, 2004 at 1:54 PM
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katray
thank you ever so much that really is a lovely supporting advice that is greatly appriecated, I cant thank you enough, I cant thank you all enough, I have so many wonderful friends here, thank you.......you are all so kind
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 8, 2004 at 1:52 PM
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Symphony,
Shadow's advice is excellent. Sometimes too many burdens, out of our control, weigh us down to the point of collapse. Vent all you can. I would also add try to get more rest and relaxtion and be sure to eat right. Things as simple as cranking up my favorite music and dancing around wildly have helped me. Warm baths, which are a good time to release by weeping and wailing have worked too. You must take the time to revive yourself; if you don't you won't be much good for anyone else. Take care dear friend and remember you are a caring, involved person who is trying her best under very difficult situations. I wish I could offer advice to your sister, but never having been through what she is faced with, I feel unqualified to say much. Except perhaps enlisting the help of professionals - clergy, a doctor and/or therapist. Thoughts, hugs and prayers sent your way.
posted by
Katray2
on July 8, 2004 at 1:49 PM
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thank you everyone
I am feeling little bit better now for getting all that out, I am ok..................take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 8, 2004 at 1:48 PM
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myddrin
thanks that is great advice, ...........take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 8, 2004 at 1:47 PM
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Gheeghee
thank you so much
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 8, 2004 at 1:46 PM
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EccentricShock
thank you so much............have a nice day...take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 8, 2004 at 1:46 PM
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AngieK
thank you very much............thanks for reading and commenting and for the advice.........
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 8, 2004 at 1:45 PM
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Symphony,
Don't hold the anger and fustration inside. You will only feel worse instead of better. Go find you a nice sturdy stick and a stone, a rock, or wall and just beat the shit out of both. Oh, wear padded gloves if you have them. While you are beating just scream and cry and do a jig and don't stop until you feel that the fustration has lifted some. Take as many trips to the rock as needed per your doctor's (Shadow that is) approval. Love you Shadow
posted by
Keshet
on July 8, 2004 at 1:21 PM
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My deepest sympathy for your loss
vent it out, that's what we're all here for...
posted by
Gheeghee
on July 8, 2004 at 1:04 PM
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maxine
i am so sorry for your family. i was astounded and extremely sad when I read about Bradley. As long as your sister knows that you are there to fall back on, that is about all you can offer - support and love. it is just awful, if he were an only child i could imagine she wouldn't want to go on. Her other children will pull her through it. Ppl she doesn't even know are pulling for her! 
xoxo
posted by
EccentricShock
on July 8, 2004 at 12:58 PM
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Symphony,
if I was your sister, I might not recover from such an event. This is not something you can do anything about for her, and although you want to make her feel better, you should not feel guilty for not succeeding. We all must seperate the things we have control over from the things we don't, and do the best we can. There are things that could happen to me, and I know I wouldn't make it. But it's nobody's fault. Maybe you should join a therapy group where you can learn to vent, outloud, around people who are going through the same things. I wish I could help you, but that's not enough. What you are going through is HUGE, bigger than just venting through writing. I'm just trying to be helpful, lot's of prayers for you. Take care
posted by
Flumpystalls3000
on July 8, 2004 at 11:53 AM
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Melodystar
thank you
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 8, 2004 at 9:30 AM
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Let it all out, it will make you feel better. I did the same thing last night. Take care.
posted by
Melodystar
on July 8, 2004 at 9:05 AM
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