A Lifetime of Holy Relationship

By Shams-i-Heartsong - About Me - E-mail this page - Add to My Favorites - Add to Blog List - See other blogs in Relationships

Saturday, May 5, 2018

If all relationships are holy why ...

If all relationships are holy why... is the Holy Relationship of coupling so difficult? Course in Miracles Answer: Couples tend to have as their goal a 'special relationship' rather than a 'holy relationship. The special relationship has destructive properties like: exclusivity bordering on ownership dominant / submissive connections conceived to exist only in time creates dependencies is based on conditional love is a contract rather than a covenant takes no account of selfishness and ego The... Sign in to see full entry.

posted by Shams-i-Heartsong at 1:18 PM | add or view comments (2) | leave calling card | link to this | view only this entry

Sunday, April 29, 2018

All Relationships are Holy

It goes without saying, doesn't it? Ig we are God's children, is there anyone unworthy of a loving, holy and sacred relationship? Think about this next time you are in a long Wal-Mart line. Sign in to see full entry.

posted by Shams-i-Heartsong at 2:55 AM | add or view comments (0) | leave calling card | link to this | view only this entry

Monday, April 2, 2018

Lovemaking Part 6

The secret to good, even great sex is making love 24/7. Sign in to see full entry.

posted by Shams-i-Heartsong at 8:08 AM | add or view comments (1) | leave calling card | link to this | view only this entry

Saturday, March 10, 2012

The Lovemaking Barometer Part Four

If your partner is avoiding sexual intimacy, I guarantee there are unspoken issues between you (as well as a few spoken ones). Making love is only truly possible when there is loving trust and harmony between two people. (This post is unfinished...check back for more....) Sign in to see full entry.

posted by Shams-i-Heartsong at 12:52 PM | add or view comments (1) | leave calling card | link to this | view only this entry

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Part 3 (Lovemaking as Barometer)

Part 3 (Lovemaking as Barometer) Let me begin by expressing my disappointment that no one from FanBox has tried my relationship exercise (see part 2). Or, at least, no one has shared any results in the comments section. I believe the results from this little couple encounter can be amazing. If one wants to experience an incredible boost to their love-life, this exercise is a total gift! OK, enough said. What is love-making at its best? It is, very simply, the most profound experience of human... Sign in to see full entry.

posted by Shams-i-Heartsong at 4:32 AM | add or view comments (1) | leave calling card | link to this | view only this entry

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Part 2 (Lovemaking as Barometer)

Part 2 (Lovemaking as Barometer) So What's Not Being Shared Between You Time to sit together and take turns fessing up and sharing those little fears and resentments. Try this for a fill-in-the-blank: "I create the feelings of: (describe your feelings) when you.... (describe the partner's behavior)...." + + = + + I invite you to share some results in the comments section.... = = + = = Sign in to see full entry.

posted by Shams-i-Heartsong at 7:42 AM | add or view comments (1) | leave calling card | link to this | view only this entry

Sunday, February 12, 2012

Is making love a good barometer of relationship health?

Is making love a good barometer of relationship health? I believe this is a critical question in relationships. While it is absolutely true, that sex is not a sufficient basis for a relationship, I would suggest that is is an excellent barometer of the health of a relationship. If you are in a significant relationship now, think about your love life. Are you getting enough? Is it qualitatively to your satisfaction? If you answered yes to both questions, you can stop reading. You are in a great... Sign in to see full entry.

posted by Shams-i-Heartsong at 7:13 AM | add or view comments (4) | leave calling card | link to this | view only this entry

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Journal Entry 7

Now, we are together again and it feels soooo fuckin good!!!! We are each looking at our own stuff and there is a hopefulness that we may be able to change and grow a bit; each of us. I so believe that we can get to a place where issues come up hardly at all and when they do, they are handled so quickly and effectively as to be the minor bumps that they are. Sign in to see full entry.

posted by Shams-i-Heartsong at 3:04 AM | add or view comments (0) | leave calling card | link to this | view only this entry

Monday, August 29, 2011

Journal Entry 6

I will continue my practices of forgiveness and healing. It is all I have right now... my only hopefulness. Ah, Em I love you so deeply! Ya Ghafur = The forgiveness that results from greater insight Ya Ghafar = The forgiveness that results from mastering my ego Ya Afuw = The forgiveness that has always existed in the Nature of the Universe Ya Jabbar = The healing that gets right down to the bone Estaforalla = the heart cry for forgiveness and help with effacing my ego The dance: With partners:... Sign in to see full entry.

posted by Shams-i-Heartsong at 5:43 PM | add or view comments (0) | leave calling card | link to this | view only this entry

Saturday, August 27, 2011

Journal Entry 5

As far as I can tell this is our only big issue and it IS big, because it is big for Em. Maybe it is out of my hands cause it is her issue and she needs to find a way – if she wants to. She has said on several occasions that she doesn't or can't so I need to continue to surrender to the possibility that we cannot go on as a couple. Oh God, I hope this is not the case. But, if it is the Universe knows better than me. I just wish she could 'see it my way' cause I believe that I know some things... Sign in to see full entry.

posted by Shams-i-Heartsong at 3:42 AM | add or view comments (0) | leave calling card | link to this | view only this entry

Headlines (What is this?)