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posted by
_Symphony_
on July 3, 2004 at 11:31 AM
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symphony
dear. I am so sorry.

My heart is with you and yours.

xoxoxoxoxo IT is awfully sad, I don't know what to say other than I am so extremely sorry for your loss. xoxoxoxoxoxo take care maxine.
posted by
EccentricShock
on July 3, 2004 at 11:30 AM
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thank you everyone for your kind words and support
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 29, 2004 at 3:20 AM
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Hey Symphony! I am so sorry that this terrible tragedy has hit your family.
Know that you are in my thoughts. I don't have words to console you but I'd like to send you a giant hug... here it comes, look out!!!
posted by
Jay9
on June 29, 2004 at 1:08 AM
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symphony,
You DID know who to turn to and you DO have someone to talk to . . . your friends here.
You can see how many of us care and want to help in any way they can; some of us are praying others are trying to comfort in the only way we can -- through our words.
You're right to be angry and you're right to feel the pain but, in the end, you need to shake it all off and be as strong as you can for your sister's sake.
Keep talking to us and use us as a resource.
posted by
HarveyG
on June 28, 2004 at 8:27 PM
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hey symphony, sorry to know everything, how is it now.
I hope your family is ok.
my prayers with you darling, i was working all weekend and didn't know anything . I am keeping youand family in my prayers.
love,
sue
posted by
Star5_
on June 28, 2004 at 8:19 PM
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Symphony,
Hang in there darling, it's okay to feel like doing nothing and to be so sad- for now. Know that so many of us here do care for you and are praying for you and your family...Don't think that God hates you but rather that He only gives us what we have the strength to bear, even if we don't want it. Keep writing...it will help you get through this.
posted by
Original_Influence
on June 28, 2004 at 3:35 PM
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Symphony
I'm at a total loss for words. But I just wanted to let you know I'm thinking about you. Sub.
posted by
Subpenny1
on June 28, 2004 at 1:44 PM
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I will continue to keep your family in my prayers...
It is really hard to know what to say in a situation such as yours. My family has lost at least 8 of its members, including my mother, since 1996. It's hard to cope, but don't think for a minute that God is punishing you or your family. We do not know why these things happen, but just hang in there and keep praying.
posted by
word.smith
on June 28, 2004 at 12:06 PM
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Symphony,
Oh sweetie, we all love you and I am praying so hard for you to stay strong and not to blame yourself or God. If there is anything at all I can do you let me know. I'm here for you.
Shadow
posted by
Keshet
on June 28, 2004 at 11:44 AM
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Oh Symphony, I'm sitting here with tears streaming...how heartbreaking...I cannot begin to imagine the pain and grief, just know your friends here are praying and grieving for you and your family. Hugs and love.
posted by
Katray2
on June 28, 2004 at 11:37 AM
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Like all your freinds Symphony, I wish...
I had some way of comforting you. I am reaching my arms around the world in the form of a prayer for you and your family. I pray that your husband can be the shoulder for you to lean on now. And always. 
Please know that you nor anyone in your family is a bad person. Truly bad people are actually quite rare I have found. Nobody who cares as you obviously do will go uncomforted in some fundamental way. 

posted by
man-boy
on June 28, 2004 at 11:26 AM
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I know it is hard to understand Gods love
in such circumstances... I myself lost all 3 sisters and my mom to cancer in a 10 year period.... you want to die yourself.... but when you look back and see how you've come through it all you will understand,
posted by
homegirl
on June 28, 2004 at 11:11 AM
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Just hang in there, symphony...
Grieving takes time. We are here for you.
posted by
ksurah
on June 28, 2004 at 11:08 AM
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Laura-V
thank you so much, its so nice to hear that so many care and offer there support, i really apprieciate it, and I understand those who do not comment, I wont hold it against them, thank you so much.
thank you everyone I love you all so much
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 28, 2004 at 9:36 AM
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ksurah
thank you so much for your advice, it make s great sense but I feel like doing nothing right now, i no that is the wrong attitude but I just don't know...........but thank you
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 28, 2004 at 9:34 AM
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tbgroucho
you are such a wonderful person.............thank you ever so much
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 28, 2004 at 9:33 AM
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thank you so much WHAMENATOR
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 28, 2004 at 9:32 AM
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Symphony, you are right. Many people don't know what to say so they won't leave comments. So, take the number of people and that have, multiply by 30 and that's probably close to the number of people that have you in their hearts and thoughts today.
posted by
Laura-V
on June 28, 2004 at 9:30 AM
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Symphony, I am so sorry for your loss...
I think losing a child is that hardest thing to go through. Please seek grief counseling for your family; it may be the greatest gift your family can receive. Brad would not want your family to fall apart any more than it has. Perhaps if you all lay your emotions on the table you can all heal. It will take a lot of time, though. Please don't lose hope. Keep writing and sharing your feeling amongst your friends here, too. I will keep praying for your family.
posted by
ksurah
on June 28, 2004 at 9:19 AM
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maxine
just speak to the children from the heart. You have to be honest (yet somehow reassuring -- not an easy balance. I'm sure you'll get some good advice here. I must be going but I'll share some more from my family experience later.

tg
posted by
tbgroucho
on June 28, 2004 at 9:15 AM
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Symphony.....I am so sorry for what you are going through. Hang in there,
and know that a lot of us are praying for you!
Luv,
Whammie 
posted by
WHAMENATOR
on June 28, 2004 at 9:08 AM
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scriber
you are always so kind................thank you
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 28, 2004 at 8:59 AM
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thank you AngieK
thats a beautiful thing to say..................thank you so much
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 28, 2004 at 8:59 AM
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Symphony--try to go on sweetheart. We all love you. Scriber
posted by
scriber
on June 28, 2004 at 8:28 AM
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No parent should have to lose their child.
I'm so sorry for your losses. If I were an angel, I would fix things for you, but all I can do is pray for a miracle.
posted by
Flumpystalls3000
on June 28, 2004 at 8:24 AM
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