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Melodystar
thanks for reading, commenting and sharing..............have a nice day..............take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 1, 2004 at 4:43 PM
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Gheeghee
that indeed made me think.......you are clever that was put into perspective that could be indeed true...........thank you .........God I am dum..................would you like to teach me a thing or too........honestly that makes sense....................take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 1, 2004 at 4:40 PM
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You can't help but to trust people until they dont deserve it. I do it all the time. Take care.
posted by
Melodystar
on July 1, 2004 at 4:38 PM
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wow, are you sure he's not the ex I just dumped????
That is a classic move. Let's see if I can get some sympathy. Maybe he hoped you'd call his girl and tell her you saw her. I'd lay a 20 down that he hopes she calls him to ream him, which will give him the chance to sweet-talk her back to him.
Yeez. Some men are just toads...don't let him get you down, honey. He's not worth your little toe.
posted by
Gheeghee
on July 1, 2004 at 4:29 PM
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Meriamne
thank you so much but don't you worry about me, you worry about yourself and help you, it is perfectly understandable why you have not been here, I hope you are ok I am still here for you when ever you need me, take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 1, 2004 at 11:34 AM
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mysteria
thanks for reading and commenting...............take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 1, 2004 at 11:33 AM
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tremacc
thank you tremacc for reading and commenting...................take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on July 1, 2004 at 11:32 AM
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Maxine,
I am so sorry sweetie! I've been so wrapped up in my own life and my own pain, that I did not even notice you were going through this horrible thing. I will pray for you and your family, and hope for better days for you all. You will get through this, though it's hard to believe that now. I wish I had something better to offer in the way of comfort. Just know that you have friends here who love you and wish you all the best in the world.
Meriamne 
posted by
myrrhage_
on July 1, 2004 at 8:17 AM
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moochies sweet synphony I feel a pal tone ringing love myssty
posted by
mysteria
on July 1, 2004 at 2:33 AM
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He didn't want you to think less of him I imagine than he already thought of himself...
posted by
Tremac
on June 30, 2004 at 3:02 PM
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MariVye
thank you for sharing, reading and commenting............and thanks for understanding .......take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 30, 2004 at 1:42 PM
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man-boy
thank you so much for sharing, you must of indeed feel embaressed when you never even realised, it is a shame people have to behave like this, thank you so much for reading and commenting..........take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 30, 2004 at 1:41 PM
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MiaElla
thanks for sharing..........take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 30, 2004 at 1:39 PM
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jamryn
yes you are right thank you for commenting...............take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 30, 2004 at 1:39 PM
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scriber
it sure is...............take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 30, 2004 at 1:38 PM
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To be trusting is a good thing - it means you are willing to believe the best about people and willing to believe in them. This is a beautiful thing - there is not enough of that in this world. Though, I know how you feel about being too trusting - you can get hurt over and over again - but, I believe that is better than being hard-hearted and uncaring ~
posted by
MariVye
on June 30, 2004 at 9:18 AM
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Hello lass!
He didn't want you to think badly of him. That is his world. I agree with Original Influence that you should not let yourself be put down by this. Your innocense becomes you. I try to take things at face value and sometimes it can cause a situation. When I was at Chef's school a group of guys referred to another guy as Chip. So when he came up to the table one day I called him Chip as I was talking to him. There was an embarrassed silence and one guy took me aside and said 'was I racist? They called him Chip when he wasn't around as in chocolate chip." The man was black and this was what they called him behind his back. I didn't let this bother me. I know Iam not racist. It just showed me that these were people I wanted nothing to do with. And after that I didn't. And "Chip" didn't seem mad at me he smiled when we crossed pathes. Hang on to your innocent nature and pass it on to your kids. Take care sweets.
posted by
man-boy
on June 30, 2004 at 8:38 AM
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You especially . . .
can't trust people if you have a good heart...cheers!
posted by
MiaElla
on June 30, 2004 at 8:09 AM
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People some times tell you
what THEY think you want to hear. It's not so much his being honest or not with you. The sad part is his being dis-honest with himself.
posted by
jamryn
on June 30, 2004 at 6:46 AM
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hi symphony--right, it's difficult to understand or believe some people. l.
posted by
scriber
on June 30, 2004 at 6:38 AM
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littlemspickles
thank you very much, it is very hard to trust peole, I loved your comment especially about getting a bull shit detector, as I would love one of those...........lol..........thank you take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 30, 2004 at 6:31 AM
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myddrin
wow thanks myddrin I never thought of it that way, you may be right, thank you and take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 30, 2004 at 6:29 AM
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Jay9
yes it is very sad, especailly as I believed him so I am sad too..............thank you for reading and commenting.....take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 30, 2004 at 6:28 AM
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Original_Influence
thank you so much, yeah that kinda makes sense, men do have to much pride.........thank you so much take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 30, 2004 at 6:27 AM
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tbgroucho
I cant say I know him anymore to know what is wrong with him..............thank you for reading and take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 30, 2004 at 6:26 AM
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It is a shame when
people feel the need to lie. I won't even try to work out why he did. The sad thing is, as you pointed out it means that it becomes harder to trust people - that is truly sad. It is so nice when you don't have to analyse everything and just take things on face value. I often get tripped up by the people I care about the most, but I still trust because if you don't, you become bitter and resentful. To trust though, you need to be resilient and/or have a strong bullshit detector!
posted by
littlemspickles
on June 30, 2004 at 6:12 AM
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Symphony,
It's very hard to be lied to such as he has done. Original's words are so correct in this situtation. People who allow themselves to loose total control and walk a path of destruction need only support and love. They always attempt to hide their mistakes because of the shame. And, who knows, maybe this meeting was a sign that you can now renew the lost friendship with the girl friend. Shadow
posted by
Keshet
on June 30, 2004 at 5:51 AM
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You are not gullible for believing him. Maybe the drugs have fried his
brain so crispy that he still thinks he is with Penny, maybe he really believes they are having a baby.Very sad.
posted by
Jay9
on June 30, 2004 at 5:44 AM
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Symphony,
Poor chap probably felt ashamed and tried to say something that he thought would make him look better in your eyes...shoulda just told the truth but that is so hard for some men. Don't let it make you feel badly, he doesn't deserve that much control over your emotions! Hang in there-you are one fine woman!
posted by
Original_Influence
on June 30, 2004 at 5:24 AM
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probably not entirely coherent
mind all screwed up, my guess. tg
posted by
tbgroucho
on June 30, 2004 at 5:13 AM
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