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Of course the rational thing to do would be to help others, but it takes something special to give away a cherish being and think in that way.  One would imagine the anger beneath this situation would create ill feeling.

posted by C_C_T on January 3, 2014 at 1:22 AM | link to this | reply

and yes dear friend. It is wonderful to watch Wiley as he sits over from me in his chair and coming up with some great work...for him and for us. and I am doing all and everything to encourage Wiley to keep going. He really is much better especially when he doesn't over do the physical. Nothing wrong with that brain thogh is my biggest joy...yours too I know.

posted by Kabu on January 2, 2014 at 8:59 PM | link to this | reply

I can see what you are saying, but when one's in those shoes, it's not easy

posted by Straightforward on January 2, 2014 at 6:39 PM | link to this | reply

every time i hear one of these horrific stories I think of the movie Coma

posted by Annicita on January 2, 2014 at 3:18 PM | link to this | reply

when it came to nursing Kids in our hospital where I was working, I shed a lot of tears. Older folk are easier to nurse. WE have at least had a life, good or bad,,,we had a life. Little kids dying is so tough and something like this is almost impossible for the family to understand.

posted by Kabu on January 2, 2014 at 10:43 AM | link to this | reply

PatB

A great post, I certainly agree with your thoughts and pray they do something about her.

posted by WileyJohn on January 2, 2014 at 10:36 AM | link to this | reply

A sad situation all around. I cannot imagine what her family is going through.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on January 2, 2014 at 9:54 AM | link to this | reply

Pat

This is a very, very sad situation. But apparently little Jahi is brain dead which, as far as I know, is irreversible. But maybe I'm wrong...

posted by Nautikos on January 2, 2014 at 8:09 AM | link to this | reply

Hospice provides such support.

But there are other issues, too, one of which I suspect is the mother's unwillingness to believe what authority tells her. She isn't a scientist, but she has lived in this society long enough to know that power lies, for it's own benefit, it's convenience. 

It is tragic in every way.

posted by Ciel on January 2, 2014 at 8:00 AM | link to this | reply

It is heartbreaking for parents.  They were so not ready for this.  I guess we never are.

posted by TAPS. on January 2, 2014 at 6:49 AM | link to this | reply

yes, this is such a difficult situation. i am praying that the parents and family and friends of this girl will find peace whatever decisions they make.

posted by Carolyn_Moe on January 2, 2014 at 5:03 AM | link to this | reply