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I think this kind of stuff is very common. My sis's and I are simular. Silence, then very present. I seem to want to talk when I am going through a hard time. They go silent. Guess that is why I blog. I need the support.
One sis thinks I am going too slow on getting on with my life and the other is in denial about my seperation.
Yes, non-judgement is what is needed. We all want to be accepted by those we love.
I think you Rock! You can be my sis anytime!
posted by
Inside_The_Purple_Purse
on June 10, 2015 at 8:09 AM
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Kabuiepie-;)~
This is a great spot to vent and you know I had 2 sisters like that, actually one with the same name as your sister love. Never mind, I love you.
posted by
WileyJohn
on June 9, 2015 at 4:07 PM
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I too, would be annoyed. I was the baby of the bunch. I had two older sisters that
always thought I was spoiled, being the youngest and the only boy. They were a pain
in the neck at times. Now a days if they bother me, I just don't speak with them.
posted by
Vermont01
on June 9, 2015 at 3:55 PM
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Perhaps as so often happens you are the only one she can now chastise. She needs this link with a kind of old world feeling, she loves you, but you are in need of her advice.
Of course it is the last thing that you need, but that`s the the rub, don`t let it worry you.
posted by
C_C_T
on June 9, 2015 at 9:51 AM
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I need to add this...and please forgive me for opening my big mouth...she may be your big Sis, but she has no right to treat you that way in front of family and quite another when you're alone. And smacking you???? NO!
She's lucky I'm not around to hear her treat you that way or even touch you.
Grrrr!!!!!
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on June 9, 2015 at 9:44 AM
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Siblings can do that so easily. They know our weaknesses and just thrust and parry until one finally explodes and then they stand back and go What????????
posted by
Annicita
on June 9, 2015 at 5:47 AM
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Kabu
I don't have any sisters to boss me around - just a couple of brothers, and we get along very well! Nothing to rant about - I almost feel deprived...
posted by
Nautikos
on June 8, 2015 at 8:11 PM
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Passive agressive...and a wee bit jealous maybe. Pain in the neck - but you have a Canadian sister right here, sweet Kabu!
posted by
adnohr
on June 8, 2015 at 7:06 PM
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I've been thrown so many darts I can't keep track anymore. Never mind. I love you.
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on June 8, 2015 at 7:02 PM
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I have known of a few people, family and non-family who would throw those verbal darts. They can be such a pain to deal with.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on June 8, 2015 at 6:35 PM
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Dart throwing people irritate me. I've known plenty of them in my lifetime and they always turn me off. There is so much better to be doing.
posted by
TAPS.
on June 8, 2015 at 6:26 PM
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I think Canada is the best place for you and Wiley. There both of you found happiness 
posted by
Chuck_E_Ibrahim
on June 8, 2015 at 5:46 PM
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So, you have a dominatrix for a big sister...
Maybe her next gift from you should be some appropriate gear.
posted by
Ciel
on June 8, 2015 at 5:45 PM
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Well I don't have brothers or sisters and have always missed that so I cannot speak to it. But I would not put up with anybody smacking me. If her e mail bothered me I would send it back with a note saying I am all grown up now, start over and write me a letter befitting that bit of information. You are a nicer person than I. I would never put up with that more than once.
posted by
Justi
on June 8, 2015 at 5:41 PM
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Sisters! What 'r ya gonna do?
I had that kind of relationship with my kid sister when we were young. She was always "right" and knew how to push my buttons. We fought like cats and dogs as children, but anyone else laid a finger on her would have to fight me, too. We've gotta love 'em, warts and all.
posted by
Pat_B
on June 8, 2015 at 5:12 PM
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