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Your current approach sounds best. People can be so unpredictable; it seems best to go with the flow where other people are concerned. 
posted by
mariss9
on September 7, 2011 at 8:39 PM
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It sounds like a good path - after all you ended up in a very good place
posted by
lionreign
on September 7, 2011 at 7:57 AM
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Wonderfully written insights, Dear Kabu!
posted by
Raye09
on September 7, 2011 at 5:39 AM
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I think everyone has a story of their own and learn individual lessons through experience Kabu..I'm glad you found your true love.
posted by
shobana
on September 6, 2011 at 11:53 PM
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Of course one can get away with things easier the older one becomes. So life is not such a strain on one's temperament. One is pleased to see a sunny day. Oh I won't go on. Carry on soldier.
posted by
C_C_T
on September 6, 2011 at 11:36 PM
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I think that's a good way to live, too! I know what you mean about staying in a marriage when clearly it is over, I did a similar thing! What I like is that you never gave up on love and finally found true happiness. There are many people who search their entire lives and never find it! One thing you do know is that you never give up or give, perhaps concede a bit along the way but it makes the end all that more sweeter for me! sam
posted by
sam444
on September 6, 2011 at 9:37 PM
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Dear sweet lady. You gave the best information you had because you loved these people, now your are reaping the best for yourself. God is so good that way. He loves you and you love others and life is so much better. God bless you sweet laday!
posted by
Justi
on September 6, 2011 at 9:28 PM
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And this is so obvious, your love for all. It shows in all your posts. Of course we all think we know so much until we wake and find out how little we knew back when which only proves that even us old dogs can learn.
posted by
UtahJay
on September 6, 2011 at 8:17 PM
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"Youth admires cleverness, Age, kindness..."
posted by
Ciel
on September 6, 2011 at 7:50 PM
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I always like to listen to your words, you are a
wonderful person
posted by
Samantha39
on September 6, 2011 at 7:25 PM
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I guess the others have said it all in their comments, Kabu. I don't know who you were before, but am so very happy to know such a sweet lady now!!!
posted by
adnohr
on September 6, 2011 at 6:39 PM
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Kabu, a very wise woman is one that learns from all her experiences, it really has nothing to do with age. You, can be very old, and keep repeating the same mistakes, over, and over. You, my friend are very wise
posted by
Whisperer4U
on September 6, 2011 at 5:54 PM
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Kabuiepie-;)
Well I sure hope this guy you married this time won't cause you to make a jump to ride the rails again.
Nah, you're having too much fun here, and so am I. Besides we got this love together that is like sunrise every day.
posted by
WileyJohn
on September 6, 2011 at 4:24 PM
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You've done well and we love you...!
posted by
Ariala
on September 6, 2011 at 4:24 PM
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Today is all we have dear Grandmummy. I love you.
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on September 6, 2011 at 1:23 PM
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It is amazing all that we learn as we move through life.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on September 6, 2011 at 12:46 PM
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"Today is who I am" - more of us should adopt that attitude. We may have been shaped, scarred, or moulded by our past but ultimately it's the choices we make in the present that define us.
posted by
Troosha
on September 6, 2011 at 12:26 PM
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You wouldn't know yourself today as the wise woman you are
if that sweet spirit hadn't always been there. You are made of stardust, part of the universe, and you have every right to celebrate your daily life.
posted by
Pat_B
on September 6, 2011 at 10:40 AM
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