No Means Yes

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Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Can you judge someone by their friends actions?

Last week was full of ups and downs. Amongst the chaos that was my life, I had a few tiffs with Officer Bob. One that I kept going back to was actually skewed. I thought Bob was mad about me telling him too much information on Thursday (about a boy asking me out...big mistake). In reality, he is... Sign in to see full entry.

Monday, September 28, 2009

Guilty...

My purpose for writing these blogs is not to air my dirty laundry for everyone to see but to, in fact, instill lessons on all of us by witnessing the blunders I make in the dating world. I have been getting some positive feedback from most of you and I appreciate that my blogs amuse you or teach you... Sign in to see full entry.

Another side note...

I heard from Bob Friday after the crazy evening I had Thursday night. I joked about needing a spanking for my poor behavior and he agreed profusely. We had it out a little bit yesterday when I texted him about him not meeting my needs. He told me he felt like I go out too often with my girlfriends.... Sign in to see full entry.

Me, Me, Me!

I am starting to rethink the dating Officer Bob thing. It's been two weeks and I have seen him three times. One of those times being briefly while he helped me move. I am not a needy person but I feel like there is something missing here. Oh yeah...it's HIM! I understand that this week has been a... Sign in to see full entry.

Friday, September 25, 2009

MAN-scaping

This subject needs to come up and I am doing this blog for each and every girl out there who has dated a chewbacca-esque male who has no clue about MAN-scaping. So, I was dating a younger man for a while, lets call him Ted (for Teddy Bear). Ted was a very charming and smart fella who I took to right... Sign in to see full entry.

Oops I did it again...

Last night started off smooth. I was a little on edge because I hadn't had much communication with Officer Bob but Trixie took me to our favorite sushi place to take my mind off of things. We didn't have much to drink there and decided to head to a local sports bar for one or two drinks before... Sign in to see full entry.

Thursday, September 24, 2009

The Only Child...

Last night left me restless. I was very misguided as to where my heart has been as of late. I think my sole purpose for the past two weeks was to deflect any sort of commitment from this union and move forward cautious and careful as before. Since I let my guard down on Friday, I have been... Sign in to see full entry.

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Some Amberisms...

I want to take a moment to fill you in on some of the philosophies I have on the genders and how we view things. An old manager of mine once put it quite eloquently when he said "Women invest in love with their hearts, and men invest in love with their wallets". In some cases, this is actually true.... Sign in to see full entry.

Trust...

I woke up in the grumpiest mood this morning. I was having a dream about Officer Bob. I didn't mention this, but his mother is coming to visit today. His mother and he have a tumultuous relationship. He and I were at lunch on Monday when she called him back after he has been attempting to get a hold... Sign in to see full entry.

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Lack of Faith

What a pleasant morning it has been. My online writer guy had an email waiting for me at work when I arrived. He had read my blog from yesterday and basically encouraged me to follow my heart and give Officer Bob a chance. He had some very good insight as to what I am doing wrong here. And I value... Sign in to see full entry.

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