Five questions, five answers...5 by 5. My marriage is dead. I want to leave my husband and building the life for myself. I can’t do it. I feel guilty about deserting him and I have no idea where to go if I leave. What do I do? —Hallfrita Roan: Guilt serves nothing. If the relationship is over in your mind, heart and soul, you should leave. Look at it from a different perspective, Hallfrita: How would you like to be in a relationship in which you are not loved? Experiencing unrequited love is... Sign in to see full entry.