https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Make2short8621/After twenty some years of marriage, a certain percentage of couples divorce. Why? Perhaps they've had enough of their spouse's annoying behaviors and a failure to meet some needs and wants.hourly12000-01-01T12:00+00:00https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Make2short8621/288067My daughters are helpless in so many ways. I don't know why, but I have my suspcions. I saw a Dr. Phil program about a daughter who was hateful and disobedient to her mother, indulged by her father and hard working at school. That really resembled my daughers. Although they are generally not...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Make2short8621/286489There are crisis years in a marriage and our crisis time is now. We've been married 27 years and our daughters are twenty four. My husband has spoiled Brenda rotten. He lets her do whatever she wants and has set her up in her own apartment, but he doesn't mind if she spends most of her time at...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Make2short8621/281944(To be continued)https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Make2short8621/281942When I was first married I found it easier for my husband to do the dishes because he would just wash and dry the dishes, he wouldn't wipe down the cabinets, put away all the junk on the counters, but just do the basics. Whereas when I did it, I took hours. What I should have done is taught my...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Make2short8621/281059I think that human beings can only hold one thought in their brains at a time. I am trying to lose weight. As long as I focus on my diet, I can lose, but if I am busy with other things then I don't plan ahead and end up being tempted to eat and fall into temptation. After a few years of marriage...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Make2short8621/279163The problem with sex in the afternoon is that the house is full of people and the phone rings and its for me and its someone I haven't seen for a year. So we talk, the mood goes away and my husband has an actual nap. I end up being late for my nail appointment. But evening brought silence and...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Make2short8621/278750is what I want. But my husband works too hard and is tired when he goes to bed. I think today I'll surprise him at his nap.https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Make2short8621/274788This is a phrase my husband uses to say that he heard what I said, but doesn't agree. He doesn't want to start a fight or be overwhelmed by my counter arguments based on what I feel versus his arguments based on reason. So instead of stating his reasons, he says that. He says that he agrees with...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Make2short8621/240382When I'm depressed or feeling bad, my husband bothers me a whole lot more. What I wrote yesterday is true, but it isn't as important as I make it sound when I am feeling depressed. I went on a very strict low carb, reduced salt diet. I think not having sugar has made me very irritable, just like...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Make2short8621/240060I feel that what makes our marriage work is that I work to maintain it. My husband just does what he wants. He doesn't consider whether what he is doing now is working or not. He is kind and does a lot for me, but he isn't thoughtful. He goes by a set of principals rather than relating to me. In...