Friday, August 19, 2005
My daughters are helpless in so many ways. I don't know why, but I have my suspcions. I saw a Dr. Phil program about a daughter who was hateful and disobedient to her mother, indulged by her father and hard working at school. That really resembled my daughers. Although they are generally not hateful... Sign in to see full entry.
Monday, August 15, 2005
My husband, my enemy
There are crisis years in a marriage and our crisis time is now. We've been married 27 years and our daughters are twenty four. My husband has spoiled Brenda rotten. He lets her do whatever she wants and has set her up in her own apartment, but he doesn't mind if she spends most of her time at home.... Sign in to see full entry.
Tuesday, August 2, 2005
My husband, my enemy
(To be continued) Sign in to see full entry.
Sex and housekeeping
When I was first married I found it easier for my husband to do the dishes because he would just wash and dry the dishes, he wouldn't wipe down the cabinets, put away all the junk on the counters, but just do the basics. Whereas when I did it, I took hours. What I should have done is taught my... Sign in to see full entry.
Saturday, July 30, 2005
Does sex occur after marriage?
I think that human beings can only hold one thought in their brains at a time. I am trying to lose weight. As long as I focus on my diet, I can lose, but if I am busy with other things then I don't plan ahead and end up being tempted to eat and fall into temptation. After a few years of marriage... Sign in to see full entry.
Sunday, July 24, 2005
Sexus Interruptus
The problem with sex in the afternoon is that the house is full of people and the phone rings and its for me and its someone I haven't seen for a year. So we talk, the mood goes away and my husband has an actual nap. I end up being late for my nail appointment. But evening brought silence and time... Sign in to see full entry.
Saturday, July 23, 2005
Sex and more sex
is what I want. But my husband works too hard and is tired when he goes to bed. I think today I'll surprise him at his nap. Sign in to see full entry.
Monday, July 11, 2005
I understand what you are saying.
This is a phrase my husband uses to say that he heard what I said, but doesn't agree. He doesn't want to start a fight or be overwhelmed by my counter arguments based on what I feel versus his arguments based on reason. So instead of stating his reasons, he says that. He says that he agrees with me... Sign in to see full entry.
Monday, March 21, 2005
Sugar Blues
When I'm depressed or feeling bad, my husband bothers me a whole lot more. What I wrote yesterday is true, but it isn't as important as I make it sound when I am feeling depressed. I went on a very strict low carb, reduced salt diet. I think not having sugar has made me very irritable, just like... Sign in to see full entry.
Sunday, March 20, 2005
Marriage is difficult.
I feel that what makes our marriage work is that I work to maintain it. My husband just does what he wants. He doesn't consider whether what he is doing now is working or not. He is kind and does a lot for me, but he isn't thoughtful. He goes by a set of principals rather than relating to me. In... Sign in to see full entry.